Tuesday, December 22, 2009

I'm afraid I'll never be in a relationship...advice?

I'm 24 and have never been in a relationship. I know I'm not ';old'; but I'm way behind my peers in the department. Even my friends from high school who were horribly shy and withdrawn have had a relationship at this point. It's not just the relationship, it is also that I have barely dated and when I do date it's not fun. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but I'm worried I'll never meet someone. I don't know what to do or even what to think about it all anymore.I'm afraid I'll never be in a relationship...advice?
I felt the same way too for a while...especially after comparing myself to my friends. But then I thought about all of their relationships, which either didn't last very long or were with people that they weren't even crazy about. You might just have high standards that you're not willing to lower just for arm candy. I doubt that you're doing anything wrong. Everyone has their faults but unless you're a complete douche bag, you'll find someone eventually. And, chances are, when you ARE in a relationship, it'll be a lot more special.





Note: Even douche bags get into relationships : )I'm afraid I'll never be in a relationship...advice?
lol, don't worry bro I have two friends that started out past that age. One is doing better than me right now....and I've been dating since my mom could drive me around. The other I watched go from dork with girls to the ';ladies man';. By the end of his single career, he had girls coming up to him by doing nothing. He had spread his aura over every establishment known to man. He became the friend that I wondered if I could ever be like with the ladies.





Plenty of time, just relax....
You just haven't met the right person. I never thought that dating was fun, more like torture with all the guessing and confusion it brings. it is like an emotional rollercoaster. But when you meet a person you can really connect with you will be ok. Good luck. And 24 is still very young.
Dude..Dont worry about being in a relationship...Life doesnt require for you to love someone..If you want to find love just stay confidence

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