Why won't He? (Relationship advice)?

I was w/ my ex on and off for six years. we ended, well he left me to be with his ex gf. I was very hurt but I survived. The problem is I still care. I go like two weeks or so without wanting to talk 2 him or txt him. At first it was b/c I didn't have closure. one day he just stopped calling. it wasn't until 3 months later he told me he was done n never wanted 2 c or talk 2 me again.. i've been having a hard time letting him go. i guess i just care n I don't know why. anyway, I told him I needed him 2 block me on myspace, facebook, and to change his number b/c it would be easier for me 2 move on. he blocked me from calling but he can't block me from texting him so I said just change his number. He did as I asked and he blocked me on myspace, but he refuses to change his number or block me on facebook.





I do not want him. Yes I still care but I hate him for how he hurt me, I just get weak sometimes and gives in and end up txtn him. I don't do it everyday maybe like once a week or every other week. I feel like he is holding me back. It would be much easier for me to move on if I had no way of contacting him, but he refuses to do as I asked.





I would think he would be thrilled. He says he hates me, and wishes I was dead. And yet he won't do the 2 things that would ensure i'm out of his life forever..why? I told him if he needed a kidney and I was the only match I would rather let him die than give it to him. We hate each other, we are toxic together. I'm ready to move on with my life but why is he holding me back? I'm so confused. Help. Why won't He? (Relationship advice)?
First of all.. PROUD OF YOU when u said this:





I told him if he needed a kidney and I was the only match I would rather let him die than give it to him.





... just keep that to your mind.. n soul until your heart absorbs it :)





Read something about life before and i wanna share it with you.. i hope it helps..





I鈥檝e learned that 鈥?.


';God wakes us up in the midst of a storm to teach us a lesson. He takes away people we love, so we can learn to value love itself. He makes us cry so hard so we can see clearly when we open our eyes. He makes us bitter so we can realize that there is no genuine happiness if we think only of our needs and not of others. The hardest part of losing love is letting go of someone you really love because circumstances won鈥檛 allow it and that you have no option but to move on. Most of us cry endlessly over things that hurts us most. But just remember that ';God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives and ONLY if we put our TRUST in HIM we can learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows';. ';HAPPINESS IS NOT A MATTER OF DESTINY BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE';. .. In many failed relationships, separation comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, the end of a relationship is imposed on us, but our choice to hold on is always beyond the control of *circumstances*.


However鈥OU DON鈥橳 HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE.. or USED TO LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. Don鈥檛 let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well. On the other hand鈥?quot;WHEN LOVE DIES, YOU NEVER HAVE TO DIE WITH IT. IF YOU LOSE LOVE, THAT DOESN鈥橳 MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU';鈥nd when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. Only when we learn to accept our fate and understand the meaning of our failures, then we can truly go on with life without having to look back and cry over the things that could have been but will never be鈥︹€?br>




God Bless..








Why won't He? (Relationship advice)?
You're holding yourself back. Dont blame him for not changing his number. JUST DONT TEXT HIM!!!
haha he is holding you back.. he wants you long long long gone... remember that.. get over him and move on that all there is to it...
bc why should he go through all the trouble of changing his number just for you? especially if he doesn't care about you anymore.


i'm sorry if i'm blunt but thats the truth.



The problem isn't him hon. Try thinking about all the things you like about yourself. Do things to improve yourself even more until you like yourself enough to feel valuable. You are clinging to him because you feel his presence somehow gives you purpose. He is nothing in your life and you need to see that and stop wasting precious time. You get one life. Live it for yourself and enjoy who you are without relying on anyone else.
you sound weak and pathethic. Just move on.. dig down deep and find will power to find a change. so Do not text him again. if you wanna txt him, write the text, and delete so its out of your system.





If he says he hates you, and you know that your toxic togther Whats the point? Love is suppose to feel good, and when you find that.. you will never feel what ur feeling
To be honest, he probably thinks it's just too much of a hassle to change his number, he can always just not answer if you call. As far as facebook, a lot of people don't know that there's a little X button at the bottom of everyone's profile that you can click that says 'remove friend'. If you want to cut yourself off... all you need to do is click that button. I hope you find someone else soon to take your mind off of him, that's a rough way to break up.
well dang_ive always had feeling for my ex but they push you 2 a point dat u just hate them dnt want 2 talk 2 them or even look at them_just write in a journal of how u feel_or do wat any other girl would do_hang with her friends or go party at a club n try 2 have fun_erase his # out of ur phone or dnt go on face-book anymore until u feel that u have released him out of ur system or even tell him 2 go f*** himself_but if u still like him than go to a therapy to relieve some stress