I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?

I am Deaf, and Wheelchair msyelf too. I had little bit of trouble and asking girl out because my body is not great for example bad muslcaar but still good average great. I always had great health overall. I wondering should I telling her about my disabliites


? I wondering people will accept like a wheelchair guy if he can't help himself (personal thing). I know I can have great sex despite that I had disability myself . Thanks for helping.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
be honest to a girl and from their you will find out who's willing to accept you inspite of your disabilities.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
To be honest is the best way but I have a little offbit advise, you might sound it rude but if you are already NOT into any sort of relationship, find a girl who is also a little disable. This is only to make you feel secure for lifetime. If she is perfectly Ms. 10, I bet....sooner or later you will feel insecure and once you plant a seed of doubt in mind, it will ruin relationship NO MATTER she is not doing anything wrong. Think over this....
All I can say is you need to be strong and beliving in yourself. You don't need to tell anyone about your disabilities.


You certainly don't want your true love lady to feel sorry for you. Remember, your future wife must truely accept the way you are.


I know it is a matter of time you will find your everlasting partner.
I have had a personal encounter with a Polio stricken friend who is almost in your situation. However, the is a tough man, crafty, sly and always go for what the world has to offer(at the expense of others). He managed to get himself a gf despite his handicapped and stuffs. He holds a high position in a lousy company and is well feared by his colleagues. This is due to his tendency to screw people up and the other evil things he does to people around him.





All I can say is, DO NOT look down or UNDERESTIMATE the handicapped, especially if you are one yourself. They can do wonders screwing up the lives of normal people, even. Sometimes it amazes me how handicapped people like my friend could outsmart normal people like myself.





In a nutshell, do not fret, do not give up, just muster enough confidence and audacity in yourself and your abilities.





If you want to get more motivation/ inspiration from my friend, his name is Tan Teik Thai and he works for SEGi College Penang.