Why are men so dull? Relationship advice...?

My boyfriend says that he doesn't like talking on the phone and I think that its important for any relationship to communicate on a regular basis. We've established seeing each other on a routine schedule 3 times a week, but in between those times I feel like there's no connection. We've been going out for 7 years, he's always said that he doesn't like talking on the phone and instead he makes the effort to try to see me on a regular basis. But this is getting TOO regular and boring. Is it just me? Or he's plainly dull? What do you think I can do?





By the way, I trust him completely and I really don't think its cheating or another girl type of issue. He is not like that and this is more a conflict of preference.





Any comment would be appreciated!!! ...especially if you feel the same :(Why are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
im like that i don't like talking on the phone, but try txting more. its quicker and less intrusive into everyday tasks and you can say anything even in the middle of the day out in public and not worry about others around you hearing





me and my ex used to send about 200 a day to each otherWhy are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
Try and spice it up,


send him emails or


plan different things,


or just straight up sit down and talk to him about it


communication is important.... and if you've been together for that long, you should be able to talk about this kind of thing. good luck!
Yeah me and my girlfriend had the same problem.


But we decided to just talk on msn, I dont really like using phones.


I would suggest the same thing, talk on msn with web cams and mics if you can.
I enjoy talking on the phone with people (friends/g/f /family/whatever). Just his personal preference to not like it.
Just because we do not talk about shoes all the time does not make us dull
Try spicing up your phone calls by telling him things you'd like to do to him. I'd like to see him hang up on that! It'll probably spill over into other areas of the relationship too. You may also want to do something really unexpected. Maybe tie him to the bed while you guys are being intimate and tease him mercilessly. This should definitely get the old fires roaring.





Of course, you could always inject some romance yourself by surprising him with a candlelit dinner or a relaxing massage. My girlfriend did that for me and my response was to cover her apartment in little love notes the next week.