Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I would really appreciate some relationship advice.?

my boyfriend and i dated for 3 and a half years when he said he wanted a break. 3 months later we got back together. it has been 2 weeks. i am kind of keeping my distance and my gaurd up...and last night he was at my house, and we were talking about something and i was like ';well i guess you are going to have to keep my around for awhile if you want to do that'; and he was like ';stop that i want to keep you around forever'; we are both 26 by the way. i just want some opinions on what he may be thinking, it is just so confusing.I would really appreciate some relationship advice.?
good that u got back together, but theres a reason that ur keeping ur guard up...there maybe something that bothers u that u may not trust much.


when u said what u said...it may seem like ur still bitter that u 2 broke up. so thats y he said stop it kinda thing...he may needed to realize that ur both 26 an this is it, u may be the one..he needed to step back and take a deep breath and go for it...give it time...make sure everything is clear, communication works...but make sure he knows u dont wanna be hurt...but love him if u love him...hope this helps good luckI would really appreciate some relationship advice.?
Maybe he just realised exactley what he wanted in that time apart, absense makes the heart grow fonder and all! I do think u should talk to him and explain your doubts, ask him what made him want to take a break and what made him realise he wanted you back! If your not ready for the forever part tell him, but assure him u do love him (if you do)!
It's good to keep your guard up if you feel a little insecure about the relationship. But I think he is thinking for the long term. There's certainly a reason why he came back. How about asking him what he expects from the relationship? You might get a clearere idea.

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