Its very hard to criticize the situation in which you stand. Need relationship advice?

I have been in a relationship for a little over a year. We live together in my apartment. I have felt like I am just a ';pass-time'; for this guy for sometime. I have caught him a couple of times in the past actively looking for women. When i say actively---I mean--internet chat leads to texting---texting has lead to the exchanging of nude photos between him and other women---emails-----and the list goes on. We had it out. i told him that I dont share---all or nothing! He believes that all goes--so long as there is no actual ';meeting'; these women. Well, tonight I found out that it hasnt stopped; he has found better ways to hide it. What is he doing? What is happening here? I appreciate hard honesty! Please dont be nasty to me---not the time. Thanks


12 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.Its very hard to criticize the situation in which you stand. Need relationship advice?
I feel 100% like you do. If you are in a serious relationship, I do consider exchange of dirty photos and texting, talking dirty and all of the above to be cheating just like flirting. In my opinion flirting is cheating best friend. I dont find it appropriate in any relationship and if he is interesting in talking and doing things that like with other girls then why does he need you? Is he a mooch? Sounds like it. I would make it clear that it's not a quality you want in a boyfriend, began talking about a future between you both. I would drill his *** with questions in a nice way and after all of the I wanna be with you forever mumbo-jumbo then I would make is clear that you dont tolerate the phone business with other girls. If he wants to be a single man he can mingle freely but with a relationship there has to be boundaries. People who love you will respect you enough to want you to be happy.Its very hard to criticize the situation in which you stand. Need relationship advice?
aww **** im very sorry. you have to dump him. or at least say if this doesnt stop its over. its just makes it so much more difficult that you share a place. warn him, if he doesnt change you better hold on tight to your dignity and tell him good bye. dont let him talk you into staying. he will do it again. what a sick f***
very sorry 2 say but true, he is not interested in u any more


the solution 2 this is, as he has betrayed on u, beat him, beat him but make sure h doesnt get marks or bleeding , or he might jail u 4 domestic assault


now just kick him out of ur house %26amp; say ';i got 2 words 4 ya...suck it';
Clearly he is not happy in the relationship with you but is comfortable living in the apartment you share. It is not normal to actively look for other women when you live with someone and have been with them for a year and you should not have to put up with this behaviour.





You know that this setup isn't normal or else you wouldn't have posted the question on here so how much longer are you going to put up with this?





Although you say ';Please dont be nasty to me - not the time'; perhaps it IS the time that you do something about this.





Good luck :)