I really need some relationship advice?

I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. I'd like to be exclusive with him, but I have a feeling that there is another girl in his picture. They live close to eachother (I live about an hour away from him) and the two of them are part of a group that rents a beach house together, so I know they are together at least all weekend. I've looked a little on her facebook and notice that when she doesnt go, he doesnt go. Just a lot of things that make me think something is going on. I've asked him if he was seeing anyone else, but he always makes jokes and avoids the question. I feel I can't possibly compete, just for the simple fact I only see him 1 day a week cause he lives so far away. Should I just drop this relationship? I really like him and things are great when we are together. Please help me.I really need some relationship advice?
trust your gut instinct. if you feel that something's wrong/fishy, then most probably something IS wrong. I was once in a similar situation to yours and I kept saying to myself that I should use my head and be logical rather than 'make up stories about my gut feeling' ...however, after a few weeks, I found out that my instinct had been right all along!





if I were you, I'd get him to talk about it. find a good time, sit down somewhere private and have a little chat. ask him your concerns, be honest and straightforward with him.





and by the way, one hour away is NOT that far away...can't you possibly meet at least twice a week?? or both of you drive half an hour and meet half way somewhere?I really need some relationship advice?
Well, first, don't feel you can't compete. That's just silly!





I don't think you should drop it, but I think you need to alter your expectations. You don't really have a relationship with him if you've only been dating 2 months and you see him once a week. That's more like a guy you're starting to date. If the situation is going to stay the same through the summer, just enjoy your time with him. Then at the end of the summer see where you're at with this and what's going to happen geographically with all 3 of you.





But don't send signs that you want exclusivity after this short of a time. You're still getting to know him, and he might think you're insecure if you do this.
Well you see long distance relationships don't work. You really should find someone closer to you and that appreciates you more. Sounds like hes just using you when he doesn't see the other girl. Good luck!

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