Friday, April 30, 2010

Need advice about relationship?

I have been hanging out with my friend of the opposite sex for a while and I have developed feeling towards her. I want to ask her out but I am afraid I might ruin the friendship. Any suggestions?Need advice about relationship?
You need figure out if she feels the same way towards you before you go and say something that could ruin your friendship . If she seems she feels the same way (through her actions and what not) then I would go for it but if she just seems like she is just being her typically friendly self I wouldnt.Need advice about relationship?
Easy answer,,, Find her in a good joking mood and just slide your lips close to her ear and say ';Hey wonderful,, want to play spin the bottle with me';??





It works every time,, well 40 years ago it did.
before you ask her out, try to find out how she sees you first... like if you think she's ready go to the next level on your friendship... start by making a joke out of it... like ask her: ';Hey, what if i ask you out, would you allow me to?'; whether she answers a YES or NO, just take it back like ';Hmmm..as if il take you out, huh?';... that would leave her hanging, but would give a little excitement deep in her...





but if she says YES, and if you feel bad taking what you said back, then surprise her with a romantic picnic candle lit dinner under the stars...





but just take it slow, just act as normal as possible the way you used to act around her as so she wont have to feel ackward being with you...you may go beyond your actions once you feel she's feeling the same way you're feeling too...
OMG i have problems like this all the time take it from a 13 year old girl. u need to get somewhere and talk to her in privet but not so that she feels ockwerd. Ask her out to a movie or something and explain to her how u feel and ask if she can give ur relationship a chance and if not can yall go back to being just friends. Not every thing works out all the time but if she is a nice girl she will want to give u a chance and if not them she might not no what she is missing out on
You need to chose between taking a chance and falling in love or taking a chance and ruining the friendship.





You best bet would be to be honest with yourself about what her potential feelings for you really are.





By simply asking this question I would bet she is not interested in you in that way and you are about to make a huge mistake.

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