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Hi, i've been dating a guy who is stubborn, unsupportive and doesn't seem to understand my troubled past with guys at all.


Ever since we started seeing each other I will admit, I have been very skeptical... by no fault of my own though !


I've told him my history and he's very aware of my insecurities and my issues regarding trust. However, he doesn't seem to take them into account when they arise. He's currently talking to another guy, I don't understand how he could possibly think that's OK with me, but whatever.It is his prerogative after all. ******I've never addressed it with him***** (is that a problem ?), but he says he's known him for longer than he's known me, and they're now within ';friend'; boundaries. It still bothers me, though, knowing that he AT LEAST, even if nothing is actually going on, has another guy in his life that is interested in him. All of this turns over in my mind each time he cancels on our dates, doesn't call, or is out of the house.


It makes me wonder, ';when he's not talking to me is he talking to him ?'; Like on New Year's, when i left home he had told me that he would call me the next day. But did I receive a call from him ? No.


However, when I checked his myspace comments I found out that he had called his ';friend'; the night he was supposed to call me.


What's worse is he provided no excuse, or thorough reason as to why he didn't call. I would've understood if that was the case.


Everything he does or says, i can't seem to believe wholeheartedly. I want to, but it's hard for me not to worry. I don't feel like he feels as passionately about me as he says he does.





It's not so much that I doubt everything he says, it's just that I'm trying to protect myself from disappointment. I called him last night to explain myself, and he made it clear to me that ';before we can continue seeing eachother, i need to work on myself.'; ';i'; being myself., not him.





What are everyone's thoughts?..


Am I right in feeling that he is being unsupportive? Also, what should I do? I don't want to lose what I have with him, or even take the risk. I don't feel like he understands how much he is hurting me by talking to other people. Am I being jealous, or petty ? And how should I go about bringing the topic up if I was to call him tonight.


Thanks in advance.What do you think? Please read, Insecure guy needs relationship advice ?
Dump him that is so jerky and i bet he is cheating on you. Move on honey and make them chase you and don't let your insecurities shine through first show him that you are confident and amazing! Then don't give him all that trust have him earn it and if you smell a rat confront him about it immediately!!! Good Luck!What do you think? Please read, Insecure guy needs relationship advice ?
DID YOU JUST SAY you were dating a GUY? LOL. That's the whole problem right there.
your right he cheatin
r u gay?
You are upset because he talked to someone else? The is way out of proportion. He is not your captive slave. He is free to have other friends and call/talk to them. I agree, work on yourself and find out why you can't let the people you love be themselves. You are pushing him away by your personality quirks. Your question should read, ';Insure girl is pushing away guy. Need advice.';