What should I do?? Relationship advice please ?

Three ago, I had a brief relationship with a man I really liked. He didnt want anything serious and he then left to work overseas, while he was away I found out I was pregnant and it was his.


I had no way of contacting him but he came home when she was 8 months old. Hes delighted to be a father and sees our daughter every day. i think he was swept away by the whole bing a daddy thing and not long after he came home, he asked for us to try again at a relatiosnhip. It was very short lived with alot of pressure on both of us to be a couple when really we were getting to know each other and didnt want to rush. A few things happened and we called the relationship quits.





Since then we have remained very close friends and he also looks after my older daughter while Im at work. He would then sit with me when the kids have gone to bed, and watch a movie or have a chat. The thing is, I think Im in love with him now, Im much more relaxed that the pressure of being ';a couple'; off us.


We spend so much time together openly, we go for lunches, if were socialising together we end up together in bed where he holds me in his arms, tells me he loves me and kisses my forehead.


Our daughter is 2 and a half now, and people keep asking us why we arent together, or just presume we are together and Im not sure what to do.


Im just TOO AFRAID of rejection again or makin things weird for him and our daughter. Does he wants me? I think he is the one and I really do love him, how do I find out what he wants without ruining what we have now?What should I do?? Relationship advice please ?
Why do you have to put a ';name'; on the relationship that you have? It sounds great. The only thing I'd want to know is are he or you seeing other people. I'd ask him that and if you're both not seeing anyone else then what you have sounds blissful...





If it ain't broken - don't fix it...What should I do?? Relationship advice please ?
Fly casual. If you want do some very small thing just yourselves and a witness or two. You don't need anything else to make that legal.