in feburary, my girl friend told me to start texting this guy i never knew. i did and we started talking for a month and a half staright everyday. then i faded to be every other two days. anyway, we talked for 3 months and then he stopped texting for good. the conversations that we had seemed to be the same over and over again so i wouldnt reply with as much excitement and interesting things that i had in the beginning, he got the point i didnt want to talk to him anymore, when really i did and was playing hard to get. for the last month that we were talking and when we werent, we walked by each other every single day going to class, avoiding each other. at first it was awkward but then it became usual. i said hi to him once and he didnt reply so i never said anything again. when we did talk, he would say things to me like im watching a movie come cuddle with me and other things like that. we met up in a club and we danced for 2 songs and then i left. that night was the only time we actually talked in person though it was only for about 2 minutes. i've never been in a realtionship and was hoping that this could have been my first. i think that once we really get to know each other in person, we could make a cute couple. hes kind of a flirt to other girls and plays the field but he once talked about his ex and how he missed her so much, and that to me showed that he can commit to someone and really like them.im not sure what to do, im the type of girl that has the guy txt me and not txt them first. im afriad that its been 2 months since we've talked and it would be weird unless somehow he txt me first.
i get the feeling that he thought he had a chance with me, and he still does but i kinda just shut him down and seemed not interested in him. whats ur opinon?Anyone feel like giving relationship advice?
Start up a casual converstaipn and say like ';hey we haventb talked lately, what's up?'; or just say ';hey I'm bored, what been up with you lately?'; I've been in the same boat before and I txt him and it turned out that he simply thought I wasn't interested. Give it a go, what have you got to loose? Txting him first won't hurt you, unless you're too afraid of rejection. If he's not into you then oh we, there's other guys out there, better ones hat will actually talk to you and won't blow you off. Don't get so worried about one guy. Just try txting him and if that doesn't work out then get out and find someone else, but seriously, it can't hurt to try......Anyone feel like giving relationship advice?
You should text him something casual like ';Hey, haven't talked lately, what's up?';, or ask him about a fake question about a mutual friend. If he isn't interested then move on and find someone better.
Like you said. Make sure you really know each other in person before you enter in a relationship. He seems fairly interested so you might as well give it a shot. If he's sweet and polite, then it's a good idea.
you should text or call him and ask him if he wants to hang out
tell him to f-u-c-k off sister!
The honest truth although you may not want to here it because a lot of times ppl ask questions looking for only one type of answer but you should really forget this guy. cuz really what kind of guy talks about how he misses his ex to a girl hes considering for his new gf. and what kind of guy if he really does like you and apparently ';plays the field'; so he should be outgoing never chats in person and he must know your shy so you'd think he'd step up and start a convo and be more interesting. hes obviously not the right guy for your first relationship, ive had a similar experience and it really hurt me that it didnt work out but now i have someone much better :) you will to!
Text him FIRST when you know hes not with friends and willl be showing anyone his phone or distracted by other people. Then just talk to him like normal, and WHAM out of no where ask if he wants to hangout one on one.
If he says no, move on.
If he says yes,
~~~~~~~Tell him how you feel in person. Not in a text!!!! You can see his facial expressions and hear his voice tone. ~~~~~~~~
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