a few years ago (when i was 17 and he was 14) we tried ';going out'; but it never really worked out because we never saw eachother. so..after like a month we both realize that it was never going anywhere so we decided that being friends would be best.
We talk nearly everyday and text each other like 24-7. he knows everything about me, and I know everything about him; we're really close.
he has been going out with this girl for 7 months now. he says he's in love, yet he still talks to me more then her and all they ever do is fight. he said the only real reason they're together is because hes mother likes her and they go to church together.
a few nights ago, we were talking and....i'll slip the details, but we wound up having phone sex. We had only done this once before at it was like a year ago..before the girlfriend.
after all was said and done, then first words he says to me are ';oh my god, what have I done?';
so he pretty much broke my heart and made me feel like total **** in one sentence. I hung up on him, but he didn't call me back.
so i call him the next day (like 3 times throughout the day) and he never answered, he just sent me a lame *** text that said something like ';i need time, you're too much of a temptation for me right now';
I don't know what to do or say to him...I don't even know his girlfriend...but if you knew him, you'd know that cheating is something he would NEVER do, nor would he ever try to hurt someone...
I Love him, but I know i can never have him, I've dealt with that and I'm okay with just being friends...but I don;t know what to do if we're not friends....he's been there for so much. I tried to tell him it was no big deal, but he's still ignoring my call/text so i've just given up for the past 2 or 3 days..
help? what should i do? thanks for reading.....Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
tough situation. you should just be friends. it's easier for him that way and doesnt put him in a bad situation.
sorry-Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
You guys can always be friends. But, you need to be strong and stick to a real friendship. Don't tease each other that way if you know you can't be together. It's not going to help the situation. If you know you can't hold back, it's better to end the relationship/friendship you guys have.
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