Pregnant and relationship problems. I just need some good real advice.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now. I am nine months pregnant and ready to go any day, but our relationship seems like that too. For the past few months we drifted apart more and more. We live together, but where not together all the time. Whats been going on is he leaves early in the morning with his friends, he doesnt spend time with me at all till late at night and even then hes on the computer looking at car stuff till hes ready to go to bed. We comunicate less and less every day. when i confronted him about it what he said to me is that he wants to do stuff he likes to get out of the house and be with his friends. He told me that im too emotional and so he doesnt like talking to me. He said the less we talk to better it is for us cause we wont fight. Im not using being pregnant as an excuse for being moody but it does have an effect on how i react( im nine months already a week past my due date of course im going to be emotional) He just thinks that if we are spending time together just us we arnt doing anything cause i cant go out and do what he would like to do. What am i sapposed to do!? I dont want to just sit here and keep getting ignored, and when our son is born, i dont want him to get neglected to. Please, some good advice, but dont trash talk me either. Pregnant and relationship problems. I just need some good real advice.
by what u wrote i really think that he has lost interest in u.i m sorry to say that.but if he really loves u or even care for u he would have been around u in this arguably the best and most stressful phase in a women life,i guess.i would suggest u to wait for the child to born %26amp; if u really love him %26amp; u both r ready to make an effort try a counselor, try to do things he likes,.if his attitude remain same even after all this than instead of living with a man who is only around physically and not emotionally and who loves internet more than his gf(now the mother of his child)move out of this relationship.i know it would be painful and hard but trust me its worth.Pregnant and relationship problems. I just need some good real advice.
Wait until your son is born.


If he skips out on you, you know he is no good, and there are plenty of opprotunities out there for single mothers.


and if he stays with you, you know hes a stand up guy, you two are just having a hard time.





calm down, give him some space, and pamper yourself :]
oh honey i feel for you :(


it sounds like you guys are young ? or at least he is very immature. unfortunately your scenario is pretty common and i have been there.


right now he should be at your side enjoying these last moments of it being just the two of you, and preparing for your sweet baby to come.


guys who choose to be with their ';boys'; rather than girl and child, i really wonder about that, it is so unnatural and sick.


you can try having a heart to heart with him, but you probably already have, and I'm guessing he didn't really hear what you were saying :(


do you have family and friends who can be there for you and keep you busy right now ?


he should be taking care of you physically and emotionally now and once the babe comes. he only gets one chance to do right by you guys and prove that he is worthy of you having his child, so i hope you can express to him how very important this moment in time is for both of you.


best wishes ...
he should be by your side right now helping you out as much as possible. but i bet hes just scared for whats to come. Being a dad is a big thing and its a big step for most men, when they realize they have to mature and actually take care of more then themselves for a change. I would let your son be born and im sure you bf will stand by your side for that, Then see how things go and how he is at being a parent. im sure hes just scared thats why hes acting so distant