Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, because I feel I need to work on my attitude and my horrible temper. I get really mad at him and I have hit him a few times. He is the love of my life and I haven't had any guy better, yet. It hurts so bad and he is really upset about it. Crying just as much as me and I've never seen him cry before. We have been talking about marriage in the future. But I just don't think its right that I act the way I do. I want to be a better person and I need time to myself to work on that. Am I wrong for breaking up with him and should I get back with him asap? Or is it okay that I'm trying to work on my ways and make myself a better person? Please help me, my heart feels so heavy and hurt.Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
I think it's a great idea to get help for yourself before persuing this relationship ANY further...explain to him that you want to be with him but first you need to get help for your problems. Anger managment should help you :) Dont feel bad about taking a break..it will only help your relationship in the end!Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
Thank you :) helping you means alot to me! Dont let anyone tell you that you are making a mistake! You know yourself best :) I hope this comment finds you well on your journey of self happiness...Have a great week!! ~kristen~ Report Abuse

I dont suggest getting back together with him unless you've sought professional help in dealing with your anger, and after you have made YOURSELF a promise that you'll change. Remember, change for yourself first. the motivation for this must be self improvement, n a better self esteem for YOU. good luck!
That is a very mature thing you have done. Have you told your bf the reason you broke up with him? what did he say about it? Let him know how you feel and that you love him. I think it will work out for the two of you.


Best of luck
Get back with him before he moves on. Try and get an anger management class.
u gotta do it 2gether. i think u guys should work it out as one if u guys r planning 2b together.