I was trying to get ya'lls opinion on something I am going through right now. Anything you say helps, I wont take it as an offense.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 4 1/2 years, I am his first real girlfriend and he's my first serious relationship. We meet in college and from there I was able to graduate and due to some financial problems he is two credits short from doing so. Therefore, he decided to join the air force (something I was opposed to when he initially told me, but the more I thought about it the more I supported his decision). He did basic training and I went to grad school, the whole time we wrote back and forth and he called me as much as his TI's allowed him too. When I first saw him at his basic training graduation, I was afraid that he would no longer be the person I knew but to my surprise he was the same sweet guy i knew! Right after graduation he was sent to Biloxi, MS for his tech school training, where he has been there for about two weeks now. I think I screwed up by calling him (since he was finally given his cell phone back) a bit too much and I accept blame for being a bit overbearing with that, but I was excited that he finally had a way to communicate with me yet being a bit selfish I did not take into account that it was his first week there and he probably had no time to do anything but what his instructers were telling him to do. This particular morning his cell phone was not locked and somehow called me twice, all I heard was him in a relaxed manner talkng to a female. I hung the phone the first time, the second time I listened in for like 2 minutes and I did not hear them talk about anything that would indicate flirting. But it frustrated me that he sounded relaxed and into this conversation with this female, yet did not have two seconds to text me ';good morning'; that I tried calling him back to see if everything was ok, yet each time he would just press ignore on his phone. I texted him asking if he was ok, yet he never replied, until the girl he was talking to did and from his phone! Like I said, I understand I was annoying and I would probably not want to talk to me for a while either but was it right for him to have a girl send me a text saying ';leave him alone';? Should he have been man enough to text it or call me himself? Yet he still would not talk to me at all, until a day ago that he called, but he sounded mad and monotone. When I told him ';i love you'; as we usually end our conversations he declined to say it back. He just said ';I just need you to relax';. I asked him where do I stand in the relationship, if one even exists to which he stated that he always has feelings for me. So I'm more confused. I mean we have 4 1/2 yrs of dating, living together, knowing a lot about each other, etc, was it wrong of him to let a fellow female trainee take his phone and text me three times to say leave him alone? My parents said that was pretty unmanly of him and move on, my friends say the same thing. I see their point, because coming from the guy who has told me he will marry me soon, has me wondering if I want to spend the rest of my life miserable wondering if today will be the day he will hate me for something I did. From my perscpective, I believe that he has now come to the realization that there are other people out there to see, he has grown tired of me, and that he probably needs to dump me. Now that he is in the air force and most of his friends are single, and he is in a casino city, I think he wants his freedom and the ';single life'; without having to worry what I would think of his actions (which I do not care what he does as long as he doesnt cheat or go bankrupt and he knows that). I hate to give up this relationship because I have strong feelings for him and everything seems to remind me of him, but the more I think about it the more it seems to be a lost cause. What would you do? Move on? Try to work it out? Forget the incident and hope next time he calls he isnt upset anymore? Thanks!Can anyone give me some relationship advice? Please!?
Don't get ONE-itis. You are so insecure, I know that just because you haven't already left. Start to love yourself and demand more. Read ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss, then go have some fun and play it. This guy will be a funny memory one day about your insecure days.
Here's hoping you grow out of him!Can anyone give me some relationship advice? Please!?
did you ask him why did he allow another person to use his phone without permission? it seems to me he is rather irritated with you right now. give your relationship sometime since you really love him, about 1 month to see if he treats you better and do not call him at all. let him be the one who misses you and call you.
at the same time, be open and see if you meet someone new. he doesn't seem to be that committed to you.
move on !! you don't need a guy that is going to do that but if its meant to be it'll happen but don't worry move on. =)
get over him. he obviously had something going on with that other woman and wants to move on but just doesn't know how to tell u. its best your move on now before you two get any deeper.
Hi. That is a rough situation you have there.
For what it is worth, I would suggest that you Move on. He is in a situation which will be bringing about huge changes in him. There is always the chance that once he gets himself settled, that he will come back to you, but he is growing right now, and probably sees you as ';past'; or confining.
I am sorry to write this, cause I know you are probably wanting someone to tell you that everything is alright.
If this is destined to be, then someday he will come back on his own...
Good luck to you.
Friday, April 30, 2010
How come the people who have never been in relationships have the best advice on relationships?
It seems like all of my friends who have never been in relationships have the best advice on relationships unlike my friends who have had lots of boyfriends and a lot more experience How come the people who have never been in relationships have the best advice on relationships?
How can they have the best advice if they have never been in a relationship? They don't know anything about relationships except for what they see around them and on TV. Sorry, but I wouldn't go to a marriage counselor who has been divorced and barely on her second marriage nor would I listen to someone who hasn't even had one boyfriend that has lasted over five months. How come the people who have never been in relationships have the best advice on relationships?
because the still have the right ideals and standards,they havent had the chance to be sweet talked into stuff and so on. and haven't been confused by all the men that they met that have said and done different things .
i would say because instead of being in the relationships they are observing others and their relationships and they learn that way.
they learn what to do and not to do just by hearing what situations other couples are going through.
many people learn better by observing rather then experiencing. :)
Is easier to give advise than actually do things.. Like an old say '; easier say than done.'; when we are in the problem we dont see things the way the third person sees it.. Is always like that it doesn't matter how experience's you are.
Easy. They don't have the emotional involvement so they can look at it objectively.
they dont :Sacne
How can they have the best advice if they have never been in a relationship? They don't know anything about relationships except for what they see around them and on TV. Sorry, but I wouldn't go to a marriage counselor who has been divorced and barely on her second marriage nor would I listen to someone who hasn't even had one boyfriend that has lasted over five months. How come the people who have never been in relationships have the best advice on relationships?
because the still have the right ideals and standards,they havent had the chance to be sweet talked into stuff and so on. and haven't been confused by all the men that they met that have said and done different things .
i would say because instead of being in the relationships they are observing others and their relationships and they learn that way.
they learn what to do and not to do just by hearing what situations other couples are going through.
many people learn better by observing rather then experiencing. :)
Is easier to give advise than actually do things.. Like an old say '; easier say than done.'; when we are in the problem we dont see things the way the third person sees it.. Is always like that it doesn't matter how experience's you are.
Easy. They don't have the emotional involvement so they can look at it objectively.
they dont :S
I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
My man is gone out of town for work for a month, I only get to talk to him every couple of days b/c of cell service. I am really having a tough time....I guess trusting. I feel like he doesn't miss me like I do, and this isn't even phasing him. Should I send him a text telling him I am worried or no??? What can I do please help:( We are 25 been together year and a half...I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
He might be very busy working. Most jobs that take you out of town that long usually pay well and the work can be dangerous. I live in Alaska and many go away for 2 weeks to a month. Text him without complaining and just tell him you miss him and you have a nice surprise when he gets home. As far as the surprise goes, use your imagination because only you know what he likes. Have a girlfriend take a picture of you wearing something naughty and mail it to him so he knows what he is coming home to.I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
Def dont send him a message telling him you have doubts. That will probably piss him off. I would just stop worrying so much. He is probably pre-occupied with work. He probably misses you and just dont have the time to tell you like he wants to.
If you're going to send a text message, send one that affirms your relationship. Let him know you're missing him and can't wait til he's home again.
Your insecurity is YOUR issue to deal with. Texting him with your worry will only alienate him and make him wonder what you're projecting onto him.
IF you trust him when he's in town, you have to trust him when he's out of town.
In the grand scheme of things, one month with minimal contact is a cake walk. (Think about what military wives go through!) Marriages survive because couples are able to work through the big issues and they don't waste time with little ones like this.
He'll be home in a month. Just keep busy, BREATHE, and know that he loves you.
You don't say whether your man is a husband or a boyfriend, but follow the advice about just sending him a short text saying you miss him. Then do something to occupy you. Invite some friends to go to dinner, a movie, bowling, or something else to get out. remember: ';If you love something set it free. If it comes back to you, it is yours. If not, then it never was';
If u really care u shuld let him knw ur worried and u dont wanna lose him so ya....
You think about negative things too much. That'll drive him away if you keep it up.
Nope, just text him and tell him you are thinking of him, and miss him. You don't want to come across as insecure or jealous, so trust him to be good. After all, boys will be boys!
Don't assume anything on his half. Do not be afraid to tell him your fears.Asure him of your feelings and see what kind of response you get. Good luck
He probably does miss you just as much but he might feel that he needs to be manly and not admit it.
Try to take your mind off of him being away. Use this time for you-time.
Have a girls night in or go out with girls. Have fun! Do the things he doesn't like you doing. Go out, get drunk, have a laugh.
Text him a wee hello if you are missing him and tell him your missing him because guys don't tend to tell girls how they are feeling without some kind of push. Gd luck x
He's spraying other women now.
He might be very busy working. Most jobs that take you out of town that long usually pay well and the work can be dangerous. I live in Alaska and many go away for 2 weeks to a month. Text him without complaining and just tell him you miss him and you have a nice surprise when he gets home. As far as the surprise goes, use your imagination because only you know what he likes. Have a girlfriend take a picture of you wearing something naughty and mail it to him so he knows what he is coming home to.I need some help with my relationship!!! Please advice anyone!?
Def dont send him a message telling him you have doubts. That will probably piss him off. I would just stop worrying so much. He is probably pre-occupied with work. He probably misses you and just dont have the time to tell you like he wants to.
If you're going to send a text message, send one that affirms your relationship. Let him know you're missing him and can't wait til he's home again.
Your insecurity is YOUR issue to deal with. Texting him with your worry will only alienate him and make him wonder what you're projecting onto him.
IF you trust him when he's in town, you have to trust him when he's out of town.
In the grand scheme of things, one month with minimal contact is a cake walk. (Think about what military wives go through!) Marriages survive because couples are able to work through the big issues and they don't waste time with little ones like this.
He'll be home in a month. Just keep busy, BREATHE, and know that he loves you.
You don't say whether your man is a husband or a boyfriend, but follow the advice about just sending him a short text saying you miss him. Then do something to occupy you. Invite some friends to go to dinner, a movie, bowling, or something else to get out. remember: ';If you love something set it free. If it comes back to you, it is yours. If not, then it never was';
If u really care u shuld let him knw ur worried and u dont wanna lose him so ya....
You think about negative things too much. That'll drive him away if you keep it up.
Nope, just text him and tell him you are thinking of him, and miss him. You don't want to come across as insecure or jealous, so trust him to be good. After all, boys will be boys!
Don't assume anything on his half. Do not be afraid to tell him your fears.Asure him of your feelings and see what kind of response you get. Good luck
He probably does miss you just as much but he might feel that he needs to be manly and not admit it.
Try to take your mind off of him being away. Use this time for you-time.
Have a girls night in or go out with girls. Have fun! Do the things he doesn't like you doing. Go out, get drunk, have a laugh.
Text him a wee hello if you are missing him and tell him your missing him because guys don't tend to tell girls how they are feeling without some kind of push. Gd luck x
He's spraying other women now.
Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
We're in love, pregnant, and excited! She started contacting bf again, to be ';friends';. All over him first time I met her...he told her to fix things with me before he'll be her friend again! This is my response to her, too much?
I apologize, however I find it extremely difficult to trust or respect you. I know what your ';type'; is all about, as well as the measures you'll take to get what you want - however I am not afraid because I know who I am and what I stand for. I understand that you get attention through your choice in clothing, and your less than classy acts... unfortunately that doesn't get you very far in life. I'm above that - when people like me, I know that it's true and for all of the right reasons. I don't find it necessary to get attention by dry humping every guy I come in contact with, and pushing my boobs and bottom in their face. People who act like this come off as trashy, and I can guarantee that while they think they are ';sexy'; everyone is making fun of them behind their backs.....Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
wow, you go! Thats awesome!Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
try and talk to her and if that does not work. talk to your boy
friend and see if he going to do something about it. if not you
will have to go to the next thing.
It sounds great and you'll feel better to get all that off your chest but it shows how much effort you put into your response and that she forced you to go to all that trouble to put her down. Not to mention she might not have the mental capacity to fully appreciate your words. I would keep it short and sweet. Just say something like your boyfriend has been happy ever since she's been out of his life and there is nothing she could possibly offer him to make his life any better, you're taking care of things just fine.
From what i read you handled it really well. I wish i would have had the chance to confront my boyfriends ';friend'; the way you did. My boyfriend never gave me the chance, he's actually still friends with this person, regardless of what I say or how I feel. You've got a great guy, and you did well to get rid of that girl!!!!
I apologize, however I find it extremely difficult to trust or respect you. I know what your ';type'; is all about, as well as the measures you'll take to get what you want - however I am not afraid because I know who I am and what I stand for. I understand that you get attention through your choice in clothing, and your less than classy acts... unfortunately that doesn't get you very far in life. I'm above that - when people like me, I know that it's true and for all of the right reasons. I don't find it necessary to get attention by dry humping every guy I come in contact with, and pushing my boobs and bottom in their face. People who act like this come off as trashy, and I can guarantee that while they think they are ';sexy'; everyone is making fun of them behind their backs.....Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
wow, you go! Thats awesome!Trashy girl trying to get in the middle of our relationship - need advice!?
try and talk to her and if that does not work. talk to your boy
friend and see if he going to do something about it. if not you
will have to go to the next thing.
It sounds great and you'll feel better to get all that off your chest but it shows how much effort you put into your response and that she forced you to go to all that trouble to put her down. Not to mention she might not have the mental capacity to fully appreciate your words. I would keep it short and sweet. Just say something like your boyfriend has been happy ever since she's been out of his life and there is nothing she could possibly offer him to make his life any better, you're taking care of things just fine.
From what i read you handled it really well. I wish i would have had the chance to confront my boyfriends ';friend'; the way you did. My boyfriend never gave me the chance, he's actually still friends with this person, regardless of what I say or how I feel. You've got a great guy, and you did well to get rid of that girl!!!!
Long-Distance Relationship (Almost) Advice?
My friend is in love with this guy who lives like 6 states away from us. She wouldn't tell him though, even though she was very obsessed. A few days ago i texted him, and it turns out he has a girlfriend. Any advice on what she should do now? She is kind of sad now because she still likes him.Long-Distance Relationship (Almost) Advice?
LDR'S are the worst to be involve in...it plays on the mind a lot causing...to much stress and emotional hang ups to deal with APART. ...its my opinion and advice to avoid it at all cost...enjoy!
yNOT?
LDR'S are the worst to be involve in...it plays on the mind a lot causing...to much stress and emotional hang ups to deal with APART. ...its my opinion and advice to avoid it at all cost...enjoy!
yNOT?
Need advice about relationship?
I have been hanging out with my friend of the opposite sex for a while and I have developed feeling towards her. I want to ask her out but I am afraid I might ruin the friendship. Any suggestions?Need advice about relationship?
You need figure out if she feels the same way towards you before you go and say something that could ruin your friendship . If she seems she feels the same way (through her actions and what not) then I would go for it but if she just seems like she is just being her typically friendly self I wouldnt.Need advice about relationship?
Easy answer,,, Find her in a good joking mood and just slide your lips close to her ear and say ';Hey wonderful,, want to play spin the bottle with me';??
It works every time,, well 40 years ago it did.
before you ask her out, try to find out how she sees you first... like if you think she's ready go to the next level on your friendship... start by making a joke out of it... like ask her: ';Hey, what if i ask you out, would you allow me to?'; whether she answers a YES or NO, just take it back like ';Hmmm..as if il take you out, huh?';... that would leave her hanging, but would give a little excitement deep in her...
but if she says YES, and if you feel bad taking what you said back, then surprise her with a romantic picnic candle lit dinner under the stars...
but just take it slow, just act as normal as possible the way you used to act around her as so she wont have to feel ackward being with you...you may go beyond your actions once you feel she's feeling the same way you're feeling too...
OMG i have problems like this all the time take it from a 13 year old girl. u need to get somewhere and talk to her in privet but not so that she feels ockwerd. Ask her out to a movie or something and explain to her how u feel and ask if she can give ur relationship a chance and if not can yall go back to being just friends. Not every thing works out all the time but if she is a nice girl she will want to give u a chance and if not them she might not no what she is missing out on
You need to chose between taking a chance and falling in love or taking a chance and ruining the friendship.
You best bet would be to be honest with yourself about what her potential feelings for you really are.
By simply asking this question I would bet she is not interested in you in that way and you are about to make a huge mistake.
You need figure out if she feels the same way towards you before you go and say something that could ruin your friendship . If she seems she feels the same way (through her actions and what not) then I would go for it but if she just seems like she is just being her typically friendly self I wouldnt.Need advice about relationship?
Easy answer,,, Find her in a good joking mood and just slide your lips close to her ear and say ';Hey wonderful,, want to play spin the bottle with me';??
It works every time,, well 40 years ago it did.
before you ask her out, try to find out how she sees you first... like if you think she's ready go to the next level on your friendship... start by making a joke out of it... like ask her: ';Hey, what if i ask you out, would you allow me to?'; whether she answers a YES or NO, just take it back like ';Hmmm..as if il take you out, huh?';... that would leave her hanging, but would give a little excitement deep in her...
but if she says YES, and if you feel bad taking what you said back, then surprise her with a romantic picnic candle lit dinner under the stars...
but just take it slow, just act as normal as possible the way you used to act around her as so she wont have to feel ackward being with you...you may go beyond your actions once you feel she's feeling the same way you're feeling too...
OMG i have problems like this all the time take it from a 13 year old girl. u need to get somewhere and talk to her in privet but not so that she feels ockwerd. Ask her out to a movie or something and explain to her how u feel and ask if she can give ur relationship a chance and if not can yall go back to being just friends. Not every thing works out all the time but if she is a nice girl she will want to give u a chance and if not them she might not no what she is missing out on
You need to chose between taking a chance and falling in love or taking a chance and ruining the friendship.
You best bet would be to be honest with yourself about what her potential feelings for you really are.
By simply asking this question I would bet she is not interested in you in that way and you are about to make a huge mistake.
I need advice about this relationship?
so my ex and i have been tlaking bout getting back together for a while, but in that time ive developed a small crush on a girl she really hates. i know id love to get back with my ex but if it doesnt work out should i date the other girl?I need advice about this relationship?
date whomever you wish...acne
date whomever you wish...
I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
I am Deaf, and Wheelchair msyelf too. I had little bit of trouble and asking girl out because my body is not great for example bad muslcaar but still good average great. I always had great health overall. I wondering should I telling her about my disabliites
? I wondering people will accept like a wheelchair guy if he can't help himself (personal thing). I know I can have great sex despite that I had disability myself . Thanks for helping.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
be honest to a girl and from their you will find out who's willing to accept you inspite of your disabilities.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
To be honest is the best way but I have a little offbit advise, you might sound it rude but if you are already NOT into any sort of relationship, find a girl who is also a little disable. This is only to make you feel secure for lifetime. If she is perfectly Ms. 10, I bet....sooner or later you will feel insecure and once you plant a seed of doubt in mind, it will ruin relationship NO MATTER she is not doing anything wrong. Think over this....
All I can say is you need to be strong and beliving in yourself. You don't need to tell anyone about your disabilities.
You certainly don't want your true love lady to feel sorry for you. Remember, your future wife must truely accept the way you are.
I know it is a matter of time you will find your everlasting partner.
I have had a personal encounter with a Polio stricken friend who is almost in your situation. However, the is a tough man, crafty, sly and always go for what the world has to offer(at the expense of others). He managed to get himself a gf despite his handicapped and stuffs. He holds a high position in a lousy company and is well feared by his colleagues. This is due to his tendency to screw people up and the other evil things he does to people around him.
All I can say is, DO NOT look down or UNDERESTIMATE the handicapped, especially if you are one yourself. They can do wonders screwing up the lives of normal people, even. Sometimes it amazes me how handicapped people like my friend could outsmart normal people like myself.
In a nutshell, do not fret, do not give up, just muster enough confidence and audacity in yourself and your abilities.
If you want to get more motivation/ inspiration from my friend, his name is Tan Teik Thai and he works for SEGi College Penang.
? I wondering people will accept like a wheelchair guy if he can't help himself (personal thing). I know I can have great sex despite that I had disability myself . Thanks for helping.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
be honest to a girl and from their you will find out who's willing to accept you inspite of your disabilities.I need help as advice as relationship. helpful?
To be honest is the best way but I have a little offbit advise, you might sound it rude but if you are already NOT into any sort of relationship, find a girl who is also a little disable. This is only to make you feel secure for lifetime. If she is perfectly Ms. 10, I bet....sooner or later you will feel insecure and once you plant a seed of doubt in mind, it will ruin relationship NO MATTER she is not doing anything wrong. Think over this....
All I can say is you need to be strong and beliving in yourself. You don't need to tell anyone about your disabilities.
You certainly don't want your true love lady to feel sorry for you. Remember, your future wife must truely accept the way you are.
I know it is a matter of time you will find your everlasting partner.
I have had a personal encounter with a Polio stricken friend who is almost in your situation. However, the is a tough man, crafty, sly and always go for what the world has to offer(at the expense of others). He managed to get himself a gf despite his handicapped and stuffs. He holds a high position in a lousy company and is well feared by his colleagues. This is due to his tendency to screw people up and the other evil things he does to people around him.
All I can say is, DO NOT look down or UNDERESTIMATE the handicapped, especially if you are one yourself. They can do wonders screwing up the lives of normal people, even. Sometimes it amazes me how handicapped people like my friend could outsmart normal people like myself.
In a nutshell, do not fret, do not give up, just muster enough confidence and audacity in yourself and your abilities.
If you want to get more motivation/ inspiration from my friend, his name is Tan Teik Thai and he works for SEGi College Penang.
I need advice I am 39yrs old and my boyfriend is 43 and we have not had a sexual relationship in over 6months.?
