We need a little relationship advice here? Thank you?

Hi, me and my cousin are talking about his ex and trying to come up with a few answers. Let me get to the point.


He was dating a girl and they were together for 2 years on and off.


He says that overall he is sure that she loved him and was very attentive and always wanted his attention.


He thought she was getting clingy and put space between him and her for a while. She told him a few times that she wasnt happy about the fact that he wasnt there for her and giving her attention.


One day she changed her number and didnt ever get in contact with him again.


He doesnt know where she lives or what to do. Do u think he brought this on himself? If she really loved him, how come it was so easy for her to just leave and not contact him ever again?


Has anyone experience a ex changing his/her number and leaving? If so, do u know the reasons? Thank youWe need a little relationship advice here? Thank you?
It wasn't easy for her to change her number. Just like it wasn't easy for her to be cut from your cousins life. But she couldn't gravel for long. The best way to get over someone is to cut them from your life entirely. So yes your cousin brought this on himself. He should of just spoke to her first. Telling her he felt overwhelmed and maybe worked through it before putting space between them.


I suggest he doesn't contact her until he knows that he wants to be with her. Do not toy with her emotions because you don't know whats going on in her life right now and you want to know.We need a little relationship advice here? Thank you?
If she could just up and never talk to him again then she never really loved himm. She was probably just using him or something. That means that this girl is just a bit** and is definitely not worth his time and attention. She sounds like one of those whiney and clingy kind that no one can stand. Don't dwell on it, it's pointless to live in the pastt.





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no offense, but it sounds like your cousin was this girl's ego booster.


the fact that she changed her number when your cousin put space between them was super immature and no rational person would ever do that.





in my opinion, tell your cousin to drop her because all she's doing is using him to make herself feel better.
There may be a good reason for this, or she might just be angry with him. I don't really think he brought it on himself he wanted space and i guess thats what she was trying to do.. only she was a bit dramatic about it.
she obviously didnt love him that much, she just wanted to be loved, it was about her wanting to be loved not her loving him. She didnt get what she wanted so she gave up.
My aunt has done that before.... but that was a totally more creepy situation. He was always calling her and leaving nasty messages on her phone. She felt like she didn't have a choice as she had broken it off and he obviously wasn't ok with that...he was totally psycho.


But I think that he didn't bring it on himself in your case....sounds like she was much too self centered to be in a good relationship and if I were him I wouldn't worry about it too much =]





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im sorry to say that the ex might be dating someone else and they don't want them to call any more so they can be with there ne partner just a theory
First we'd need to know how much ';space'; and what kind of ';space'; he put between them, as well as for how long. Also, when he made that decision, were they ';on'; or ';off?'; If they were ';on,'; i.e., dating, and he just decided to put space between them, then I could definitelty see her getting angry enough to just break it off, and he probably would have brought it onto himself.





If they were ';off'; and it was only a little distance and she did that, she might be a little nuts. Truly though, I don't have enough information to say for sure.