He doesn't want a relationship.. advice?? guys too please?

So I've been seeing this guy all summer long. Every week or every couple of days we hang out, and I really like him.


He says he has trust issues, which I understand. Eventually, after we had talked for a while, he had said he trusted me, which i felt made us a lot closer, and I began to open up to him and trust him too.


But I asked him why we couldn't have a relationship into the year, he said because ';he doesn't like long distance relationships.'; We only live 15 minutes away from each other. We go to different schools, but I said that it wasn't exactly long distance. He says he has had experiences in the past where he dated girls from other schools, and they have cheated on him, and that he doesn't want them again. But I argued saying that even if we were in the same school district there still would be the possibility of us cheating. Then i asked him if he trusted me, and he said yes. But again i brought up the fact that if he didn't trust me not to cheat, he didn't actually trust me. So then he took it back that he trusted me fully, which upset me.


We aren't together, we aren't 'dating', and we don't have a relationship and probably will not have one.


We still talk, but I don't know what i should do. We've become good friends band I like him a lot, but I don't know if I'm just some girl he calls when he feels h*rny or if i actually mean something to him.


I'm not sure what i should do.


Should I tell him that if nothing is ever going to happen between us, we can't do this anymore? Or should I just let the summer fling die out by itself.


Help please !!He doesn't want a relationship.. advice?? guys too please?
If you can't handle just being friends with him, then you should stop hanging out with him.He doesn't want a relationship.. advice?? guys too please?
You dont want to be with anyone just for sex. Find another man with better morals. Save yourself for the next guy you meet who wants to have a long term serious relationship.
he's afraid of commitment i don't think you should do it anymore
if all you want is sex then keep doing what your doing but in reality hes not going back to u like you said he only calls when he is horny so thats all he wants duh?
you have to decide if you want to pursue just a friendship with him or whether its better to cut ties. personally, i'd recommend the latter, as i've been through the very very hurtful ';we just broke up but we're still going to hangout and hookup, but i dont want you to be my girlfriend or have any say in what i do'; phase, which ultimately leaves you hating each other much more than if you had just cut ties.





cant wait around for these boys forever, right?? live your life
one piece of information:


you can't take every guy's word literally. sometimes a guy will say something only to please the girl. you're probably pressing him to trust you, and he said it merely to please you so you'll drop the subject.


right now no he does not trust you. and it's not ur fault. it's his issue and he has to work it out himself. but what you CAN do is to be supportive. trust issue takes time to work out. yes your summer fling might die but i'm sure eventually he'll work around his trust. it's just the question of whether you are ready to wait for him