tell him what you are feeling. if he loves you he will care more than enough about what you have to say. dont give up ur chance with this guy though. fight till the end. but you do have to understand he has a kid with the other girlPlease help. I need some relationship advice.?
First of all he is always going to have problems with her no matter who he is with. Unless they get together after you leave, then their is no reason to think he is better off. You just have to decide if he is worth it to always have drama. I promise you though that if you do stick it out she will move on. Right now she is in baby mama mode and doesn't have much of a life. She will meet someone and she will back off some. Your always going to have to deal with child support and visitation fights though. If you love him, you will stay.
He doesn't have to be with her in order to be a part of his son's life. It sounds to me like he doesn't want to be with her either way, so no matter what you guys decide about your relationship, he needs to sit
down with her for a talk and work out custody arrangements.
Life bring about all sorts of trails and I think we oughta stick it out
and stick with the people we love. If you two are happy together you should
work on your relationship and not give up on it. I bet it's not easy now,
and there are gonna be bumps on the road up a head too, but who doesn't
run into those?
So just sit down and have a talk of your own. Define the boundaries,
talk about your expectations from one another, your concerns etc.
Tell him you feel, get it all out in the open.
Good luck!
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