Please help. I need some relationship advice.?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and 1 month into our relationship his ex tells him that she's 2 months pregnant. I should have stepped out when he told me that so they could figure things out. Well I didn't because we dated for a little bit 2 years ago and then due to me moving we ended it. We ran into each other last may and I thought this could be our second chance. We love each other and want to make it work except his ex is a *****, manipulative and is completely insane. She is trying to start crap that doesn't need to be started. They had their baby in March and it's been a war ever since. He tells me he wants nothing to do with her but I know that if we stay together she is going to make our life a living hell. I know in the end its up to me but I don't know what to do. Do I let him go so he can be a part of his son's life without having to deal with her drama or do I stick it out? I want what's best for him but I know he's whats best for me. I know that in the end someone is going to get hurt and as selfish as it sounds I don't want it to be me. I'm sorry this is so long. Thanks for any advice.Please help. I need some relationship advice.?
He doesn't have to be with her in order to be a part of his son's life. It sounds to me like he doesn't want to be with her either way, so no matter what you guys decide about your relationship, he needs to sit


down with her for a talk and work out custody arrangements.





Life bring about all sorts of trails and I think we oughta stick it out


and stick with the people we love. If you two are happy together you should


work on your relationship and not give up on it. I bet it's not easy now,


and there are gonna be bumps on the road up a head too, but who doesn't


run into those?


So just sit down and have a talk of your own. Define the boundaries,


talk about your expectations from one another, your concerns etc.


Tell him you feel, get it all out in the open.





Good luck!Please help. I need some relationship advice.?
tell him what you are feeling. if he loves you he will care more than enough about what you have to say. dont give up ur chance with this guy though. fight till the end. but you do have to understand he has a kid with the other girl
First of all he is always going to have problems with her no matter who he is with. Unless they get together after you leave, then their is no reason to think he is better off. You just have to decide if he is worth it to always have drama. I promise you though that if you do stick it out she will move on. Right now she is in baby mama mode and doesn't have much of a life. She will meet someone and she will back off some. Your always going to have to deal with child support and visitation fights though. If you love him, you will stay.