Help im confused and dont know what to do! (Relationship Advice)?

-so me and my gf of 9 have had a wonderful relationship. we have had a constant ongoing battle though and i dont know what more i can do to help fix our relationship. she constantly says that i am staring at girls but the problem is i dont think i am doing it.





i love my girlfriend and would never cheat on her, she is beautiful and i would give up anything to make her happy. she has become so obsessed that she says that she doesn't find herself attractive any more. when i try to tell her that she is (in a genuine way) she doesn't take it to heart.





we have argued about this for a long time and after each argument i admit that i was wrong and that i should stop....but how can i stop something that i don't even know i am doing.





plz someone shed some light upon my situation.Help im confused and dont know what to do! (Relationship Advice)?
You need to communicate better.


Saying you're sorry when you're not is just lying and avoiding the issue.





Sit down and get to the bottom of this together. If you are truly not looking at anyone, then the issues must go deeper than that. Maybe you have broken your trust? Maybe she has trust issues? Maybe you do not put effort into romance anymore?





The only way you will find out is by talking to her. None of us know the two of you. So while we want to help you, the only way through this is by communicating.








btw, the ';insider tip'; above will only work for a little while. She will quickly realize that she is still not happy with you, and this scare tactic will ultimately lead to even less trust between the two of you.Help im confused and dont know what to do! (Relationship Advice)?
look her in the eyes and tell her she is beautiful and the only girl for you, that you would never cheat, and if it appeared you were looking at other girls, you're sorry. i know it seems like admitting you consciously did something, but coming from a female point of view, sometimes that's what it takes. Also, i'm not saying be antisocial, but avoid situations that may make it appear like you're paying attention to other girls.





Try making sweet little gestures and giving her compliments to let her know how special she is...





Wish you the best of luck!
i'm gonna let you have a little insider's tip:





she's obsessive right? so if you stop acting like a little girl and if you tell her to chill out, or better yet, say you want a break cause she's freaking you out, she will be so worried that she's gonna lose you that she'll stop being crazy...if you do this i swear it will work
Maybe she is growing or she feels like y'all growing apart and it scares her. So she finds the smallest things to fight over, because she doesn't know how to react. Maybe u two should really sit down and talk.
get darker sun glasses.
well honey you gotta sit her down screw genuine ok you have to be sweet and tell her something like baby theres no other girl in this world thats as beautiful to me then u i swear ';her name'; i wouldnt want any other girl then you i love u stop worrying your amazing no one can compare to u my love im with you so u know i only want you i promise id never hurt u in anyway i need you to trust me baby..... please trust me cuz it brakes my heard that you think i want someone else when ur my everything.....





hope this helps sweetie good luck
welll, you see ,


most guys dont think that they are doing something that they are really doing.


i know my boyfriend of 3 years always used to do the same thing,


but i told him its not right to do it .


he told me he wasnt doing it, and 2 mins later i caught him doing it again .


but that time he knew he was doing it .


i guess he just clued in that he was really doing it .


and ever since than he hasnt done it .





so maybe you should just watch where your eyes land , and make sure you dont do anything to make her think that .


and besides ,


all girls tell themselves they are not pretty, so that they can get what they want the most -- the love of thier life to tell them otherwise.