Need some long distance relationship advice?

there is this girl i really like, but we havent actually met in person. we met on facebook in a group. usually i dont like meeting ppl like this, but we got to talking, and it turns out we have so much in common (both our interests and our personalities). we have been talking for about a year on msn, and have spoken on the phone and webcam video calls, so we have basically done everything except actually be in each others company. we both have admitted we have feelings for each other, for me is that she is everything i have ever looked for in a girl. the problem is she says because we havent met we should date other people, and i agree, but the trouble for me is that i cant get her out of my mind, and i dont wana date anyone but her. i dont wana call it love, because i havent met her, but everything i know about her i love. i said i will visit her this christmas for a few days if i can save up enough money, and she may move here next year - but if she doesnt idk wat i can do!Need some long distance relationship advice?
If you are across the country just move on and try to talk with her less and less. If she moves closer than great. If you cant see her more that once a month than its not really a healthy relationship(even than its borderline). Girls have a need to be in a relationship, so its very normal she wants to date. Find some girls around where you live and try your luck. It might get your mind off her too.Need some long distance relationship advice?
A lot of relationships are better if you guys actually meet, but if you cant meet her and you tried everything possible, just ended because it is very unhealthy for you both.


Stay friends and maybe one day if it is meant to be, it will happen...
Long distance relationships really don't work out.





It may be possible if you'd used to live nearby, but you're missing so much with a lack of physical presence.
it is the internet she is probably lying to you about everything that she says but I guess I would go on the visit and see what happens
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE END THAT RELATIONSHIP................ PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE..... YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE........
You should meet her face to face before disagreeing with her
DUMPP HERR. LONG DISTANCE REALTIONSHIPS NEVER WORK OUTT. YOU CANT FULLY TRUST SUMONE WHEN UVE NEVER SEEN THEM. DUMP HERR!
Wow, this sounds EXACTLY like whats hapening with my friend.In her (my friends) opinion she wan's to date other people because she feels the need to have someone she can actually be near,she likes this guy (the internet dude..';you';) alot but she thinks that it would be too hard to just continue the relationship over the internet, theres also an age difference beteen them too,but its mostly because its hard for her to wait for him to come vist or for her to be able to come there, she sais that when shes older and if he moves here, or she movs there she would date him in an instant.I think she really likes you, but she doesn't wan't to put her life on hold till the time when she can actually see you. I think you should talk to her and explin your feelings to her, and if you really are serious about her tell her that you are planing to come see her and when you can your totaly willing to be serious with her, let her know how you really feel.


hope that helps ;)
I'm in that same situation...im going to see her this august. Hang in there man its the toughest thing to do...and you do love the girl or else you wouldn't be sayin that you only want to date her. I usually don't look for people online but somehow i fell in love (love is mental) and even if the slightest possibility of it being real is .0001% im willing to take that risk..i'll travel around the world for true love. She wants to date other people because she wants to see if other peopl make her feel the way you do. Best of luck to you. But in the future; IF this relationship doesn't work out...DO NOT go for another online relationship.
Ookay . . . slow down. You've got a lot of stuff down here, but I'm not quite sure what your question is!





So, you've met a girl you really like on facebook, and you've figured out that you really click. Good! And I suppose you've seen her, and spoken to her, so that's good, too. If it's lasted for a while, that implies that your feelings aren't just a passing thing, so you might as well go for it!





If she doesn't move near you, then you're still okay. Remember that you've kept up the relationship only online and on the phone for however long it is that you've known her - and that's the tough part of an online relationship, keeping in contact. Just keep doing what you've been doing, and you should be all right in terms of a long distance relationship. Although, if you're serious, it IS a better idea to have some actual face-to-face interaction.





As for whether or not it's normal that she wants someone . . . hmm, maybe she's not as totally crazy about you as you are about her. YOU are jealous that she wants someone else. However, SHE is kind of hedging her bets; she knows you like her but she probably has doubts because you've never met - which means you should try and meet her! - so she wants another guy or guys around to keep her from having nothing to fall back on if things don't work out with you because of the distance factor.





I hope things work out with you guys!
I had a similar problem but mine was that we couldnt meet so often due to social issues ( my family didnt like him). He eventually got another girlfrined, i didnt like it but he gave the same reason you girl is giving 鈥?needs someone by his side.


I'm still with him, i dont see him so much like we used to in school, (i just finished highschool in late May) but he had told me he'd break up with the other girl......blah, blah, blah!


Back to your problem, you can try make youself beleive you wont get all you want on this earth. Try dating another person to get over her, try your best then you may break up. But you never told me: are you willing to end this relationship in marriage? If so then please be patient. If not then forget her cuz there's no point in suffering fo no good.