My husband is getting back from Afghanistan need some relationship advice.?

Well he has been in Afghan for almost a year now and is coming back in early June. When he was here for R%26amp;R it took me a while to get back to normal with him. I wasn't affectionate i didn't want to kiss or have sex. I just felt awkward like he was a stranger and i'm worried i will act like this again any advice. Cause i miss him and talk to him every other week but when i see him like last time i think i will act strange again. What should i do i don't want to hurt his feelings and we have a 18 month baby who he's only seen for his R%26amp;R and about a month before he left.My husband is getting back from Afghanistan need some relationship advice.?
Well You are not giving upo on him r you? Do you not realize the sacrifice he has made to ensure you and your baby can grow up in a world with less terrorism. Have you thought about all the lonely nights he has spent over there in that s*ithole of a place? What about the experience of war on his brain? You married him for better or for worse you knew he may be deployed and you still chose to be with him. You need to slowly become his friend,lover, support esp during the time he gets use to being back. You would ruin his life if you don't rekindle the fire and getting use to the baby again. ppl have made it years and years in prison and they still are there for the one they loved, I am not saying you need to jump his bones but find what you loved about him and make it like you two just got back together. He will need readjustment time and help at the V.A. Good luck to you 3 Tell him Thanks for serving our country with honor.My husband is getting back from Afghanistan need some relationship advice.?
Make sure that the reason you are distant isn't because of any mental issues on his part.If he is acting fubar than it might be better to get out of the marriage before any incident occurs.Well it definately sounds like you are worried about your relationship but war always creates casualties.
You're married, of course you dont want to be affectionate. You get married when you're done with stuff like that. Affection wears off and I would hope you have a deeper bond than just kissing and having sex
Hey !!I can quite understand ur feelin here cos even i hve been thru d same kind of stuff.I would suggest u to have an open conversation wid ur husband regarding this.I m sure ,he would b supportive enuff-i mean ,cumon he's ur husband after all -d fatehr of ur child.I also understand that for him ,it would be a bit frustrating also ,but den u hve to hit him wid the rite kind of words nd sentences to make him realize that watever u r goin thru nd hve gone thru,widour him being near u for almost more than a year ,is normal nd u should also comfort him nd make im believ in u.Just ask him to give u some tym .If possible ,arrange for a babysitter for ur child-so dat gives u both -husband nd wife,tym to spend wid each other-in order to again fall in love wid each other ,to know each other ,to share feelings u both had for each other ,to let each other know wat went rong nd wat all happened durin hisor ur absence.


I hope this works out for u .As far as ur kid goes,dont worry ,he/she is too young to realize as of nw of wat actually his mom dad r goin thru ..!!