I need some good relationship advice from someone who has experience in dealing with someone who has to move..

My boyfriend of a year and change is getting back in his mode to get his life back on track after he had a work accident and it put him out of work for a long while.He had moved in with his mother for a while and is ready to move out and make moves again.Now the problem is,He has asked me to go with him when he moves.But my life was not together when we met and a year later sadly it still isn't I'm trying to hurry up and get my life going so we can be together,but he is telling me I took to long and now he has to move on because he has his life to get to and I will be holding him back because I'm not finacially where I need to be and I'm just getting into college. He says I'm just holding him back if he waits for me,and he just wants us to end this. He says maybe when I get my life together to give him acall.I don't want him to go on w/o me. What do I do,I'm trying hard to get myself together,but I don't want him to leave.I want him to stay w/me while I getmyself together.Wat do I do?I need some good relationship advice from someone who has experience in dealing with someone who has to move..
First, i don't think he really loves you because if he really loves you, he wouldn't have said all that-'...holding him back becuse you are not financially where you need to be'.Is it money or love that he wants from you?I believe love is the greatest of all.instead he should be able to understand your situation and stand with you, he should be supportive not to tell you that maybe you'll give him a call when you get your life together.can't he just be patient and wait for you till everything is fine?he might be trying to take advantage of your situation so that you run into his hands only to regret later.letting him go is difficult but the only advice I can give you,you'll find someone out there who will take you for who you are and the pace you are taking the situations in your life without rushing you, for somethings are beyond our control,someone who will stand with you nomatter what,someone who will love you for who you are,not what you've accomplished or what you have.