Thursday, December 31, 2009

I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, please?

I am having an extremely difficult time getting over a past boyfriend. We were together for about a year and a half, and spoke every day, and saw each other often. I find myself thinking about him a lot, and I just start crying at the drop of a dime. It's only been a few days, so I'm hoping it will get better, but it seems to only be getting worse.





Should I seek counseling or even consider medication? I'm just really depressed.





Or, are there other things that I could try to do to help me not be so sad? Please help: any advice would be greatly appreciated.





Thank you.I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, please?
Don't worry. In time you will forget about him. But don't expect for it to happen right away. You were with him for a year and half, so how can you forget all about him so soon. It's okay for you to cry and feel bad about your breakup. Let the tears flow, think of him, and let it all out. You will see that one day you say to yourself,';Hey I haven't thought about him at all today.'; Then you will know that you're getting over him. Stay busy. If you work, good. Go out with your friends and have a good time but don't try to start another relationship right away. Give yourself time to heal before you think of someone else. I promise things will get better. Time heals all wounds. I know. I've been through it. Give it time,honey. That's all you can do. Don't try medication yet. That should be your last resort. Good luck. Stay strong.I'm having a very hard time getting over a relationship. Any advice, please?
I have been there. the only thing that has helped me was time to get over it and realizing that i wasnt the one who messed up.

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