Every time I bring the subject up he just says he just isnt interested anymore because of his age,but I dont know what to think or do so if there is anyone out there with the same problem or has had experince with this subject could you please tell me what to do?I need advice I am 39yrs old and my boyfriend is 43 and we have not had a sexual relationship in over 6months.?
There's something else going on. I don't think it's necessarily cheating though. There's some connection that isn't working.
My ex ';had trouble'; with his first wife by the end of their marriage. They fought all the time and had for years. When we got together when he was in his late 40s, he was ';back.';
I have another ex who just was not an affectionate toward me. For a long time, I thought it was me. But once I was single again, I saw how sexy and attractive I was by how other men reacted to my radiant presence.
I have a friend who has been married for over 30 years. She and her hubbie had intimacy issues until she had a realization. Quickies! She swears they saved her marriage. She told me that ';when he wants it, he gets it.'; Then they've worked out how she gets her needs met, which is on a different schedule. They just talked about it over a period of time and worked out what works for them.
I think one thing that has helped me is that I feel sexy and gorgeous and love all my curves. When I feel sexy and confident, my man can't stay away. Dancing helps me stay connected with my beauty and joy.I need advice I am 39yrs old and my boyfriend is 43 and we have not had a sexual relationship in over 6months.?
um u need to tell him that if he cant give u the gooooooood,
then ur just guna leave him and find a guy who can give it to u.
cause thats fuhked up man u need to be doin that. tell him he better give u sum soon or hes guna be sorry
Agreed he's probably getting it from somewhere else ditch him.
He appears afraid that you will be disappointed. Viagra does wonders.
If he doesn't get that it is important to you, ditch him and find someone else.
baahahahaha
has he got meds lately? staying up late doing porn? have you changed anything? at 43 that should work like a machine.
go to your GP and get viagra ..... he will be all over you like measels =)
if he aint gettin it from u, he's gettin it somewhere else.
might be time to spice things up.
ping yahoo id IM princepathak72
There's something else going on. I don't think it's necessarily cheating though. There's some connection that isn't working.
My ex ';had trouble'; with his first wife by the end of their marriage. They fought all the time and had for years. When we got together when he was in his late 40s, he was ';back.';
I have another ex who just was not an affectionate toward me. For a long time, I thought it was me. But once I was single again, I saw how sexy and attractive I was by how other men reacted to my radiant presence.
I have a friend who has been married for over 30 years. She and her hubbie had intimacy issues until she had a realization. Quickies! She swears they saved her marriage. She told me that ';when he wants it, he gets it.'; Then they've worked out how she gets her needs met, which is on a different schedule. They just talked about it over a period of time and worked out what works for them.
I think one thing that has helped me is that I feel sexy and gorgeous and love all my curves. When I feel sexy and confident, my man can't stay away. Dancing helps me stay connected with my beauty and joy.I need advice I am 39yrs old and my boyfriend is 43 and we have not had a sexual relationship in over 6months.?
um u need to tell him that if he cant give u the gooooooood,
then ur just guna leave him and find a guy who can give it to u.
cause thats fuhked up man u need to be doin that. tell him he better give u sum soon or hes guna be sorry
Agreed he's probably getting it from somewhere else ditch him.
He appears afraid that you will be disappointed. Viagra does wonders.
If he doesn't get that it is important to you, ditch him and find someone else.
baahahahaha
has he got meds lately? staying up late doing porn? have you changed anything? at 43 that should work like a machine.
go to your GP and get viagra ..... he will be all over you like measels =)
if he aint gettin it from u, he's gettin it somewhere else.
might be time to spice things up.
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Long distance relationship problem need advice?
I am 17 in florida and shes 15 in california. We talk and get along fine nothing horrible. My parents like her and want us to be together. The problem is her parents don't like me. They only let us talk on the phone so she doesn't give them much trouble and can use the threat of taking it away to get her to do things. We have been together for 3 years now. We have tried talking to them but they just won't listen and keep saying were to young. I know we are but how are we to expericene life if they dont give a chance? any advice?Long distance relationship problem need advice?
The age thing shouldn't be an excuse. Me and my bf were 16 when we started our long distance relationship and we have been together for 4 years now. My parents didn't think that me and my bf would last so they didn't think much about it either but visiting was a big thing that made them realize that we were serious about being together. Maybe you can plan a trip to California with your fam so that you both can meet at a neutral place, doesnt' have to be her house. Another thing you can try is to send her a DVD or VHS and let her see you, or better idea try a webcam on your computer so that you can talk and see eachother.Long distance relationship problem need advice?
If you have never been together face to face, then you have never been together at all.... get it?
You need to give it a rest until she is at least 17 or 18 years of age depending on California law. Once she is an adult she can do/go anywhere she wants until then your SOL.
What did you do to piss off her parents????
Just keep experiencing life the way you are now on-line and over the phone and guess what? You can even send her a real life letter in the mail with a stamp and everything when she is grounded from the phone.
dont tell her parents anything about it, and just sneak off
The age thing shouldn't be an excuse. Me and my bf were 16 when we started our long distance relationship and we have been together for 4 years now. My parents didn't think that me and my bf would last so they didn't think much about it either but visiting was a big thing that made them realize that we were serious about being together. Maybe you can plan a trip to California with your fam so that you both can meet at a neutral place, doesnt' have to be her house. Another thing you can try is to send her a DVD or VHS and let her see you, or better idea try a webcam on your computer so that you can talk and see eachother.Long distance relationship problem need advice?
If you have never been together face to face, then you have never been together at all.... get it?
You need to give it a rest until she is at least 17 or 18 years of age depending on California law. Once she is an adult she can do/go anywhere she wants until then your SOL.
What did you do to piss off her parents????
Just keep experiencing life the way you are now on-line and over the phone and guess what? You can even send her a real life letter in the mail with a stamp and everything when she is grounded from the phone.
dont tell her parents anything about it, and just sneak off
Guys and girls- I need relationship advice?
So for Vday my serious bf went all out and spoiled me. He got me roses, diamond earrings, and took me out to a really nice dinner. I of course wanted to do something for him so I bought lingerie.. and you get the drift.. but then shortly after he told me about the male version of Vday which is March 14th- steak and bj day. I looked it up and sure enough it is a real day but obviously not very well known. We kind of joked about it and I just forgot about it.
Yesterday was March 14th and we had plans to hang out. I took him out for dinner and then we went back to his place and watched a movie. We were cuddling and he seemed upset so I asked him what was wrong.. he just sighs and tells me that he was kind of disappointed because he had high expectations for the day. I was confused and then he brought of up steak and bj day... I was really annoyed and hurt. The fact that he expected it really bothered me. It also bothered me that apparently me taking him out to dinner and just hanging out with me wasn't enough. Then I started to feel guilty.. like a good gf would have known to celebrate this ';fake'; holiday because he went all out on v-day.
So i'm torn between being mad at him and feeling really bad. Any input?? Sorry it's so long.Guys and girls- I need relationship advice?
When a guy expects something, it always gets on my nerves. I hate being expected to do something, especially if I do it anyways, and just don't want to at the time. I would be annoyed. I understand how you feel, I would be hurt too! You told him you didn't expect anything for Valentines Day, so and he did it anyways, that was his decision. I think you should be slightly annoyed, but don't feel bad. Don't do something you don't want to do just cause someone else expects it. Personally I think it was kind of rude of your boyfriend to say he was disappointed after you took him out to dinner!
xx-ShelbyGuys and girls- I need relationship advice?
I think really that there is a whole load of expectations on the man to do all the wooing and making all the grand gestures.
It wasn't the actual ';steak and bj'; thing, but the fact that you had not picked up the fact that he wanted you to do something nice for him- you left him feeling unappreciated.
Dont be mad and dont be upset with him. He has just over reacted i guess.
You can just say sorry. Tell him that you wanted to spend lovey time with him and wanted to make him feel special by taking him out and stuff. But cause he didnt appreciate any of it....that made you turn off. Put it back on him.
note : i never knew about this day.
Regards From India
Jeez, suck his dick already, thats what he wants.
It's not your fault...you didn't know.
Don't feel bad or be mad at him. He was doing the whole girl thing by hinting it to you on V-day hoping you would catch on and you thought nothing of it.
That isn't a bad thing. He shouldn't have been expecting it.
That is like expecting gifts on your birthday.
Even if you did remember you shouldn't be obligated to give him a bj just because of that day..
It was kind of rude of him to expect that from you in a sense..
He sould have just enjoyed the time you had together.
I've never heard of that holiday, and glad my husband hasn't either! No, seriously. Maybe he was joking. But look at it from his point of view. Not to say he is right or wrong. On V-day, you expect certain things to be done, and presents to be bought. Right? Well, he is just feeling the same way about this day. I wouldn't be hurt about it. If you weren't good enough to be with, he wouldn't be with you. I would just let it go. Guys are a lot like us. But instead of diamonds and chocolate, they like steak and bj's! Be glad you don't have bigger problems than a fake holiday!
I'd never expect anything from my girlfriend. I'd let her surprise me. Not only that, if spending time with you isn't enough for him that shows that he probably doesn't value you for who you are. I enjoy just being with the girl I love, regardless for what we do or don't do. If he wants steak and a bj from you and says that he was disappointed because you didn't meet his expectations that's really low. He should be happy he got to spend time with you period. When that happens, you know you have someone who loves you for you. If I were you, I'd break up, especially if he expects sex. Don't feel guilty, it's his fault. Not yours. He shouldn't expect anything from you and he should be happy with whatever you do for him, because you did it out of love.
Don't feel bad. It's a scientific statement that guys have extremely higher sex drives than girls due to chemicals and testosterone. Since he told you about the male V-day, he was anticipating some action. Imagine that it was the other way around-that the male version of V-day was well known and you had told your boyfriend about the female version of jewelry, dinner, %26amp; just simply romance. Wouldn't you except him to give you that after he told you about it? I know I would. But guys and girls are typically wired differently. Their idea of romance is sex (which is understandable) and our idea of romance is simply a cozy night of snuggling and whatnot. If he say, had sex with you, you would be glad about that but in all reality, you as well as I would be disappointed that you didn't get a diamond necklace or whatever. It's okay that that happened. But what you should do is invite him over and tell him you're going to ';make it up to him';.
dont worry about the length(:
mmm, no offense to you OR your boyfriend. but steak and bj day? that just seems kinda.. preverted. but thats just my opinion, if i were you the first thing i would do is talk to him, tell him that you had forgotten about the date, but that you believed that just spending time with you should be enough, instead of a silly bj, ask him if thats what he really wants. and that you think that a true relationship should include love, and the desire to just spend time with eachother, and ocassionally have sex and etc. etc. but in conclusion, there is not much reason to be mad, hes a guy, and he obviously thought that your joking around about the day was a yes to the proposal, so he got his hopes up. there is no reason to be mad at him, so when you DO talk to him, dont say it in a angry way, say it in a nice kind, gentle way, and tell him that a true relationship doesnt have to do with only sex. tell him that you appreciat his exccelent vday dinner, and that you will do your best to go allout on his birthday or whatever.. but also include that the best present of vday was spending time with him, and say that that is the TRUE meaning of a relationship (cherishing the time you have together) i know my answer is long, but i hope it helped. and love? i know from EXPERIENCE.
