I need some womanly advice, relationship wise =(?

So im 32 weeks and my fiance is no longer wanting sex... I dont think it has anything to do with my body because I honestly haven't gotten bigger anywhere but in my stomach.. Its been awhile since we had sex and he hasn't masturbated or anything and for the whole year we've been dating he would want sex literally 10 minutes after we had sex and if we didnt have sex that day he would ALWAYS masturbate.. So I tried asking him why he no longer wanted sex and he shrugged his shoulders and said ';uhh... I dont know..'; and then started making up a bunch of excuses.. I tried to get more out of him but he said he didnt want to 'argue' about it (even though we were both talking very calmly) and then fell asleep.. So now i cant stop crying and i cant fall asleep Im so stressed out.. I dont know if our relationship is falling apart or if hes cheating on me... He goes into work early and works longer shifts now.. So what do you guys think is going on?I need some womanly advice, relationship wise =(?
While it's understandable that you're worried because of his change in behavior, you shouldn't go assuming the worst. He goes through hormonal changes too while you're pregnant and he also has feelings...no one likes to be interrogated when they themselves are insecure or have already told you how they felt and you don't believe them. Guys have a hard enough time expressing their feelings without you acting like they're lying...unless there is something specific you've seen him do.





Take a breath...relax. Maybe it's time you two worked on intimacy rather than sex...back rubs and walks in the park at sunset are great stress reducers and relationship builders :)I need some womanly advice, relationship wise =(?
some guys are afraid that if they have sex while the mother of their child is pregnant it could hurt the baby. when my friend was pregnant her bf wouldn't even talk to her and she thought he was cheating on her. he was actually just really nervous about the baby and didn't know how to tell her and was afraid of her mood swings. i don't know about the not masturbating though.
Tiffany,





Your man could be going through issues of his own with the pregnancy..I'm sure he still finds you attractive and such but he just might be having his own PMS moments right now....The best thing to do is to listen to that little womanly voice....If you think he's cheating then he probably is....However, if you think its simply because you are pregnant just give it a little time.
i agree with Asher. Men can be weird like that. They worry for the baby and cant think knowing that their son or daughter is in the same room with the mommy and daddy getting it on. ha ha. As for him ';maybe cheating'; its possible, but i wouldn't worry about it too much. If he's a good man and loves you, then i wouldn't think too much on it.
sometimes a new baby can cause the daddy alotta stress...sex drive tends to go down if you are really stressed out....may that be the case??....if everything else looks fishy...honestly just go with your gut instinct
Maybe he's worried he'll ';poke the baby';? Men can be funny like that.
Well two things could be going on. In the back of your mind you know what one of them is. We all have that fear and for half of us, it ends up being true. Men like sex, and if they arent getting it from you they have to be getting it from somewhere.......right? Well...not necessarily. He is going to be a father....That can frighten him and stress will make it so he does not desire or need sex. Dont be stressed out...society is what has programmed us to think men should want/need sex 24/7... They are human too and he is probably just going through some emotional changes.





:) Cheer up