I have been ';seeing'; someone for a few weeks. We aren't actually together or even dating, but we liked each other. He is very nice and when I met him I had no intentions of having a thing with this guy, but he kept calling me and telling my friends how much he was into me. So for the last couple weeks we have been hanging out, and I have never done anything aside from kissing him, but we just get along and I really like him now.
BUT... as soon as I start having this feelings, he does something shitty.
Last Friday I was with him and then Saturday he had work and he told me that he would call when he got off. He called me, but he wanted to nap and then call me back once he woke up. He never called me that nite. He never called me Sunday. No call Monday, so Monday nite I tried calling to see what happened to him. No asnwer, nor did he call me back. He hasen't called/texted me at all this week. Idk if I should try to call again.
What do I do? I feel like I did something wrong...For anyone who gives good relationship advice..?
if something is wrong it wasn't your fault its himFor anyone who gives good relationship advice..?
He has problems with closeness and friendship. He wants to have you as a love relationship but is afraid of commitment. He isn't ready for a male/female friendship. He is insecure and needs to mature before he can accept you as a friend. If your feelings are strong and if you truly believe he is worth it, give him space and treat him like a friend and see if he responds or pulls away again. Good luck.
Most people don't understand the meaning of love. Love is not a sudden event. It takes time for love to develop. Love is not the same as sex. One can even av sex with somebody one does not really love. Like the prostitues, they exchange sex for money. Until u know the xter, habits and the values of a person, u can't really love the person.
Therefore, love is KNOWLEDGE not IGNORANCE. That is why there are so many cases of divorce nowadays. They claimed they were in love, they try to manage it but at the end of the day they had to settle for the demonic option--- divorce
mayb theres something wrong with him... u knw he could be sick or something
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