So He made up a fake holiday* just to get what he wants from you.That's so very unfair to you.He should really think of your feelings in this.It was a very nice wonderful day .an ya really did amazing with every thing.I really hope that he thinks of your needs also.us woman do a lot to make are men happy.Daily
here are a few things I do for my man daily
make his coffee
wash clothing
clean out truck
get cigs
wake him for work
keep the kids quiet so he can sleep
My husband tells me it's steak and bj day at least twice a week - It's just a joke!
If he wants a bj, he needs to initiate the physical contact, and ask for it like any other normal guy. Instead he's mad at you? What a wuss. Tell that big baby that it takes 2 to tango, and if he wants to mess around, he needs to let you know and not just be at you for not being psychic.
I've been with my husband 7 years, and I don't go around offering up bjs. But if he wants one enough to ask for it, well, you know.
i know about it and it's actually called white day. what happens is v-day is really the day when girls give gifts to their guys and on march 14 white day, if the guy likes them then they give them something too. its celebrated in japan but other countries i'm not sure about those. me and my gf used to do it too because one year we would say okay ill take v-day this year and you can return it to me on white day and then next year it'll be vice versa. but when i told this to my bf he was like . . . wait what? lets just do it the american way okay?
Steak and a BJ day is a joke holiday. It is known, but not actually expected to be celebrated (depending on your sense of humor). You celebrated Vday with him. He got you gifts and you got him gifts. He must have misunderstood what the holiday is when he heard about it, and actually expected it to happen.
It's not your fault. He misunderstood the expectations and you had no reason to actually be expected to follow through on a joke holiday he mentioned in passing.
Typical dude. He wanted a BJ...Is it not obvious? Do you know what a BJ is? He kept bringing it up so you would get the hint. I guess you didn't. Don't worry about it honey. Guys are mean sometimes (This is the nicest way I can say it) He is thinking with his ';other head'; ...If you don't understand any of this than you might be too young to care about it anyways.
Welcome to men's world. Every holiday is made up, but I would expect that if he didn't do these things for you on Valentine's Day you would've had a problem with him. Both holidays are idiotic, but just as you most likely expected him to do something on V-Day then why can't he expect something. If he said ';just hanging out with me wasn't enough'; on V-Day, everyone would be calling him an insensitive jerk.
I don't think the situation is that big of a deal, but it is unfair double standard for men.
Yesterday was March 14th and we had plans to hang out. I took him out for dinner and then we went back to his place and watched a movie. We were cuddling and he seemed upset so I asked him what was wrong.. he just sighs and tells me that he was kind of disappointed because he had high expectations for the day. I was confused and then he brought of up steak and bj day... I was really annoyed and hurt. The fact that he expected it really bothered me. It also bothered me that apparently me taking him out to dinner and just hanging out with me wasn't enough. Then I started to feel guilty.. like a good gf would have known to celebrate this ';fake'; holiday because he went all out on v-day.
So i'm torn between being mad at him and feeling really bad. Any input?? Sorry it's so long.Guys and girls- I need relationship advice?
When a guy expects something, it always gets on my nerves. I hate being expected to do something, especially if I do it anyways, and just don't want to at the time. I would be annoyed. I understand how you feel, I would be hurt too! You told him you didn't expect anything for Valentines Day, so and he did it anyways, that was his decision. I think you should be slightly annoyed, but don't feel bad. Don't do something you don't want to do just cause someone else expects it. Personally I think it was kind of rude of your boyfriend to say he was disappointed after you took him out to dinner!
xx-ShelbyGuys and girls- I need relationship advice?
I think really that there is a whole load of expectations on the man to do all the wooing and making all the grand gestures.
It wasn't the actual ';steak and bj'; thing, but the fact that you had not picked up the fact that he wanted you to do something nice for him- you left him feeling unappreciated.
Dont be mad and dont be upset with him. He has just over reacted i guess.
You can just say sorry. Tell him that you wanted to spend lovey time with him and wanted to make him feel special by taking him out and stuff. But cause he didnt appreciate any of it....that made you turn off. Put it back on him.
note : i never knew about this day.
Regards From India
Jeez, suck his dick already, thats what he wants.
It's not your fault...you didn't know.
Don't feel bad or be mad at him. He was doing the whole girl thing by hinting it to you on V-day hoping you would catch on and you thought nothing of it.
That isn't a bad thing. He shouldn't have been expecting it.
That is like expecting gifts on your birthday.
Even if you did remember you shouldn't be obligated to give him a bj just because of that day..
It was kind of rude of him to expect that from you in a sense..
He sould have just enjoyed the time you had together.
I've never heard of that holiday, and glad my husband hasn't either! No, seriously. Maybe he was joking. But look at it from his point of view. Not to say he is right or wrong. On V-day, you expect certain things to be done, and presents to be bought. Right? Well, he is just feeling the same way about this day. I wouldn't be hurt about it. If you weren't good enough to be with, he wouldn't be with you. I would just let it go. Guys are a lot like us. But instead of diamonds and chocolate, they like steak and bj's! Be glad you don't have bigger problems than a fake holiday!
I'd never expect anything from my girlfriend. I'd let her surprise me. Not only that, if spending time with you isn't enough for him that shows that he probably doesn't value you for who you are. I enjoy just being with the girl I love, regardless for what we do or don't do. If he wants steak and a bj from you and says that he was disappointed because you didn't meet his expectations that's really low. He should be happy he got to spend time with you period. When that happens, you know you have someone who loves you for you. If I were you, I'd break up, especially if he expects sex. Don't feel guilty, it's his fault. Not yours. He shouldn't expect anything from you and he should be happy with whatever you do for him, because you did it out of love.
Don't feel bad. It's a scientific statement that guys have extremely higher sex drives than girls due to chemicals and testosterone. Since he told you about the male V-day, he was anticipating some action. Imagine that it was the other way around-that the male version of V-day was well known and you had told your boyfriend about the female version of jewelry, dinner, %26amp; just simply romance. Wouldn't you except him to give you that after he told you about it? I know I would. But guys and girls are typically wired differently. Their idea of romance is sex (which is understandable) and our idea of romance is simply a cozy night of snuggling and whatnot. If he say, had sex with you, you would be glad about that but in all reality, you as well as I would be disappointed that you didn't get a diamond necklace or whatever. It's okay that that happened. But what you should do is invite him over and tell him you're going to ';make it up to him';.
dont worry about the length(:
mmm, no offense to you OR your boyfriend. but steak and bj day? that just seems kinda.. preverted. but thats just my opinion, if i were you the first thing i would do is talk to him, tell him that you had forgotten about the date, but that you believed that just spending time with you should be enough, instead of a silly bj, ask him if thats what he really wants. and that you think that a true relationship should include love, and the desire to just spend time with eachother, and ocassionally have sex and etc. etc. but in conclusion, there is not much reason to be mad, hes a guy, and he obviously thought that your joking around about the day was a yes to the proposal, so he got his hopes up. there is no reason to be mad at him, so when you DO talk to him, dont say it in a angry way, say it in a nice kind, gentle way, and tell him that a true relationship doesnt have to do with only sex. tell him that you appreciat his exccelent vday dinner, and that you will do your best to go allout on his birthday or whatever.. but also include that the best present of vday was spending time with him, and say that that is the TRUE meaning of a relationship (cherishing the time you have together) i know my answer is long, but i hope it helped. and love? i know from EXPERIENCE.
So He made up a fake holiday* just to get what he wants from you.That's so very unfair to you.He should really think of your feelings in this.It was a very nice wonderful day .an ya really did amazing with every thing.I really hope that he thinks of your needs also.us woman do a lot to make are men happy.Daily
here are a few things I do for my man daily
make his coffee
wash clothing
clean out truck
get cigs
wake him for work
keep the kids quiet so he can sleep
My husband tells me it's steak and bj day at least twice a week - It's just a joke!
If he wants a bj, he needs to initiate the physical contact, and ask for it like any other normal guy. Instead he's mad at you? What a wuss. Tell that big baby that it takes 2 to tango, and if he wants to mess around, he needs to let you know and not just be at you for not being psychic.
I've been with my husband 7 years, and I don't go around offering up bjs. But if he wants one enough to ask for it, well, you know.
i know about it and it's actually called white day. what happens is v-day is really the day when girls give gifts to their guys and on march 14 white day, if the guy likes them then they give them something too. its celebrated in japan but other countries i'm not sure about those. me and my gf used to do it too because one year we would say okay ill take v-day this year and you can return it to me on white day and then next year it'll be vice versa. but when i told this to my bf he was like . . . wait what? lets just do it the american way okay?
Steak and a BJ day is a joke holiday. It is known, but not actually expected to be celebrated (depending on your sense of humor). You celebrated Vday with him. He got you gifts and you got him gifts. He must have misunderstood what the holiday is when he heard about it, and actually expected it to happen.
It's not your fault. He misunderstood the expectations and you had no reason to actually be expected to follow through on a joke holiday he mentioned in passing.
Typical dude. He wanted a BJ...Is it not obvious? Do you know what a BJ is? He kept bringing it up so you would get the hint. I guess you didn't. Don't worry about it honey. Guys are mean sometimes (This is the nicest way I can say it) He is thinking with his ';other head'; ...If you don't understand any of this than you might be too young to care about it anyways.
Welcome to men's world. Every holiday is made up, but I would expect that if he didn't do these things for you on Valentine's Day you would've had a problem with him. Both holidays are idiotic, but just as you most likely expected him to do something on V-Day then why can't he expect something. If he said ';just hanging out with me wasn't enough'; on V-Day, everyone would be calling him an insensitive jerk.
I don't think the situation is that big of a deal, but it is unfair double standard for men.
Help! I need some serious relationship advice...?
Hope you have time....
My boyfriend and I have lived together for five years, along with his two daughters, 10 and 14. We've had up's and downs--we are truly in love with eachother. But my problem is that he is sooo obsessed with his daughters and lately he doesn't show any interest in me. There is no affection, no passion...he does things like go shopping and out to eat with them and not me. He doesn't treat me to anything. I think it's great that he is very involved with his kids, however, he shouldn't be in a relationship if he can't spend time on that person. He's a great dad, but sometimes it's like he's just filling some void. When I call him, he acts like I'm bothersome.
I moved out last year and he cried and begged me to come back. Nothing changed. Sometimes it can be so great though. I feel like I am the child and they are the girlfriend(s).
Please don't tell me that it's over. I need advice on how to revive us. Thanks in advance.Help! I need some serious relationship advice...?
