No sex in the relationship? Advice Please?

i'm 17. i've been in a relationship with this boy for about 2 years now. i've basically known him for my whole life. and he's been really good to me. respects me and i've been happy with the relationship. BUT i'm a virgin and he's not. for the whole time we've been together he's not asked me about sex until recently. and when he did it changed the whole way i felt about him and the relationship. i know boys have there needs but i want to stay a virgin and i'm proud of it. i want to wait til marriage. i don't feel as if he should wait on me if he doesn't want to and i shouldn't have sex with him if i don't want to. should i ignore this thought? will this ';no sex'; mess things up for us? should i let him go even though i do not want to?No sex in the relationship? Advice Please?
No, don't let it ruin the relationship. He's gone two years without sex, and he shouldn't want to ruin that now. If he really loves you, and he's committed to you, he'll wait for when you're ready. And if that means marriage, then this kid better plan on marrying you before getting in your pants. It shouldn't change things at all. It hasn't before.





Hope I helped.No sex in the relationship? Advice Please?
Look if he asks about it tell him how you feel. If he pressures you about it tell him no and tell him if he needs it that badly then he needs to find someone else because you don't need to compromise yourself. You are still very young and you will probably not end up with this guy so don't let him push you into something you may regret.
if you don't want to have sex, then don't. if he is understanding of your feelings he will wait until you are ready. Y'all have made it 2 years without sex please don't start now. I am 20 and i waited until i was 19 to have sex with i guy i have been with for 7 years. wait a little bit longer. My little sister who is 14 is now pregnant by a guy she has been with for 2 months. don't mess up your life like my little sister did. wait...it is the best thing to do.
if youve been with him for 2 years, no sex obviously isnt going to mess things up. ive been with my girlfriend for a while, our anniversary is next week. and we've had sex. it didn't change the relationship at all, but thats us, and we dont really fit into the categories of ';normal people';
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Just tell him you're not ready for sex, if he's a good person, he'll understand and respect your wishes, if he bothers you and pushes you to have sex, break up with him.





Don't let him do it, tell him what I said previously.
guys dont ';need'; sex. they just think they do.


good for you for being a virgin! i am 15 and a virgin and planning to stay that way.


dont let him pressure you into doing it if youre not ready. if you have these kind of doubts, you arent ready.
boys don't need sex.


you've lasted 2 years in the relationship without sex, what's a few more?


don't give yourself away if you don't want to.
Well, you shouldnt have sex to please him.


But then he wants sex...


Just let him know that you aren't ready, and if he's really a good guy, he'll understand.
Well you need to make it clear to him that your waiting till marriage, dont just leave it and then tell him after 2 years. you should have told him ages ago.
LOL. I was watching ';Amercian Pie: The Naked Mile'; and this story is quite similar in many ways.';
JUST IGNORE IT!
if hes waited 2 years it won't kill him to wait a few more
I'm sorry but I disagree.





I am not saying you should have sex with him just to please him - that's the wrong solution.





That said everybody has needs and no matter what anyone says, sex is a big part of a relationship. I'm a nice guy but I would struggle to wait 2 years.





When it comes to sex it's obvious your views differ. That doesn't mean that your right and he is wrong or the reverse. It would be good for you for him to wait but I disagree with everyone who says if he is a nice guy he will wait.





If he doesn't wait then he is still a nice guy. He has obviously decided he needs something that he isn't getting in the relationship he is in.