Sunday, December 27, 2009

Can I get some relationship advice from women please?

A guy enters a relationship with a woman from a different culture. She makes the first move and initiates intimacy because he is a bit shy and introverted around strangers, and the relationship progresses from there. In her culture women are taught to take a submissive role in a relationship and so she freely allows herself to submit to her man when the relationship gets going. He finds that he thrives on this because he can be more open and expressive with her. With this comes an emotional high and so he rewards her with love and affection. Though he's not a typically dominant personality, his new found confidence drives him to be a better person and become a stronger, fitter man so that he can be a worthy dominant partner in the relationship. Overall I think this relationship had a positive affect on his life. Recently external forces beyond their control caused them to spend less and less time together until they decided to end the relationship because it was almost impossible for them to be together. He's not over her yet. But when he's ready to start dating again, he wants to meet a woman that's closer to home so that he has a better chance at a lasting relationship. What I want to know is: Would it be ok for him to expect, or even ask for, a woman to take a submissive role in his next relationship, even though people from his cultural background don't actively promote this? I hope the women that answer this understand what I mean on this issue. I can't see him being the type to exploit his dominance in a bad way.Can I get some relationship advice from women please?
Well most women do tend to take on submissive roles when they are in love with a man and being treated like a lover and not a slave. If he is kind to her then yes but overbearingly dominant, no. However as much as women are somewhat submissive they also tend to move away when they feel like they are being controlled so I would tell him to be careful : )Can I get some relationship advice from women please?
There are plenty of women who are more comfortable in a submissive and domestic roles (I happen to be one). I compliment my aggressive and dominant boyfriend's personality very well.





By the way, I don't view my role as submissive, I view it as carrying a great deal of power and responsibility. My womanly charms will make a good man (even tough guy types) putty in my hands :) Of course this wouldn't work if I were dating a self-centered jerk and a pig who is looking for a woman to take advantage of and mistreat. (not that I'm saying you are, but there are some jerks out there who think women like me are weak and can be taken advantage of).





There are some women who do not prefer this role, and I admire them. They have every right to find a guy who is looking for that type of woman!





My main concern with what you are saying is not that you are looking for a domestic/submissive type of woman, but that you are not over your ex. You need to close that door of your life, before you can be a good partner to your new woman (when you meet her). Good luck!
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