Wow, two daughters, that's a hard but rewarding job for your boyfriend! I wouldn't say that the relationship is over, but I agree that while it's very important for him to be involved with them, he shouldn't neglect you. Maybe the first step is to show interest and ask to be involved with them in the things that they go and do. Your situation is just like parents who have children together. Once the children arrive, it's hard for mom and dad to find time to enjoy each other because the kids will always come first, as it should be. But it is possible to do both. Maybe your boyfriend just feels overwhelmed trying to satisfy everyone and he's taking his stress out on you. My only question would be, do his daughters like you?? If not, they may be fueling the riff you feel between yourself and your boyfriend. Communication is the key. Just make sure you aren't whining or badgering when you claim you are ';just talking'; to him. That will only push him away further. I hope everything works out!!Help! I need some serious relationship advice...?
Well, first off.. let me tell you that accepting a man with a package it harder that expected. (i've been there) Now, as to how to revive the relationship.. Let me suggest that.. Instead of going shopping with the girls, plan a saturday at an amusement park, that would bring both of you guys together and the girls too.. See, I think it's a matter of being involve. Almost like a competition but being aware that the kids have and advantage. At nigh when they are asleep make sure you talk to your boyfriend about your feelings and let him know that you want to at leat agree onto having days for you only. ie every one shopping on a weakend whereas the next weakend you'll have a romantic dinner with him only, while the girls catch a movie with a responsible adult.. Compromise with him, best of all, make sure you don't forget to tell him that you love him. And be careful, make sure you have an open relationship with the girls too. Take them out to eat while he's at work.. out to play and things of that nature. That would bring them closer to you aswell. Don't forget the romantic sex.. That's another kicker.. Don't ever work against them, but with them. I hope it helps.. best of luck
have you told him how you felt i think that would really help
My boyfriend and I have lived together for five years, along with his two daughters, 10 and 14. We've had up's and downs--we are truly in love with eachother. But my problem is that he is sooo obsessed with his daughters and lately he doesn't show any interest in me. There is no affection, no passion...he does things like go shopping and out to eat with them and not me. He doesn't treat me to anything. I think it's great that he is very involved with his kids, however, he shouldn't be in a relationship if he can't spend time on that person. He's a great dad, but sometimes it's like he's just filling some void. When I call him, he acts like I'm bothersome.
I moved out last year and he cried and begged me to come back. Nothing changed. Sometimes it can be so great though. I feel like I am the child and they are the girlfriend(s).
Please don't tell me that it's over. I need advice on how to revive us. Thanks in advance.Help! I need some serious relationship advice...?
Wow, two daughters, that's a hard but rewarding job for your boyfriend! I wouldn't say that the relationship is over, but I agree that while it's very important for him to be involved with them, he shouldn't neglect you. Maybe the first step is to show interest and ask to be involved with them in the things that they go and do. Your situation is just like parents who have children together. Once the children arrive, it's hard for mom and dad to find time to enjoy each other because the kids will always come first, as it should be. But it is possible to do both. Maybe your boyfriend just feels overwhelmed trying to satisfy everyone and he's taking his stress out on you. My only question would be, do his daughters like you?? If not, they may be fueling the riff you feel between yourself and your boyfriend. Communication is the key. Just make sure you aren't whining or badgering when you claim you are ';just talking'; to him. That will only push him away further. I hope everything works out!!Help! I need some serious relationship advice...?
Well, first off.. let me tell you that accepting a man with a package it harder that expected. (i've been there) Now, as to how to revive the relationship.. Let me suggest that.. Instead of going shopping with the girls, plan a saturday at an amusement park, that would bring both of you guys together and the girls too.. See, I think it's a matter of being involve. Almost like a competition but being aware that the kids have and advantage. At nigh when they are asleep make sure you talk to your boyfriend about your feelings and let him know that you want to at leat agree onto having days for you only. ie every one shopping on a weakend whereas the next weakend you'll have a romantic dinner with him only, while the girls catch a movie with a responsible adult.. Compromise with him, best of all, make sure you don't forget to tell him that you love him. And be careful, make sure you have an open relationship with the girls too. Take them out to eat while he's at work.. out to play and things of that nature. That would bring them closer to you aswell. Don't forget the romantic sex.. That's another kicker.. Don't ever work against them, but with them. I hope it helps.. best of luck
have you told him how you felt i think that would really help
Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
Ok...let's start with the history. I'm 19 and Boo (is nickname) is 16. I know it's a gap and probably illegal, but he and I aren't going out, he's just my best friend, and I do love him. I have since I fist met him.
a few years ago (when i was 17 and he was 14) we tried ';going out'; but it never really worked out because we never saw eachother. so..after like a month we both realize that it was never going anywhere so we decided that being friends would be best.
We talk nearly everyday and text each other like 24-7. he knows everything about me, and I know everything about him; we're really close.
he has been going out with this girl for 7 months now. he says he's in love, yet he still talks to me more then her and all they ever do is fight. he said the only real reason they're together is because hes mother likes her and they go to church together.
a few nights ago, we were talking and....i'll slip the details, but we wound up having phone sex. We had only done this once before at it was like a year ago..before the girlfriend.
after all was said and done, then first words he says to me are ';oh my god, what have I done?';
so he pretty much broke my heart and made me feel like total **** in one sentence. I hung up on him, but he didn't call me back.
so i call him the next day (like 3 times throughout the day) and he never answered, he just sent me a lame *** text that said something like ';i need time, you're too much of a temptation for me right now';
I don't know what to do or say to him...I don't even know his girlfriend...but if you knew him, you'd know that cheating is something he would NEVER do, nor would he ever try to hurt someone...
I Love him, but I know i can never have him, I've dealt with that and I'm okay with just being friends...but I don;t know what to do if we're not friends....he's been there for so much. I tried to tell him it was no big deal, but he's still ignoring my call/text so i've just given up for the past 2 or 3 days..
help? what should i do? thanks for reading.....Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
tough situation. you should just be friends. it's easier for him that way and doesnt put him in a bad situation.
sorry-Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
You guys can always be friends. But, you need to be strong and stick to a real friendship. Don't tease each other that way if you know you can't be together. It's not going to help the situation. If you know you can't hold back, it's better to end the relationship/friendship you guys have.acne
a few years ago (when i was 17 and he was 14) we tried ';going out'; but it never really worked out because we never saw eachother. so..after like a month we both realize that it was never going anywhere so we decided that being friends would be best.
We talk nearly everyday and text each other like 24-7. he knows everything about me, and I know everything about him; we're really close.
he has been going out with this girl for 7 months now. he says he's in love, yet he still talks to me more then her and all they ever do is fight. he said the only real reason they're together is because hes mother likes her and they go to church together.
a few nights ago, we were talking and....i'll slip the details, but we wound up having phone sex. We had only done this once before at it was like a year ago..before the girlfriend.
after all was said and done, then first words he says to me are ';oh my god, what have I done?';
so he pretty much broke my heart and made me feel like total **** in one sentence. I hung up on him, but he didn't call me back.
so i call him the next day (like 3 times throughout the day) and he never answered, he just sent me a lame *** text that said something like ';i need time, you're too much of a temptation for me right now';
I don't know what to do or say to him...I don't even know his girlfriend...but if you knew him, you'd know that cheating is something he would NEVER do, nor would he ever try to hurt someone...
I Love him, but I know i can never have him, I've dealt with that and I'm okay with just being friends...but I don;t know what to do if we're not friends....he's been there for so much. I tried to tell him it was no big deal, but he's still ignoring my call/text so i've just given up for the past 2 or 3 days..
help? what should i do? thanks for reading.....Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
tough situation. you should just be friends. it's easier for him that way and doesnt put him in a bad situation.
sorry-Please help...i need some relationship advice? Am I about to lose my best friend?
You guys can always be friends. But, you need to be strong and stick to a real friendship. Don't tease each other that way if you know you can't be together. It's not going to help the situation. If you know you can't hold back, it's better to end the relationship/friendship you guys have.
Girls and guys please help! relationship advice needed! answer for answer!?
I know its pretty lame that I am coming on here for relationship advice, or maybe it is to some of you.
Here is my story. I have been with a guy for 6 months now. I love him very much. In the past, relatively about a month or two ago, he let me send a text to a friend for him from his cell phone. When his friend replied, he had me go to his inbox and tell him what it said. In his phone, when you go to his inbox, it shows the first few words of every txt. well when i looked i saw several dirty text messages from another girl talking about him ';jacking off while thinking of her'; and ';her not being able to wait to meet up and have ';hott madd sex with him';'; When i confronted him, he was very calm in telling me that he didnt reply to her with anything sexual. His phone is set to where his outbox isnt saved. He didnt get defensive or anything. So i told him to prove himself and txt or call her right then and have her send him the texts they were exchanging. he chose to text her and then he deleted her number. I assumed she would reply, considering she didnt know what he was trying to do. He told me this girl was a good friend, but to this day swears she never replied. hmmmmm.......
Also in his phone this girl was listed under the letter ';B';. no name..he told me her name was brittany and he just called her b so thats y he put her in there as b. i also saw that he had called this girl and she called him while i was at work and a few nights after he got off the phone with ME ';because he was tired';.......
anyways so there were some other situtations involving myspace and such where he was flirting with girls. These ended our relationship a few times but we ended up getting back together.
Ever since these incidents I have not been able to trust him.
So here we are at our 6 mnth mark and i ended it, telling him I could not trust him so we were thru.
On top of this, he doesnt work, hes 21 yrs old and all he does is lay around my house while i work. i pay, i drive....
I also mentioned this in the breakup.
I thot we were thru..... but now he has been calling me and like a dummy I answer. He wants to take me out and talk about things and when he gets back from his trip to FL.....
idk what i should do. the main issue here is i love him and its hard for me to move on......
i wanna think with my head, not my heart but i just cant help it.
we are currently not together but we still talk everyday.
idk what to do..
i really need some advice from someone who understands..
thanks!Girls and guys please help! relationship advice needed! answer for answer!?
.Firstly stop all contact with this guy.No wonder he has dirty text messages as he has nothing better to do with his time. He lays about the house while you slave to make ends meet.Now he's on vacation (Florida) as he needs the rest. He's a freeloader,sponger,parasite who takes,takes takes.
Here is my story. I have been with a guy for 6 months now. I love him very much. In the past, relatively about a month or two ago, he let me send a text to a friend for him from his cell phone. When his friend replied, he had me go to his inbox and tell him what it said. In his phone, when you go to his inbox, it shows the first few words of every txt. well when i looked i saw several dirty text messages from another girl talking about him ';jacking off while thinking of her'; and ';her not being able to wait to meet up and have ';hott madd sex with him';'; When i confronted him, he was very calm in telling me that he didnt reply to her with anything sexual. His phone is set to where his outbox isnt saved. He didnt get defensive or anything. So i told him to prove himself and txt or call her right then and have her send him the texts they were exchanging. he chose to text her and then he deleted her number. I assumed she would reply, considering she didnt know what he was trying to do. He told me this girl was a good friend, but to this day swears she never replied. hmmmmm.......
