Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Girls I need your help (relationship advice)?

I have a friend (girl) who I know likes me. Every body language sign you can think of, checking me out, being flirty. If I was watching from the outside I'd tell anyone...She's really into you. But whenever I start to make moves towards us being more than friends she clams up and suddenly becomes impossible. For the life of me I don't understand why. I know she's not playing me, she's a good person but I DO NOT KNOW why she does this. I'm used to being around girls and can normally read them really well but this one has got me stumped. Other people notice and tell me to but she will not open up to me when I make the effort.





Help me girls...I need it lol





Thanks


AlexGirls I need your help (relationship advice)?
She is maybe scared of ruining your friendship if she allows you to make things more serious between you, so clams up. Either that or she has been hurt in the past and is cautious of getting into another relationship again. Whatever the reason, you need to chat to her and find out what if anything is wrong with her, good luck!Girls I need your help (relationship advice)?
well it sounds like she is scared. she prolly does like you


and she prolly does want to get closer to you but there might have been somethin that has happened to her that she doesnt quite know how to open up completely. i know you prolly want the attention still but maybe you should talk to her and just keep telling her that you wont hurt her and that you really would like to get to know her because she may just need reassurance.
well she's flirting with you man! if she's shy that means she's probably wants you to like her, well you should open up if ya like her. she does that cause she likes you! i used to always clam up around my crush (now my boyfriend) and i got so comfortable i told him i liked him. good luck
Dont just move in for the kill, ask her out if you like her. Girls dont like to think there being used.
you dont take relationship advice from women bro. thats what will screw you over. they will lie
dude.... im sorry. that sucks, but i went through the same thing and now we're together and best friends.
Hmmmm


Well its kind of hard to say b/c I don鈥檛 know wat her personality is like鈥s she the shy type? Or really loud/ blunt w/ everything/never gets embarrassed? If shes shy then that鈥檚 ur answer right there鈥uz im kind of shy and I think that this might be my reaction =/


If this is the case then mayve u could move a little more slowly, and make her more comfortable around you, etc first. You did not say wat it is you do exactly to take it to the next level鈥ut maybe you could ask her if she wants to hang out one day?


Also maybe she doesn鈥檛 understand that ur trying to make it more than just friends. Wat do you say exactly? She might be embarrassed (cuz she realized that you know) or maybe you caught her off guard. Maybe she just doesn鈥檛 know how to react to you or wat to do. Try to make it a little easier for her. Just don鈥檛 give up鈥攊f you鈥檙e sure she likes you then keep trying, she just might be a little difficult. She may need a little space. Observe her actions a little more. Well good luck, I hope I helped ;)
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