ok, i've been with my b/f for 2.5 years, and lately i just haven't felt anything when we kiss or when he hugs me or really anything. i don't look forward to seeing him like i used to, and idk it's just completely different. i know i don't love him anymore. well i got this new job, and hooked up with this guy i work with 3 times. i knew it was wrong, but i didn't feel guilty at all about it. now, i realize that im really starting to get feelings for him, and i know i shouldn't. he confuses me cuz when we're alone he'll always want me to kiss him and calls me babe and says how beautiful i am, but in front of his friends, he acts like nothings going on with us. so basically to sum it up, my b/f is head over heels in love with me, but i don't love him. i really like this other guy, but i know he doesn't like me plus i work with him. idk how to tell my b/f i dont love him anymore, and idk what to do in general about the other guy. PLEASE HELP! if it helps at all, i'm 18, my b/f is 20 and the other guy is 19Please help...i need some relationship advice, pronto!?
You're not being fair to anyone, including yourself.
Step 1: Break up with your boyfriend. It'll be better for him in the long run. If you care about him at all, spare him the extra humiliation and heartache and stop stringing him along. You're playing him for a fool.
Step 2: Stop this thing you have going with the 19 year old. Clearly, he's not going to treat you right and truthfully, you probably only want him for the thrill of the chase. Once you break up with your boyfriend and your sexual relaitonship with this guy is no longer ';forbidden,'; you'll lose interest. And it doesn't sound like he's all that interested in you anyway. Plus, this relaitonship started out of a lie. It won't go anywhere good.
Step 3: Stay single for awhile. Get to know yourself and think about who you really are and what you really want. It seems like you're lost. Find yourself before you lose all respect for yourself and everyone else.
acne
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