Also in his phone this girl was listed under the letter ';B';. no name..he told me her name was brittany and he just called her b so thats y he put her in there as b. i also saw that he had called this girl and she called him while i was at work and a few nights after he got off the phone with ME ';because he was tired';.......
anyways so there were some other situtations involving myspace and such where he was flirting with girls. These ended our relationship a few times but we ended up getting back together.
Ever since these incidents I have not been able to trust him.
So here we are at our 6 mnth mark and i ended it, telling him I could not trust him so we were thru.
On top of this, he doesnt work, hes 21 yrs old and all he does is lay around my house while i work. i pay, i drive....
I also mentioned this in the breakup.
I thot we were thru..... but now he has been calling me and like a dummy I answer. He wants to take me out and talk about things and when he gets back from his trip to FL.....
idk what i should do. the main issue here is i love him and its hard for me to move on......
i wanna think with my head, not my heart but i just cant help it.
we are currently not together but we still talk everyday.
idk what to do..
i really need some advice from someone who understands..
thanks!Girls and guys please help! relationship advice needed! answer for answer!?
.Firstly stop all contact with this guy.No wonder he has dirty text messages as he has nothing better to do with his time. He lays about the house while you slave to make ends meet.Now he's on vacation (Florida) as he needs the rest. He's a freeloader,sponger,parasite who takes,takes takes.
Im falling apart. I need relationship advice asap!?
my boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. we have had our ups and downs but for the most part we have been really happy. Lately he seems more distant. we used to talk about the future all the time and know when i talk about it he says he doesnt think about it anymore because he doesnt want to be disappointed. This was kind of a red flag for me. He says im being dumb, but what do you think? how do i ask him how he is feeling? I dont know if he would tell me if he wasnt in love with me anymore.Im falling apart. I need relationship advice asap!?
Quite plain and simply...
Talk to him.
Whether he loves you or not he should talk to you about it because if he still loves you then great! you guys can figure out why he seems so distant and if by chance he doesn't have such strong feelings anymore (here's hoping he does since you still do) he should be fair to you and let you know instead of dragging you along and hurting you because you don't deserve to sit there and wonder if the love is still there...
And if he does still love you then perhaps are you looking for more cuddling and affection (more love) then before? I myself and many of my friends have been through the feeling of not being as loved just to find that it was just our own selves looking for more love when nothing in the relationship has changed.
I hope i at least helped a little.....
good luck hun and much loveIm falling apart. I need relationship advice asap!?
You're definitely right for seeing a red flag. You've been a relationship too long for your boyfriend to say that to you. At this point in your life you don't want to waste anymore time with someone that does not see a future with you when you've been together for almost 3 years.
I'm sorry to say this- but I think you should break up with him if he can't tell you there's a future. Once you can't see a future with someone, there's no reason to stay with them. It sounds like he's just too comfortable to rock the boat. You might need to be the one who needs to jump ship.
I have dated someone before who has went distant on me as well. I has the same feeling you had and we didn't last very long. Maybe he is just busy with work or something. Try having a serious talk with him and tell him how you really feel about your relationship and about him being all distant towards you. If he keeps saying acting the same way then move on and leave him alone. You deserve someone who will give you the world, everyone does.
tate you sound retarded whats love gotta do with it its just an emotion naw jk but um for real he grew up i guess i meen how old are you?cuz if your were like 19-21 when yall talked like that its normal if younger your retarted. but like for real people break up and this relationshipisn'tt for certain i meen alot of people thought that ima spend the rest of my life with this person and itdoesn'tt work out but then agin im only 14 =) so my advice is to just let it flow don'tt trip bout that not talking bout future stuff anymore
Saying I love you isn't going to prove how he feels. He doesn't need to verbally tell you he's not in love with you any more.....His actions are telling you, or will tell you how he feels. You might need to consider that perhaps the last 3 years has been better for you than it has for him.
Red Flags don't just pop up for no reason. Listen to your inner voice when it niggles away at you. If you're feeling like something is wrong, something probably is wrong!
if you weren't having sex(';great sex life'; as you said), then i would question his intentions. you are putting this all on him. what if ';he'; feels that there is too much talk after 4yrs. and not enough action as far as your future together is concerned. if you really want to be sure then ';flip it'; on him and propose.
Have you guys ';done it'; yet?
I'm not being pervy but really, that could be the key to this.
Either you have and he's regretting it... or wanting more?
Or you haven't and he's feeling like he's never gonna get any.
He doesn't see this going to long term, that's why he told you he didn't want to get his hopes up. He is doubtful.
I'm sorry, ask him just straight out ask do you love me?
What he said is very clear....he cannot see a future with you at this present moment! It might change it might not....but as long as u guys are still having a good time...enjoy yourself.
ask him where your relationship is going.
and ask if he still loves u
Ah this sounds familiar.
I have a bf for 1.5 years and then he started pulling that crap-said he wasnt sure if he wanted a gf anymore- so I dumped him. We ended up dating for the last yr and now we are over (my doing) but the pt is...
thats never good.
I remember that- makes your stomache drop-1 second its all promise rings and your future together and then its the Im not sure- I dont think about it anymore. I would agree this is a red flag..
if you dont want to dump him...I will give you this advice from my 2.5 yr exp with the last guy I dated.
Your guy is acting distant- dont try and fix it.
Go spend more time with your friends- regain your life-spend more time being independent..nothing is sexier than independence.
I know this sounds weird but from my experience when people feel their significant other drifting away they try to pull them back but in trying to get their gf/bf back...they push them away.
I think I initially pushed mine away by trying to make sure we didnt fall apart- putting in that extra effort is worthless because the last yr we dated (when we werent official) ...i decided why should I try? my efforts went unappreciated...the more I didnt try...the more he did try...dont ask me why or how that works Idk all I know is that guys seem to be more interested if you seem disinterested. So hang out with him less- see your friends more- regain your life
And if he doesnt come back- fall back in love with you (mine ended up doing so)- than when **** hits the fan...youll have a life.
Quite plain and simply...
Talk to him.
Whether he loves you or not he should talk to you about it because if he still loves you then great! you guys can figure out why he seems so distant and if by chance he doesn't have such strong feelings anymore (here's hoping he does since you still do) he should be fair to you and let you know instead of dragging you along and hurting you because you don't deserve to sit there and wonder if the love is still there...
And if he does still love you then perhaps are you looking for more cuddling and affection (more love) then before? I myself and many of my friends have been through the feeling of not being as loved just to find that it was just our own selves looking for more love when nothing in the relationship has changed.
I hope i at least helped a little.....
good luck hun and much loveIm falling apart. I need relationship advice asap!?
You're definitely right for seeing a red flag. You've been a relationship too long for your boyfriend to say that to you. At this point in your life you don't want to waste anymore time with someone that does not see a future with you when you've been together for almost 3 years.
I'm sorry to say this- but I think you should break up with him if he can't tell you there's a future. Once you can't see a future with someone, there's no reason to stay with them. It sounds like he's just too comfortable to rock the boat. You might need to be the one who needs to jump ship.
I have dated someone before who has went distant on me as well. I has the same feeling you had and we didn't last very long. Maybe he is just busy with work or something. Try having a serious talk with him and tell him how you really feel about your relationship and about him being all distant towards you. If he keeps saying acting the same way then move on and leave him alone. You deserve someone who will give you the world, everyone does.
tate you sound retarded whats love gotta do with it its just an emotion naw jk but um for real he grew up i guess i meen how old are you?cuz if your were like 19-21 when yall talked like that its normal if younger your retarted. but like for real people break up and this relationshipisn'tt for certain i meen alot of people thought that ima spend the rest of my life with this person and itdoesn'tt work out but then agin im only 14 =) so my advice is to just let it flow don'tt trip bout that not talking bout future stuff anymore
Saying I love you isn't going to prove how he feels. He doesn't need to verbally tell you he's not in love with you any more.....His actions are telling you, or will tell you how he feels. You might need to consider that perhaps the last 3 years has been better for you than it has for him.
Red Flags don't just pop up for no reason. Listen to your inner voice when it niggles away at you. If you're feeling like something is wrong, something probably is wrong!
if you weren't having sex(';great sex life'; as you said), then i would question his intentions. you are putting this all on him. what if ';he'; feels that there is too much talk after 4yrs. and not enough action as far as your future together is concerned. if you really want to be sure then ';flip it'; on him and propose.
Have you guys ';done it'; yet?
I'm not being pervy but really, that could be the key to this.
Either you have and he's regretting it... or wanting more?
Or you haven't and he's feeling like he's never gonna get any.
He doesn't see this going to long term, that's why he told you he didn't want to get his hopes up. He is doubtful.
I'm sorry, ask him just straight out ask do you love me?
What he said is very clear....he cannot see a future with you at this present moment! It might change it might not....but as long as u guys are still having a good time...enjoy yourself.
ask him where your relationship is going.
and ask if he still loves u
Ah this sounds familiar.
I have a bf for 1.5 years and then he started pulling that crap-said he wasnt sure if he wanted a gf anymore- so I dumped him. We ended up dating for the last yr and now we are over (my doing) but the pt is...
thats never good.
I remember that- makes your stomache drop-1 second its all promise rings and your future together and then its the Im not sure- I dont think about it anymore. I would agree this is a red flag..
if you dont want to dump him...I will give you this advice from my 2.5 yr exp with the last guy I dated.
Your guy is acting distant- dont try and fix it.
Go spend more time with your friends- regain your life-spend more time being independent..nothing is sexier than independence.
I know this sounds weird but from my experience when people feel their significant other drifting away they try to pull them back but in trying to get their gf/bf back...they push them away.
I think I initially pushed mine away by trying to make sure we didnt fall apart- putting in that extra effort is worthless because the last yr we dated (when we werent official) ...i decided why should I try? my efforts went unappreciated...the more I didnt try...the more he did try...dont ask me why or how that works Idk all I know is that guys seem to be more interested if you seem disinterested. So hang out with him less- see your friends more- regain your life
And if he doesnt come back- fall back in love with you (mine ended up doing so)- than when **** hits the fan...youll have a life.
Alright guys, I need some relationship advice.?
Alright, I realize this is absolutely pathetic and yes I've hit rock bottom asking yahoo answer for help on my love life however... I'm a 23 year old and I have NEVER had a serious relationship. I meet someone and everything is awesome, then all the sudden just like that's it's over. Like this last guy it was so good, he was happy to see me, he liked hanging out, and then all the sudden just complete halt. I have no idea what i'm doing. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I'm pretty awesome. I'm pretty, smart, funny, sweet...
I just don't get it! Why can't I keep a guy around. I'm lonely and I'm really ready to be in love. (haha my life right now is like that Foreigner song ';I want to know what love is';)
So what kind of things do you guys like? Like fall in love with like. and HOW in the world am I supposed to know if you're really serious or just in it for the fun prize in the bedroom?Alright guys, I need some relationship advice.?
IT'S ABOUT YOU! Forget about relationships! GET INVOLVED! Ask yourself difficult questions. Pursue the answers! DO THINGS that make you feel good about yourself. BE SUCCESSFUL! DEVELOP GOALS! MAKE PLANS! BE ADVENTUROUS! Look for ways to improve what you already do well! Take ONE step at a time... JUST DO IT!......
