Relationship Question - Advice Needed?

What does it mean when you get bored easy in a relationship or want to be alone sometimes. I love my gf but sometimes i think i want space, is it because we live together and see each other 24/7. I also get bored. It's almost like the excitement has gone and now it's same old routine every day. Seems like that spark of when we where dating is gone.





Thanks for you time.Relationship Question - Advice Needed?
Everyone needs their alone time; that's normal. Do you have a room where you can go and be away from her? Try that -- but give her a heads up.





As far as being bored, that's also common. However, the two of you need to talk about that and work through it. Bring the excitement back. It won't come back on its own; you have to make a conscious effort for it now.Relationship Question - Advice Needed?
everyone needs to have their own interests. If you are always supporting her or her you ;you get dull. Find something you can do by yourself and he needs to find something also. I knew a couple he had his basement for his workshop she had the attic for her quilting they were allowed in each others space but they hardly ever interupted each other but he did help her design a pattern for quilting. Find something to do with friends like playing pool or somethiing not everything takes lots of money. Maybe just a swim at a local pool for exercise.





the spark will return when you go spend time together even if it is just fixing dinner together.


after having that apart times
Sometimes when 2 people live together it takes time to get use to each other. Space is good sometimes. Balance out seeing your friends and spending time with her, while getting some alone time and you will feel much better....but you really have to tell her how you feel. Don't make it seem like you don't like her just that you have different needs from her. Does she have a lot of friends or do other things? Try doing something together like karate or join a co-ed team or what ever it is you both like but then tell her you want to go to a guy night or something. Your not going to like each other 24/7 and there will always be ups and downs but there is a reason you got together in the first place. There maybe no sparks now but that doesn't mean there can't be later. See what she says and go from there. good luck :)
Yes it might because your constantly around each other. I live with my bf too and well girls always want to be with their bf but guys need, well guy time! What we do is well Fridays he goes out with the guys and I go with my girls. Saturday we go out in group and Sunday with the Family. It changes depending it there's an event we go to, or something is going on. Also its a plus that his friends date my friends lol so we all hang out the only time we are together is when we go (or decide not to go) to sleep! we work and just enjoy time together of course they are the occasionally weekends that we decide to be all to our self's!!
I had the same, it actually means that you don't really love her as much as you did.. the spark should stay, always. Maybe try to find out what she's feeling? My gf and I broke up coz we both felt it wasn't going well and I got bored well sometimes.. I' am not being mean, but maybe your not in love with her anymore, maybe you just want to be in love, but it just isn't gonna happen. So talk to her about it, and if she feels the same way, maybe you should break up? It really isn't that bad, you really enjoy yourself afterwards. And by the way, maybe you do still love her, but you just see eachother too much? If that's the case, go out with some friends! (try not to flirt with other girls, thats just uncool ;) ) But get some distraction from ur GF


Good luck!!
Well seems like you need some more excitement in your life.. i wouldnt suggest breaking up with her.. but I do acknowledge that you talk to her about it.. Since im a girl.. i know how it is to be dumped.. and its not fun.. I would just talk to her.. and try to work it out.. and you might just find that she feels the same way. (:





good luck (:
do sumthings to put the spark back in your relationsship sumthing outdanorm
u need to spice your self up some since u bore her so much. thank you for this question. ILY