Okay, so my ex broke up with me said it was because he was going through a rough patch in his life and just wanted to be single. His roomate told me it was actually because I was to clingy (because hes 16 and I didnt want him to go out getting stoned and drunk I wanted him to stay over)
Was that to clingy of me ? or is he just a buthole for lying to me and choosing to go get stoned rather then be with me.
And how the heck do I stop liking him.I really need advice (relationship)?
Hi, it could be bit of both! The thing is he is in a situation where he is got the lure of going out partying with his mates, although at 16 it's not the best idea, you wanted to be the caring one and be like a boyfriend and girlfriend. He had a battle going on in his mind. On this occasion the party won over the caring and loving girlfriend.
So what to do? To stop liking him so much is a hard one, it wil take time, but to help keep this thought in mind, at the moment you feel rejected, hurt, angry and unloved, to name a few emotions, you have to regain those some how. You have to think that if was mature enough to have a long term relationship with you, then it would have been so. Your friends will be key to helping you get over him. Of course if you see him on a regular basis that might be a bit harder. But remember you are just as special, just as important as anybody else, go out and hold your head high, soon all will feel well again!
Good luck, hope this helps. Uk Personal Trainer and basic Life CoachI really need advice (relationship)?
It's hard to just stop liking someone it is a process none the less, and no you wern't clingy you are responsible and considerate. Just know he wasn't worth your efforts and remind yourself of that. Hold you head up, the more you don't notice him, the more he'll notice you. (Not always the case. but ignoring them does have an effect)
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