Friday, April 30, 2010

I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?

My man is gone out of town for work for a month, I only get to talk to him every couple of days b/c of cell service. I am really having a tough time....I guess trusting. I feel like he doesn't miss me like I do, and this isn't even phasing him. Should I send him a text telling him I am worried or no??? What can I do please help:( We are 25 been together year and a half...I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
He might be very busy working. Most jobs that take you out of town that long usually pay well and the work can be dangerous. I live in Alaska and many go away for 2 weeks to a month. Text him without complaining and just tell him you miss him and you have a nice surprise when he gets home. As far as the surprise goes, use your imagination because only you know what he likes. Have a girlfriend take a picture of you wearing something naughty and mail it to him so he knows what he is coming home to.I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
Def dont send him a message telling him you have doubts. That will probably piss him off. I would just stop worrying so much. He is probably pre-occupied with work. He probably misses you and just dont have the time to tell you like he wants to.
If you're going to send a text message, send one that affirms your relationship. Let him know you're missing him and can't wait til he's home again.





Your insecurity is YOUR issue to deal with. Texting him with your worry will only alienate him and make him wonder what you're projecting onto him.





IF you trust him when he's in town, you have to trust him when he's out of town.
In the grand scheme of things, one month with minimal contact is a cake walk. (Think about what military wives go through!) Marriages survive because couples are able to work through the big issues and they don't waste time with little ones like this.





He'll be home in a month. Just keep busy, BREATHE, and know that he loves you.
You don't say whether your man is a husband or a boyfriend, but follow the advice about just sending him a short text saying you miss him. Then do something to occupy you. Invite some friends to go to dinner, a movie, bowling, or something else to get out. remember: ';If you love something set it free. If it comes back to you, it is yours. If not, then it never was';
If u really care u shuld let him knw ur worried and u dont wanna lose him so ya....
You think about negative things too much. That'll drive him away if you keep it up.
Nope, just text him and tell him you are thinking of him, and miss him. You don't want to come across as insecure or jealous, so trust him to be good. After all, boys will be boys!
Don't assume anything on his half. Do not be afraid to tell him your fears.Asure him of your feelings and see what kind of response you get. Good luck
He probably does miss you just as much but he might feel that he needs to be manly and not admit it.


Try to take your mind off of him being away. Use this time for you-time.


Have a girls night in or go out with girls. Have fun! Do the things he doesn't like you doing. Go out, get drunk, have a laugh.


Text him a wee hello if you are missing him and tell him your missing him because guys don't tend to tell girls how they are feeling without some kind of push. Gd luck x
He's spraying other women now.

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