Please help, i need relationship advice!?

Ive been in a relationship for 2 years. My boyfriend treats me great and does alot for me (buys me food and takes care of me when im sick, etc.) but lately things are not the same. I don't feel that hes attracted to me anymore, and we spend almost everyday together and most days we don't even kiss or hug. sex is out of the question, and when ive talked to him about it he says ';i don't know why we dont but ill try harder'; and its been almost 4 months since we have, and before that it was another 3... i'm only 19 i feel like i deserve to get some affection! i do love him and would like things to work out...but i just cannot see myself ever wanting to make love with someone who has completely forgetten about my feelings and my needs. Ive gotten to the point where i'm day dreaming about having sex with another guy, and i try to stop myself but I cant help it! Im craving that affection, and when I told my boyfriend that he said ';do whatever you have to do';. What do you all think I should do, and what do you think of this situation?Please help, i need relationship advice!?
Unless he said that in anger, then ya, it's over. You know no guy who loves you would tolerate the thought of you being with another guy, let alone give you permission to do so.


Fact is, the average 24yr old male has the maturity level of a 17 yr old girl and 26 yrs old is the new 21 for men. This being fairly common knowledge should tell you he was not really mature enough to know love or commit to anyone for long. Also, men do ';not'; relate sex to love, it is women who do that, guys don't even have to know or like a woman to have sex.


It's also a fact, that this is his best behaviour, if things are going to go down hill, it most often happens after marriage. This is why a lot of ppl do not rush into common law situations, they give it more than enough time to see if the guy really is mature enough to know what love is.Please help, i need relationship advice!?
Well, for one thing don't cheat on him, it'll just make you look terrible.





Honestly, I think you should break up with him. He doesn't seem to into you, and he doesn't care about your needs. Keep trying to work it out with him, if it doesn't get to him, then break up with him. You don't want someone who doesn't care about you, do you?