I need help...with some relationship advice?

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for the past 5 years, we've broken up countless times but always got back together because we really do love each other. However this past month has been hell, we fight horribly and I don't feel close to him at all. I crave intimacy that I don't know if he will ever fulfill or not. He's very verbally abusive but I feel like I deserve it because of things that have happened to us in the past. Some days I just want to run away as I have done before or swallow a whole bottle of pills. I'm not sure what my question is but if anyone out there is reading this can you please say a prayer that God will show me his will for me in regards as to what to do. Thanks.I need help...with some relationship advice?
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.





I am going to pray for you because honestly I think that you should let this relationship go. I know that is harder said than done. TRUST ME I have been there. Jesus died to give you life and give you life abundantly that does not include pain and unhappiness. I know you love him but you have to love yourself. If you guys are willing to come together and pray with God then he could possibly restore the relationship for you but if he is not making you happy and not willing to try with actions to make you happy then God maybe trying to take him out of your life because he is poison, this guy is causing you to want to kill yourself is not Gods plan for you love. I will pray for you!I need help...with some relationship advice?
God doesn't want you to feel this way he also doesn't want anyone to be verbally abused. You don't deserve anything because of your past...it's the past! I say end it, you already know that he won't give you intimacy. Match the definition of love from the Bible and see if you truly have love.
Sure, I'll pray for you.


From what I can see, this is not a healthy relationship. This guy is dragging you down. You can do better.
Running or trying to end yourself solves nothing. Remember there are people that care about you. We care about you. Go talk to someone, anyone.
I will pray for you, Alice. There's a lot of great advice on here. I'm so much older than you and can speak of my own personal experiences with men that have shattered my self esteem and I can tell you also that you really don't need them. I've seen this in other women that I have close contact with and they are married to these types of men and they are completely miserable. I remember a friend saying that ';the good times really aren't that good but they seem like they are because the bad times are so frequent and so bad.'; You really don't need to be in this relationship. There is someone that the Lord has for you. Do you want Gods' best or what you think is good enough for you? Gods' best will bring you peace and a certainty that the one He has for you will make sure that you never feel this way again. Reach out to the Lord and when He hears you call His name I can guarantee that He'll answer you.


Take care and God Bless.


Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
From what I read, he is the guy you want. What I also read was that he is not what you need. He does not give you what you are looking for. You may be stuck in your mind thinking he is the only one. That is not the case. There are others. As hard as it may be, I would recommend that you move on. The big red flag is that you fight regularly. Someone who loves you does not fight. He just loves you and enjoys every minute with you. Find that man. Move forward. Enjoy the man who loves you. It is all a learning experience. You will look back and say that was strange. You will see your new love and smile.





Good luck.

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