Would you be mad if this happened to you? (Relationship Advice)?

Last night, my boyfriend of almost 4 years was showing me something on his phone and I saw a text from a girl Cinthia. I asked who he was and he claims that he was trying to set her up with a friend. But he seemed weird about it so I said, well, what did you say to her? And he admits he didn't want to show me because they were flirtatious in a way (he said he called her beautiful in one) - and I know he's a flirty guy. He admitted this and said there was absolutely nothing going on. What do you think I should believe? I just didn't think it was right for him to do that.





Advice please.Would you be mad if this happened to you? (Relationship Advice)?
i think you should really talk to him about this.Would you be mad if this happened to you? (Relationship Advice)?
if he has never given you reason to ditrust him then let it slide..this time! tell him he needs to be more careful. i would be mad also.
If it was nothing he should have been willing to show you the messages. If he was really trying to be completely honest what better way than just show the message to you? For all you know he just lied to you or partially told you the truth. Just becareful. Guys are slick talkers!
dump him....all guys are pigs
Well, a couple things about this situation. First of all, if he is willing to tell you the truth about something that he could have hid by deleting a message, then that's a token for him in his corner. Second, if you all ready know that he's a flirtatious type of guy, then there's going to be a time or two when you're come across something like this that you're going to find it questionable if he's cheating or not. Finally, it all depends on you, are you going to keep putting up with someone that hasn't grown up to get rid of the dating games of being a flirt or wait for someone who's at you're level to have a committed relationship that's at you're level.
it's not right; i freaked when my bf called another girl beautiful. but if it was anything i dont think he'd admit to you that they were being flirty.. since he's being honest then i think your safe.
Uh, I think he's not being Honest! Ask him if you guys can go on a double date! xox
of course i would be mad
That does sound weird, but at least he was honest and told you the messages were flirty. He probably knows he was doing something that would hurt your feelings and thats why he acted weird. Let it slide this time, but if it happens again look further into it.
I wouldn't put up with this kind of behavior from my bf...
its not right and if he thinks its ok for him to do it then it should be ok for you to do it you should texts one of your friends and call then hot and see how he likes its ;)
you are right he shouldn't have said that to her. but relationships are all about trust and if you feel as if you can't trust him than you need to re-evaluate your relationship.
What is your problem if he finds someone else also beautiful ? Right now he is scared of you, your reaction and whining. He is just trying to avoid this situation. If he is flirting with other girls, either get used to it or get over with relationship
4 years is a hella long time for only one poon.