Don't be a MAN MAGNET! I don't care how good looking or how awesome you might think you are, if you are a Man Magnet - you are a short-term facination that comes and goes. You need to be the COMPLETE PACKAGE to attract long-term stimulating prospects, not just fun in the sun and the 2nd degree sun burn! Remember, it's not about the relationship - IT'S ABOUT YOU!
Lasting relationships are not just about SEX! YEA it's a healthy part of a good relationship, however the Long-term stimulation of a relationship comes through supporting each other in our own endeavors, and compromizing on a lot of other things that are more day to day. TRUST IS THE NUMBER ONE ITEM in relationships - without it, you have nothing to base your relationship on. I am glad you see yourself as awesome, that is a step in the right direction. Next, forget about making the relationship happen, worry about what makes you happy, I promise you will find yourself and a relationship will find you.
COMPLETE PACKAGE, goals, expectations, career, hobbies, adventure!
Live your life don't wait for it. Life isn't waiting for you.
Alright guys, I need some relationship advice.?
to be kinda blunt, i think your desperation unconsciously seeps out in your actions.
if anything, you're definitely trying to fill something in your heart.
if you put yourself out there, something will come up. don't get antsy, don't get overly anxious because something nibbles on your line.
i REALLY didn't mean to use a fishing metaphor, but you're pretty much living one right now.
let yourself be found, but at the same time guard yourself a little. =D
be patient.
GOOD LUCK
well i guess ..you need to be understanding...and reality check for you...most of the guys who are really good looking are the one night stand types...take that in capitals......i can tell you more abt it if you tell me where do you live...(dont worry i am not of your age and i am commited)
Well i m a boy, i can tell you. He must know that you love him. Check if somebody already in his heart. If not, chance is yours. Don't be a bore, know him and all the best.
i wanna the know the answer to this one too.. thanks girl friend, for askin this...
let's go out for a meal..... and we can talk bout that... m serious...
I just don't get it! Why can't I keep a guy around. I'm lonely and I'm really ready to be in love. (haha my life right now is like that Foreigner song ';I want to know what love is';)
So what kind of things do you guys like? Like fall in love with like. and HOW in the world am I supposed to know if you're really serious or just in it for the fun prize in the bedroom?Alright guys, I need some relationship advice.?
IT'S ABOUT YOU! Forget about relationships! GET INVOLVED! Ask yourself difficult questions. Pursue the answers! DO THINGS that make you feel good about yourself. BE SUCCESSFUL! DEVELOP GOALS! MAKE PLANS! BE ADVENTUROUS! Look for ways to improve what you already do well! Take ONE step at a time... JUST DO IT!......
Don't be a MAN MAGNET! I don't care how good looking or how awesome you might think you are, if you are a Man Magnet - you are a short-term facination that comes and goes. You need to be the COMPLETE PACKAGE to attract long-term stimulating prospects, not just fun in the sun and the 2nd degree sun burn! Remember, it's not about the relationship - IT'S ABOUT YOU!
Lasting relationships are not just about SEX! YEA it's a healthy part of a good relationship, however the Long-term stimulation of a relationship comes through supporting each other in our own endeavors, and compromizing on a lot of other things that are more day to day. TRUST IS THE NUMBER ONE ITEM in relationships - without it, you have nothing to base your relationship on. I am glad you see yourself as awesome, that is a step in the right direction. Next, forget about making the relationship happen, worry about what makes you happy, I promise you will find yourself and a relationship will find you.
COMPLETE PACKAGE, goals, expectations, career, hobbies, adventure!
Live your life don't wait for it. Life isn't waiting for you.
Alright guys, I need some relationship advice.?
to be kinda blunt, i think your desperation unconsciously seeps out in your actions.
if anything, you're definitely trying to fill something in your heart.
if you put yourself out there, something will come up. don't get antsy, don't get overly anxious because something nibbles on your line.
i REALLY didn't mean to use a fishing metaphor, but you're pretty much living one right now.
let yourself be found, but at the same time guard yourself a little. =D
be patient.
GOOD LUCK
well i guess ..you need to be understanding...and reality check for you...most of the guys who are really good looking are the one night stand types...take that in capitals......i can tell you more abt it if you tell me where do you live...(dont worry i am not of your age and i am commited)
Well i m a boy, i can tell you. He must know that you love him. Check if somebody already in his heart. If not, chance is yours. Don't be a bore, know him and all the best.
i wanna the know the answer to this one too.. thanks girl friend, for askin this...
let's go out for a meal..... and we can talk bout that... m serious...
Why are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
My boyfriend says that he doesn't like talking on the phone and I think that its important for any relationship to communicate on a regular basis. We've established seeing each other on a routine schedule 3 times a week, but in between those times I feel like there's no connection. We've been going out for 7 years, he's always said that he doesn't like talking on the phone and instead he makes the effort to try to see me on a regular basis. But this is getting TOO regular and boring. Is it just me? Or he's plainly dull? What do you think I can do?
By the way, I trust him completely and I really don't think its cheating or another girl type of issue. He is not like that and this is more a conflict of preference.
Any comment would be appreciated!!! ...especially if you feel the same :(Why are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
im like that i don't like talking on the phone, but try txting more. its quicker and less intrusive into everyday tasks and you can say anything even in the middle of the day out in public and not worry about others around you hearing
me and my ex used to send about 200 a day to each otherWhy are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
Try and spice it up,
send him emails or
plan different things,
or just straight up sit down and talk to him about it
communication is important.... and if you've been together for that long, you should be able to talk about this kind of thing. good luck!
Yeah me and my girlfriend had the same problem.
But we decided to just talk on msn, I dont really like using phones.
I would suggest the same thing, talk on msn with web cams and mics if you can.
I enjoy talking on the phone with people (friends/g/f /family/whatever). Just his personal preference to not like it.
Just because we do not talk about shoes all the time does not make us dull
Try spicing up your phone calls by telling him things you'd like to do to him. I'd like to see him hang up on that! It'll probably spill over into other areas of the relationship too. You may also want to do something really unexpected. Maybe tie him to the bed while you guys are being intimate and tease him mercilessly. This should definitely get the old fires roaring.
Of course, you could always inject some romance yourself by surprising him with a candlelit dinner or a relaxing massage. My girlfriend did that for me and my response was to cover her apartment in little love notes the next week.
By the way, I trust him completely and I really don't think its cheating or another girl type of issue. He is not like that and this is more a conflict of preference.
Any comment would be appreciated!!! ...especially if you feel the same :(Why are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
im like that i don't like talking on the phone, but try txting more. its quicker and less intrusive into everyday tasks and you can say anything even in the middle of the day out in public and not worry about others around you hearing
me and my ex used to send about 200 a day to each otherWhy are men so dull? Relationship advice...?
Try and spice it up,
send him emails or
plan different things,
or just straight up sit down and talk to him about it
communication is important.... and if you've been together for that long, you should be able to talk about this kind of thing. good luck!
Yeah me and my girlfriend had the same problem.
But we decided to just talk on msn, I dont really like using phones.
I would suggest the same thing, talk on msn with web cams and mics if you can.
I enjoy talking on the phone with people (friends/g/f /family/whatever). Just his personal preference to not like it.
Just because we do not talk about shoes all the time does not make us dull
Try spicing up your phone calls by telling him things you'd like to do to him. I'd like to see him hang up on that! It'll probably spill over into other areas of the relationship too. You may also want to do something really unexpected. Maybe tie him to the bed while you guys are being intimate and tease him mercilessly. This should definitely get the old fires roaring.
Of course, you could always inject some romance yourself by surprising him with a candlelit dinner or a relaxing massage. My girlfriend did that for me and my response was to cover her apartment in little love notes the next week.
19 y.o looking for relationship advice?
Hello there. I met a wonderful girl over summer break, and basically i have been seeing her ever since. The only problem is that she has had a boyfriend ever since she was 15, so she wanted to take a break from a relationship for a while. it was horrible timing 4 me, because we share passionate moments, but she still doesn't want to get into a relationship.
I have never had a girlfriend before, and she was my first kiss. So it was pretty heartbreaking to hear that she didn't want to be my girlfriend because that's all I've wanted since I was thirteen years old. But I mean I want to try and wait it out until shes ready to have a relationship because I care about her so much.
how often are couples supposed to share passionate moments? I know that everytime I see her, I want to kiss her because I've just been deprived of any intimacy with a woman. I know she doesnt though, so IDK if she is just trying 2 be friends or if she just doesnt want to kiss me at that time. HELP19 y.o looking for relationship advice?
ask her not be a pussy srry for lauge be like do you mind if i kiss you during blank period of time i kiss me gf ever day whever i have one i think its like telling someone i love you19 y.o looking for relationship advice?
if she's kissed you then she definitely likes you ....i think she just needs a little breathing space ...give her some time ..being with the same guy since you were 15 takes alot out of a girl ....so just be patient ..i would also suggest that you back off a little bit ...don't go after her as much ..let her come to you or u might scare her off ....just let her know that you'll always be there for her when she needs you and that's it and then wait for her to contact you ...DO NOT contact her .....sometimes you have to loose something you have to really appreciate it i think ......she might realize how she really feels about you ...trust me on this one ....I'm 18 and a girl ..so i know what I'm talking about ..good luck
tell how you feel.... %26amp; leave it up to the lady..
good luck !!
I have never had a girlfriend before, and she was my first kiss. So it was pretty heartbreaking to hear that she didn't want to be my girlfriend because that's all I've wanted since I was thirteen years old. But I mean I want to try and wait it out until shes ready to have a relationship because I care about her so much.
how often are couples supposed to share passionate moments? I know that everytime I see her, I want to kiss her because I've just been deprived of any intimacy with a woman. I know she doesnt though, so IDK if she is just trying 2 be friends or if she just doesnt want to kiss me at that time. HELP19 y.o looking for relationship advice?
ask her not be a pussy srry for lauge be like do you mind if i kiss you during blank period of time i kiss me gf ever day whever i have one i think its like telling someone i love you19 y.o looking for relationship advice?
if she's kissed you then she definitely likes you ....i think she just needs a little breathing space ...give her some time ..being with the same guy since you were 15 takes alot out of a girl ....so just be patient ..i would also suggest that you back off a little bit ...don't go after her as much ..let her come to you or u might scare her off ....just let her know that you'll always be there for her when she needs you and that's it and then wait for her to contact you ...DO NOT contact her .....sometimes you have to loose something you have to really appreciate it i think ......she might realize how she really feels about you ...trust me on this one ....I'm 18 and a girl ..so i know what I'm talking about ..good luck
tell how you feel.... %26amp; leave it up to the lady..
good luck !!
