What should I do? Relationship advice please! ?

So we broke up, like a week ago. Because he thought I didn't care and we weren't ';close'; enough, etc etc. So I sent him an email saying:





';You know what, I think you're right. Both of us need some air, so it's better off if we're not together right now. I'm hoping that we can at least be friends now, or even when you come back. We haven't talked properly in a while, and I have so much to tell you, but when you're free. I hope to be hearing from you soon.';





To which he replied with:





';I was so glad to see this because I agree - I'm sorry that I've come off as a total asshole. I don't think that the past nine months were a waste of time and I hope I haven't hurt your feelings. I'm glad we can still be friends.';





What do you think? Do you think I could ever win him back? What should I do next? Should I reply to his email? I dunno, since I've read that no contact is good. Help me!


What should I do? Relationship advice please! ?
He's probably not going to get back in touch straight away because he is very happy with the situation. What you said to him in your mail was very mature and sensible, but ONLY IF YOU MEANT IT!!!


If you were trying the mind games thing then being a man he just won't get it. They don't understand the devious woman's mind and as far as he's concerned everything is ace.


If you didn't mean it and what you REALLY want is to get back with him then the honesty is the best policy even if it means eating some humble pie. Be truthful, in the long run it's for the best even if it is the hardest thing to do.What should I do? Relationship advice please! ?
I think its a good possibility that you two can get back together but still I say to take it slow and be friends and see if things will develope further, dont rush into anything just yet.
yeah i understand,sometimes you just have to have some time off to think about the relationship,some air.he said ''im glad we can still be friends'' but he also said that the months spent you werent a waste.reading this seems to me you care a lot about him and same with him.


you should email him and tell him the things that would be most awkward or difficult to say face to face but you should definitely talk to him in person too,sometimes emails/textx can cause a lot of misunderstandings.


goodluck.


no matter what the outcome is,you are friends with each other so dont worry- calm down!:)
looks like you're not really that convinced that you needed some air and that you're better off not together. :)





You don't seem like you're ready to move on. eheheheh





anyway, with regard to your question if you'll ever win him back. Well, for me it's never too late. Maybe, you should tell him what you really feel towards him and enough with the pretense! ok? it's not gonna take you somewhere...





if it would help you win him back, tell him that you were sorry that you gave him an impression that you didn't care. Don't overcoat it, just be bluntly honest.






He has opened the door to continue as friends. Take him up on it. Reply to his email, thanking him for being concerned about your feelings and tell him that you value being able to keep him as your friend. Then get on with life and see him as a friend, doing things with other friends, not as a couple. No one can see into the future. But, by remaining friends, you will either have another friend to share things with or over time it may resume as something more. Either way, it is a win situation.