Hi. Looking for some important relationship advice!?

Me and my girlfriend were in a very serious relationship for over 3 years. When I first met her I wasn't even looking for a relationship, I was happy being young and single, spending quality time with my friends and generally enjoying life. Then I met this girl and the whole world moved for me. It was the most incredible feeling. She felt the same way and here our relationship started. Everything started off great, we sgared some of the greatest times. Then we both went to university. The relationship has had its ups and downs, but we stayed together becuase we knew that we were right together. The problem though was that my girlfriend couldn't cope with not seeing me as often as before uni, it made her unhappy, and I didn't know what I could do to resolve this. I must admit that the time apart wasn't as painful for me as it was for her. Eventually she got so upset that she finished it.The couple of weeks after the break-up I was feeling so restless. I couldn't eat or sleep for feeling so desperate for her. I have never felt so desperate in my life. The problem is that I have spoken to her about these feelings since, and realise that she would take me back if I proved to her that I still love her. Since realising this however, those desperate feelings seem to have subsided and I am feeling a little indifferent. I feel that we could be happy again, but I know she expects a lot from me and I don't want to hurt her anymore if I can't make her as happy as she deserves to be. What should I do? Is this just a case of me wanting what I can't have? Hi. Looking for some important relationship advice!?
For your circumstances, I would stay close friends with her for the time being. SHE was the one that did break it off, so you have to leave some of this decision up to her. It seems like it upset her a lot more than it did for you-- and you just had the usual complex that you didn't realize what you had until it was gone.





I would give her a call and tell her of your feelings, but also of your concern for being far away. Maybe you could suggest that if neither of you have moved on to someone else by the time you Graduate College, then you guys could rekindle what you left.





I hope everything works out for you-- almost everyone going off to school has a situation thats similar!!Hi. Looking for some important relationship advice!?
I don't see that you have anything to prove to her. She broke up with you, so if anyone needs to be doing anything special for anyone, it should be her trying to get you back. If it was me, I would just drop it and move on. There is someone out there that will appreciate you for just who you are without having to prove anything.
i say you go for it.. if you really wanna make things work, you'll find a way to make things work for the two of you. go outta your way to make her happy!
if you dont have any real intresets in seeing her n tht it doesnt bother you tht ur not seeing her maybe its that youve moved on..bt idk it seems that you dont care too much at first you did but after a while you kinda got used to the whole thing...dont lead her on thinking she has a chance if deep down ur feelings have changed a little! idk wat to tell you tho sorry! all i cn say is focus on your carrer n stuff n maybe u just needed a little break
O.K. lol um it seems like your in love at this point. If your ex gf doesn't see that you could make her happy, i would go and try to make it happen. If you rlly love the girl then go after what is right. Don't give up on a loved one that you might only find once in a blue moon. She still loves you and you still love her. Thats a real relationship! She might have done you wrong and you have done her wrong too, but thats what makes a relationship strong is if you keep working at it and trying to get it right. You should go talk to her and if she doesn't listen then try with all your power to get her to listen. She will listen to you if u tried. You can get your gf back, just have faith! You two belong together!!!!!!
You and your friend a lot of your life time Three years together of to days average life (50Years)


you people have understand each others , know your feelings , choices and you guys can best restablish your relations.


I think some weeks break is not that much , but it should not exceed 40 days.


I think you should be persistent in expressing your love and affection to her.


She is girle i believe she will come to you.


and you guyes will walk for long run.



Wow, its not that often that you hear a bloke putting his girlfriends feelings ahead of his own, even if it means he will feel bad. This relationship obviously means a lot to you both. I think that you need to get your heads together and see what it is you both want from this and if it could work. Uni isnt forever and there is time to travel at weekends and half term. If this is meant to be, then it will. GL :)
I think this is one that you will have to try and figure out on your own.,


anyone can give you advice, but none of us know what is inside your heart or head. If you are truly in love with this person,then being apart should not make a difference in your heart of hearts. Or Hers.


Think long and hard, this could be your future you are thinking about.


Good Luck, but, don't do something just to make someone else feel good.


She sounds like she might be a little insecure either with the relationship or with herself.


Talk things out it may be in both your best interests.