so me and my boyfriend are in highschool and we've been dating for soon to be 6 months so basically we've been together for long enough that we are comfortable with each other and i know i have him and he knows he has me but for real i dont like that because he never does anything little thats sweet anymore. he doesnt draw me pictures or write me notes or send me sweet texts anymore that are long while im sleeping anymore like he used to and i still do sooo many sweet things for him like draw him pictures and i bought him his favorite candy and put them in his locker. so basically i feel like he is comfortable with me and doesnt need to do anything extra to show that he loves me. i know he does cause he says it all the time and we are happy together but i still appreciate these little things every once in a while to feel special you know? how can i ask him to do something for me without sounding rude or demanding or hurting his feelings or making him mad? like how can i nicely talk to him about this? what do i say?So i need some relationship advice...?
Basically, your the one being immature, by giving 'little things' to him and EXPECTING something in return. If he says he loves you then his love should suffice. It shouldn't require extra little trinkets all the time to make you feel 'special'. I've had girlfriends that were the same way as you, in HIGH SCHOOL, so I suppose its a maturity thing. Once you get to college, those things you are talking about are nice, but when your an adult, you don't expect to be written notes, or handed little candy treats by your mate. I suggest you stop giving him little things like notes and pictures and candy and see how he reacts. If he seems perfectly fine, then you two will be just fine!So i need some relationship advice...?
oh wow i was in the same position once and it worked 4 me so mabe it will 4 u as well what I did was I bought him his fav candy(almond joy) and when i gav it 2 him he was like aw awsome thanx and gave me a hug and kiss...then I acted a little sad and he automaticly asked mme if sumthing waz wrong and i sed well its just we used to do thiz for eachother all the time now you stoped and its relly depressing then he smiled and sed i'm srry i'll do it more,....l8er on that day he gave me a pic he drew 4 me that had a hart amd my name on it...I smiled then we hugged...ever since then he does it again as much as I do...(lol weve been 2gether 4 6monthes as well)
hope thiz helps...
just confront him okay...
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just say, babe. i know we have been dating for awhile. and we are comfortable with eachother so i can tell you this without getting hurt, but i loved when you did all these really sweet things for me, and you dont anymore, and i was just wondering whats up? like are you okay? do you still love me?
just let him know. because that small sweet stuff still counts.
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