Duno what i should do, relationship advice?

ok ... so i am not all to exp. ed in relation ships mind u i have the mind of a theropist so i know how to aproach and figure things out ... but with out the exp .. i kinda don't have much except footing...


so i am curently in a relationship with a girl ... she is cool peeps =) name krystina. she is reasonable, rational which meens she won't go off in left feild 24 7 ... she is heading some where in life .. mind u she gets distracted easy lol XP kinda cute... i feel comfortable around her... i have trust issues with people .. and it would be easy for people to say i have alooot of pride in my own dignity if that makes sense %26gt;.%26gt;... hold my own that kinda thing ya know, no generousity =)... but i expect people to let me spoil them .. cause i am weird like that -_- ... we get along and i duno .. she she is there in person and it is just me and here omg... no doupts in the world .. =) ong omg i like making her squirm XP lol ...


then there is kinda this girl jade ... i have known her since i was like shrip fried rice... when i was 14 it acured to me .. ';omg O.O jades a girl, i meen a girl girl O.O'; %26gt;.%26lt; she was taken at the time ... i moved away... i have memories in a realy small sense with her... well latter on in a group home she sent me message via my mother durring visits... i was like 17 now .. my heart fliped even though i had moved on all of a suden i was OMG O.O how could i never tell how awsome life is.. kinda deal... i have always tried to keep my distance .. mind u back then i didn't have the best hold on my emotions -_- ... they kinda ran rampid... but recently about 3 ish months ago i finaly came to the resolution that even if she only see's me as a freind, i don't just the thought of her makes me happy and want to jump up and glomp some one any one or thing i just need to glomp =.= .... so i decided no =.= i want jade i am not gonna pussy foot around this afraid she only see's me as a brother figure... i am a decent person .. i work my *** off to be so ... i have worth .. and god dam it i wanna grow old with this person .... where as with krystina i don't have these kinda feelings or much of any .. just comfort ... with jade i have polar oposite.. her relations ships have been known to last a few months before headed to inevitable doom .. or she see's some thing she values more.. this is intimidateing ... so i don't feel sure she would stick around .. but i still feel overwhelmed with all of how i feel ... she isn't the most rational person .. XD which is cute .. but omg there would be soo many fights T.T all in all i duno what to do O.O





if i go with krystina , i feel know in my thoughts and highly anylitical way of aproaching life as i am ... i know i could build a stable .. stable future ... solid .. but i duno rediculously hallow in comparison to what i could have with jade... and with jade every momentish, right now would seem like it would be lived to the fullest, content no regrets but hevey with conflict .. and prolly parley holding on... but alive... ^_^ yea





and that would be the side i guess my heart would move towards .. wow saying that sounds so dorky =.= ... so yea i am looking for a .. well hey this is how it works for me .. yea if u go in to this then yea it will be all blahdy blah but it gets better the hump is just seems biger than it is o.O .. or a uuh yea -_- ur a noob just go with it it seems u got it down already ... er w/e O.O Duno what i should do, relationship advice?
If in fact you have feelings for Jade. you OWE IT to Krystina to tell her. You need to be up front so she can chose what's right for her. Then tell Jade your feelings for her, and perhaps she'll share them as well!.... that is if you are a ';decent person';, as you claim to be.... If you aren't a decent person, by all means tell Jade you love her and use Krystina as a spare tire in case Jade rejects you.


So it all boils down to what sort of person you are. Are you decent, or are you indecent?





A man of honor would tell the truth to both girls and have the strength to take whatever may come of it.





In life, honesty is key.Duno what i should do, relationship advice?
I would say go with Jade then. It's obvious that your feelings toward her are more meaningful. Tell this Krystina girl that you like her only as a friend. Relationships are bumpy and hard to work at, but if this Jade girl is willing and I mean really willing to work at it then take a chance. And if it doesn't work then at least you had that chance to know and move on.