Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Can anyone give me some relationship advice?

So here is my problem.


I'm the type of girl that most guys have a tendency to mistreat. So when i get involved in a relationship, usually none of them lasts long.


I've currently got a boyfriend, and we've been together since October of 2008, and basically this is the longest a guy has ever stuck around and stayed with me. He's without a doubt the best guy i've probably ever been with, unlike most i've been with in the past, he treats me with tons of respect, and we are completely honest with one another about everything. Everythings great but there is one thing i wish i would've done differently. At the beginning, when we first got to know one another we would constantly talk, from dark to daylight. Now that we could probably write a biography about each other, it seems like we don't make conversation and talk as much as we once did. Me being a big talker, i can find about anything to say but i've even got to the point i draw blanks when he calls, and he seems pretty quiet himself lately and it worries me a little because normally we talk a pretty good amount. So i guess i'm curious as to know a few things.


What do i need to do in order for me and him to talk more often and get back on track to how it once was?


And


Should there be any reason for me to worry about him being quieter than usual, or do you suppose its only because we talk so frequently?


I know this all sounds so stupid, but i'm really not used to having long relationships, so i honestly don't know if this kinda thing is normal or not.


He's a really great guy, we're even planning to move in together in May, i just want to have a successful relationship for once.


Someone please lend me some advice,


it would be greatly appreciated.Can anyone give me some relationship advice?
OK HUNNIE IVE BEEN THERE AND STILL WIT THE GUY 4 YRS GOING STRONG LONGEST FOR ME AS WELL...


I MET HIM WE TALKED ALOT THEN STARTED TO RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY... SOOO SINCE I KNEW HIS INTERESTS I START TO RESEARCH THEM AND FIND OUT MROE ABOUT THEM AND THEN TRIED TO THINK OF HOW IT RELATED TO MY DAY AND BEGAN A CONVO AS SUCH. ALSO JUST START BEING MORE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS AND THEN YOU WILL HAVE MORE TO SAY. I ALSO.... WHEN THE TALK ABOUT WHEN WE WERE MOVING IN TOGETHER CAME. I MADE SURE WE WERE BOTH ON THE SAME PAGE TALK TO HIM ABOUT STUFF THAT YOU LIKE WHAT KIND OF ATMOSPHERE YOU WOULD LIKE AND THEN AS HIM TALK ABOUT THAT MORE AND MORE BECAUSE IF YOU TWO CLICK ON THE MOVING IN STUF HUNNIE THEN YOUR GOLD. MOVING IN TOGETHER IS A HUGE STEP AND IF YOU TWO CAN AGREE ON HOW TO LIVE WITH EACHOTHER TTTTTTTRRRRRRRRRRRRRUUUUUUUUUUUSTTTTTTTT鈥?MEEEEEEEE YOU ARE GOOD GIRL.Can anyone give me some relationship advice?
I doubt there's any trouble in your relationship. Maybe you can spend a weekend away from each other (with your friends or family) and come back to see how much you communicate then. =)
maybe you should talk about penguins name cody.

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