Friday, April 30, 2010

Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?

We're in love, pregnant, and excited! She started contacting bf again, to be ';friends';. All over him first time I met her...he told her to fix things with me before he'll be her friend again! This is my response to her, too much?


I apologize, however I find it extremely difficult to trust or respect you. I know what your ';type'; is all about, as well as the measures you'll take to get what you want - however I am not afraid because I know who I am and what I stand for. I understand that you get attention through your choice in clothing, and your less than classy acts... unfortunately that doesn't get you very far in life. I'm above that - when people like me, I know that it's true and for all of the right reasons. I don't find it necessary to get attention by dry humping every guy I come in contact with, and pushing my boobs and bottom in their face. People who act like this come off as trashy, and I can guarantee that while they think they are ';sexy'; everyone is making fun of them behind their backs.....Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
wow, you go! Thats awesome!Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
try and talk to her and if that does not work. talk to your boy


friend and see if he going to do something about it. if not you


will have to go to the next thing.
It sounds great and you'll feel better to get all that off your chest but it shows how much effort you put into your response and that she forced you to go to all that trouble to put her down. Not to mention she might not have the mental capacity to fully appreciate your words. I would keep it short and sweet. Just say something like your boyfriend has been happy ever since she's been out of his life and there is nothing she could possibly offer him to make his life any better, you're taking care of things just fine.
From what i read you handled it really well. I wish i would have had the chance to confront my boyfriends ';friend'; the way you did. My boyfriend never gave me the chance, he's actually still friends with this person, regardless of what I say or how I feel. You've got a great guy, and you did well to get rid of that girl!!!!

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