In desperate need of relationship advice!!???

Okay, so lately my boyfriend of almost 2 years, seems like hes been pretty much avoiding/ignoring me. When I call he never answers, and never returns my calls. If he does call its for like 2 mins and then he says he has to go do stuff around the house, and never calls back. Also he never txts back either. When i ask him whats wrong, he just says nothing, when i ask him what hes up to he just says nothing. He lives about 45 mins away from me so i dont get to see him as much and i never know what hes up to. I dont know, but lately it seems lk hes just blowing me off. I mean he doesnt even bother to return my calls anymore.... i just don't know what to do.. someone please help me out.. thank you.In desperate need of relationship advice!!???
He probably found someone else closer...sorry!In desperate need of relationship advice!!???
What you always have to remember in relationships with anyone is that you can only be responsible for yourself. You cannot make someone act like or be what you want. I would strongly suggest letting go and give him space. Pushing and pushing only pushes him further away. If he's still interested, he'll come to you. In the meantime, find things to do that you enjoy.....read a book, take long walks and enjoy the outdoors, pick up that writing project, explore a hobby you've always been interested in, do a fun project. Focus on you!!!
Hes busy with his other girlfriend.
i know this isnt what you want to hear but it doesnt sound very good.. I know its annoying but you might find that if you cool off and let him come to you might be a lot better, he could just be stressed out and doesnt want the hassle. You should tel him that you feel that your ben blown off and see how he replies, there is no point in asking a man how they are because they'll always come out with the same bullshit. Just text him how you feel and let him do the running, if h truely cares and wants to be with you he'll put the effort in and if he doesnt youre better off with some one that does
Hey,


my advice would be .. either


A) To do the same thing as he is doing, don't call and see how long it will be until he actually calls you. Because right now, he knows your always calling him or texting him.. if you stop, then he's going to think what's going on here?.. so.. that could be one thing. If he doesn't call you in like a week or two.. then it's up to you to do the rest.





B) If you have a car/bus/or anything to get to his house. Call him up, ask him what he's doing, if he says i gtg clean the house or something, go there, leave the minute he hangs up and go see what he's up too. Atleast you'll know the truth if he's cheating or not.
I've been in a similar situation. The result ended up being that he needed time to think so stopped talking to me for a while, and then he said he didn't want to be settled down at his age and he felt it. So he finished it. Bizarre reasoning, but I could sort of see where he was coming from. And the fact that he discussed it with me made me want to understand him rather than be mad at him.





You should contact him some way he can't ignore (email?) and ask if something's up with the relationship, and explain that you're perfectly fine to talk about it whatever it is. Make suggestions so its easier for him to tell you. Eg. Do you want to move on? Have you met someone else? Have I upset you somehow? An answer is better than just waiting around with the wonder nagging you all day.





Good luck, and I hope all goes well.
There's a couple things you can do, you could just stop calling/texting him. And just wait to see if he will do it instead, so your relationship won't be as one-sided. And try to do other things to keep yourself busy so you won't want to call him all the time, I mean you don't want to think about him more than he thinks about you. Or, instead of asking him whats wrong, you could just say ';Why don't you return my calls/texts, i feel like you're blowing me off and we're not as close anymore'; or something like that. So if you give him the actual question he should give you an actual answer other than just ';nothing.'; and see what happends with that.


Good luck!