Ladies, I need your advice (relationship issue)?

Ok, to make things short, my fiance is hanging out with this guy that I don't like, she knows I don't like (ive expressed this to her), yet she completely disregards me disliking him.





Now I don't mind her hanging out with guys at all, but this guy I can't stand. For once, she cheated on her last boyfriend with HIM. That really set the boundrys for me to be uncomfortable with this guy. This guy also sits at home all day, smokes pot, doesn't go anywhere in life and tries to get my fiance to do the same. He's even endangered her life doing that once, and I made it very clear to him that I'd rip his soul out of his body if he did that again.





I'm in the military so I am stationed away from home. Is she hanging out with him because she is away from me and I'm not there? I never said she couldn't, but I really dislike the fact that she hangs out with THIS GUY (other guys are np).





I need some advice ladies thanksLadies, I need your advice (relationship issue)?
ok the real question is do you trust her, if you dont trust her and being far away from her then mabey she is doing something, i nkow this isnt what you want to hear but if she hangs out with him a lot and has cheated on other boyfriends with this guy then since your not there mabey shes doing the same, if shes loyal then she isn't and she should understand why you dont want her hanging out with him and mabey there is more to the story that shes not telling u. it sounds like you dont trust her so if theres not trust the relationship wont work ive been there!!!Ladies, I need your advice (relationship issue)?
Wow i'd be way mad at her if i were you. If she is aware that you don't like her hanging out with him she should respect that. You should tell her that if she hangs out with him, you can hang out with any girl you want without her opinion. She's being totally unfair. Sorry!
she really shouldnt be hanging out with him. tell her how inportant it is to you that she doesnt, and hopefully she will stop, seeing as you are her fiance, she should.





good luck
Find someone else. If she disregards you so much that she will hang with a guy she once cheated with you don't need her. Don't blame the guy. IT';S HER!
she probably wants to chill b/c your not there but i would keep my eye on her because of her cheating with him before and honestly i wouldn't care what he did if i trusted my fiance enough to know how to act around him
Why she is hanging out with him I am not sure. I believe that ladies need to support there men that are over seas and that they need to do the necessary things to keep you from worrying and vice verso. If you have expressed to her that you don't like her being around him then she really should respect your wishes (especially if they have a past). It is not fair to you for her to be doing that. I know you said you didn't tell her she couldn't hand out with him but she should also respect the fact that you don't feel comfortable with her being around him. I wish you the best of luck and hope you can resolve the situation... And be safe wherever you are stationed.
well I'm not sure what advice you're looking for but i does kinda sound like she is doing that on purpose. If she cheated on her last bf with him, she should know she has a weakness towards him or he can influence her to do it again. So she needs to only be around him when others are present, or when you're there.


And since she is doing it when you're stationed somewhere.....makes it kinda suspicious. But never assume things I guess. Assuming things can really screw up some great things. Good luck with things.