What should I do? (Relationship Advice)?

I have been in love with this girl for five years now. We have always been close friends, and she just broke up with her bf of a few years. Lately we have became closer then we have ever been. However, I have been trying to help her with her problems and its gotten to the point were it seems her stress becomes more stress for me. I really like her, but I have actually became ill because of all the stress. Should I try and get her to become my bf? Should I forget her and move on? If so, how? I have loved her for five years, every since we first meet in high school. She is one of the few friends, that I have left from the HS days. What do I do? I love her, but I just dont know anymore.What should I do? (Relationship Advice)?
The only thing you can do is talk to her (nobody likes talking about things anymore, I see...)


Find out why she's so stressed. Under normal circumstances, people RELIEVE their stress by talking about their problems. If, after letting her talk about her feeeeeeeelings, she's STILL stressed out, I'd say she's pretty hopeless. I don't like calling people hopeless, but there ARE people out there who like to complain about their lives just for attention and who LIKE drowning in drama.


Long story short - dating her won't make her problems disappear, regardless of how much you apparently love her.