PLEASE HELP ME. I need relationship advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
My partners been abusing me for the past few months and last night just when i thought things were getting back to normal it didn't. it's been classed as ''emotional domestic violence''
it was 1am and he came in and woke me up, he asked me to follow him into our pc room. He pointed at the computer and up pops msn messenger and my email address typed into it. He starts by asking how it got there and why. I never in my life had downloaded it and had no intention too because i knew this would happen. i told him i dont know how it got there and he started accusing me of cheating and telling me i'm a liar. He had me in floods of tears accusing me of sleeping with my ex even though he banned me from speaking to him.
i ran out the room crying my eyes out luckily my daughter was at my mums. It got that bad i self harmed myself as i felt it was my only way of punishing myself for everything. i feel like this is all my fault and feel he's mad at me. he's told me change my ''attitude problem'' otherwise he'll leave with my baby daughter. I cant bear to be without her but i'm just so scared. My body is so covered in scars it's knocked my confidence, aswell as pregnancy stretch marks. I know if i leave him i'll never find anyone who will look at me for love and not notice my hideous body. I'm too scared to leave my partner. I never downloaded it, i mean, i even typed it all in and showed him my contact list. Every guy on there he questioned. It broke my heart.
please help. thank youxPLEASE HELP ME. I need relationship advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
im a guy and i think someone should beat his *** dont ever think low of yourself you can find someone better out there that will appreciate you if not for you leave him for your daughters sake because later down this will badly affect her if shes not his child or he is really abusive and you can prove it a court they will not let her stay with him you have to stand up for yourself and be strong because im telling you things will only get worse so please leave him hes not good for you and will only destroy your daughters life.PLEASE HELP ME. I need relationship advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
goodness me, it's not your fault at all. you need to leave him, really, what he's doing is so not right. i can't emphasise enough on that. it's disgusting really. leave him, get help, something.
and believe me, there are people who will love you and care for you. there are people who really do love you. stay strong.
you deserve much better. please, get help, for your sake.
im sorry that u have to be with someone like that. I have had to beat the crap out of guys who beat girls. and there is no reason for girls to be with guys like that. cause as much as u love him. He is more into himself then u and for you safety plz leave. Things always contuine to grow worse.
it goes from verbal to mental to physical abuse so if you love your children you will separate from this big jealous bully who possibly has a need for medication
Control freak - get out. No person has the authority to ';ban'; you to speak to anyone. As for finding love, look first within yourself.
it sounds like u dont need to be with him at all!!
he doesn't trust you and thats the most important ting in a relationship
i think u just need to leave with your daughter
its NEVER ur fault! u need a break, and a guy who will treat u right. my heart breaks for you :(
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i understand.. :( breaks my heart. first off.. it sounds like he loves you in a different way than you love him. for a happy relationship to work out, there needs to be trust! he's not worth the broken heart. i hope i can somehow have influence in your decision to not be with him anymore. all he's doing is breaking your heart and, when he is a sweetheart (even if it's for a while) he's just building it up more, to eventually shatter it again. people would tell me this and i never would listen. i thought i knew better than they did and that ';we had something so special'; .. and we did. but it wasn't worth the pain. and it could ruin you your daughters life as well. please just listen when i say this... walk away. you'll find love somewhere else. i wish i would have listened when people told me to. instead of let it get worse. it was one of the hardest things for me to do :( . but SO WORTH IT in the end. i'm so happy now!! and i know you can be too. good luck!! you'll be in my prayers.
Sounds like he is not worth it. It is so true what they say about trust being the most important thing in a relationship. He may have downloaded it himself since he is abusive.
Don't hurt yourself. Make sure your daughter is in a safe place and then tell him it s over.
Trust me any man worth his salt will love you for you and your scars won't matter.
This website is great http://www.womensaid.org.uk/.
There are people who can help you, but you have to realise you are worth more this.
Hope you get the happiness you deserve soon x
I believe you that you didn't download it, a lot of browsers automatically self update them selves and now include this as an updated feature. There could have been lots of ways that it got there. Anyways, the bottom line is that you deserve better. He sounds too controlling and the fact that he accuses you of cheating may actually mean that he is working through his guilt of cheating on you! I know that you do not think so now, but there are lots of guys out there that will treat you better, my friend told me the same thing and I would always make up excuses and say yeah ok thinking that my situation was so much more complicated, but in reality she was right, I did find someone so much better and you can too. Please seek help from a therapist.
break up with that guy. Trust me grl you can do better. THINK OF YOUR DAUGHTER. she does not deserve this. She needs a good role model in her life, and what would you think if a man was doing the same to your daughter. Its very hard to get up and leave and i can tell it wont be easy for you but its something that should be done. There are curches that can help you or try family if your worried about leaving and not having a place to sleep or money. but do it for your daughter and yourself!!
I have to say right when you wrote on ';never find anyone...hideous body'; wow that is hardly a thing to worry about nowadays cause I have seen many people in harmless relationships regardless of their figures. I have not been in any relationships but I can say the people I know are very personable people that I know their relationships are not based on the looks. Sure many people are deluded by television and americas next top hooker but the best conclusion from this is the end...not to stay trapped.
take care and Control.
Do Not Be Self Loathing
Ma'am, first of all, don't hurt yourself, don't be too much guilty about it. Okay, you've done a mistake and you really feel sorry, but you're just a normal person and I think you really didn't mean it at all.
You must have confidence in yourself, of what you do, and of what you say. 'Cause based from what I've read, you really are scared of losing him for the reason no one may ever try to love you like he did. Focus on this, you must have strength to talk to him and clear what just had happened, apologize and admit your fault. Telling him that doesn't make you a wrong person, but a person who wants to make things right. Remember, we step forward for every right thing we do. Try to talk to him, clear things out and believe me, you'll be just fine. ((;
Well it's never ok for someone to hit you. And also it is never your fault. Seriously get out of that relationship it's only gonna leave you heartbroken and hurting in the inside and out. So please do this for the most woman who stay in bad relationships and get her. It's time and you need to do it. There is someone out there who will treat you so much better!acne
it was 1am and he came in and woke me up, he asked me to follow him into our pc room. He pointed at the computer and up pops msn messenger and my email address typed into it. He starts by asking how it got there and why. I never in my life had downloaded it and had no intention too because i knew this would happen. i told him i dont know how it got there and he started accusing me of cheating and telling me i'm a liar. He had me in floods of tears accusing me of sleeping with my ex even though he banned me from speaking to him.
i ran out the room crying my eyes out luckily my daughter was at my mums. It got that bad i self harmed myself as i felt it was my only way of punishing myself for everything. i feel like this is all my fault and feel he's mad at me. he's told me change my ''attitude problem'' otherwise he'll leave with my baby daughter. I cant bear to be without her but i'm just so scared. My body is so covered in scars it's knocked my confidence, aswell as pregnancy stretch marks. I know if i leave him i'll never find anyone who will look at me for love and not notice my hideous body. I'm too scared to leave my partner. I never downloaded it, i mean, i even typed it all in and showed him my contact list. Every guy on there he questioned. It broke my heart.
please help. thank youxPLEASE HELP ME. I need relationship advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
im a guy and i think someone should beat his *** dont ever think low of yourself you can find someone better out there that will appreciate you if not for you leave him for your daughters sake because later down this will badly affect her if shes not his child or he is really abusive and you can prove it a court they will not let her stay with him you have to stand up for yourself and be strong because im telling you things will only get worse so please leave him hes not good for you and will only destroy your daughters life.PLEASE HELP ME. I need relationship advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
goodness me, it's not your fault at all. you need to leave him, really, what he's doing is so not right. i can't emphasise enough on that. it's disgusting really. leave him, get help, something.
and believe me, there are people who will love you and care for you. there are people who really do love you. stay strong.
you deserve much better. please, get help, for your sake.
im sorry that u have to be with someone like that. I have had to beat the crap out of guys who beat girls. and there is no reason for girls to be with guys like that. cause as much as u love him. He is more into himself then u and for you safety plz leave. Things always contuine to grow worse.
it goes from verbal to mental to physical abuse so if you love your children you will separate from this big jealous bully who possibly has a need for medication
Control freak - get out. No person has the authority to ';ban'; you to speak to anyone. As for finding love, look first within yourself.
it sounds like u dont need to be with him at all!!
he doesn't trust you and thats the most important ting in a relationship
i think u just need to leave with your daughter
its NEVER ur fault! u need a break, and a guy who will treat u right. my heart breaks for you :(
anser pls!
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i understand.. :( breaks my heart. first off.. it sounds like he loves you in a different way than you love him. for a happy relationship to work out, there needs to be trust! he's not worth the broken heart. i hope i can somehow have influence in your decision to not be with him anymore. all he's doing is breaking your heart and, when he is a sweetheart (even if it's for a while) he's just building it up more, to eventually shatter it again. people would tell me this and i never would listen. i thought i knew better than they did and that ';we had something so special'; .. and we did. but it wasn't worth the pain. and it could ruin you your daughters life as well. please just listen when i say this... walk away. you'll find love somewhere else. i wish i would have listened when people told me to. instead of let it get worse. it was one of the hardest things for me to do :( . but SO WORTH IT in the end. i'm so happy now!! and i know you can be too. good luck!! you'll be in my prayers.
Sounds like he is not worth it. It is so true what they say about trust being the most important thing in a relationship. He may have downloaded it himself since he is abusive.
Don't hurt yourself. Make sure your daughter is in a safe place and then tell him it s over.
Trust me any man worth his salt will love you for you and your scars won't matter.
This website is great http://www.womensaid.org.uk/.
There are people who can help you, but you have to realise you are worth more this.
Hope you get the happiness you deserve soon x
I believe you that you didn't download it, a lot of browsers automatically self update them selves and now include this as an updated feature. There could have been lots of ways that it got there. Anyways, the bottom line is that you deserve better. He sounds too controlling and the fact that he accuses you of cheating may actually mean that he is working through his guilt of cheating on you! I know that you do not think so now, but there are lots of guys out there that will treat you better, my friend told me the same thing and I would always make up excuses and say yeah ok thinking that my situation was so much more complicated, but in reality she was right, I did find someone so much better and you can too. Please seek help from a therapist.
break up with that guy. Trust me grl you can do better. THINK OF YOUR DAUGHTER. she does not deserve this. She needs a good role model in her life, and what would you think if a man was doing the same to your daughter. Its very hard to get up and leave and i can tell it wont be easy for you but its something that should be done. There are curches that can help you or try family if your worried about leaving and not having a place to sleep or money. but do it for your daughter and yourself!!
I have to say right when you wrote on ';never find anyone...hideous body'; wow that is hardly a thing to worry about nowadays cause I have seen many people in harmless relationships regardless of their figures. I have not been in any relationships but I can say the people I know are very personable people that I know their relationships are not based on the looks. Sure many people are deluded by television and americas next top hooker but the best conclusion from this is the end...not to stay trapped.
take care and Control.
Do Not Be Self Loathing
Ma'am, first of all, don't hurt yourself, don't be too much guilty about it. Okay, you've done a mistake and you really feel sorry, but you're just a normal person and I think you really didn't mean it at all.
You must have confidence in yourself, of what you do, and of what you say. 'Cause based from what I've read, you really are scared of losing him for the reason no one may ever try to love you like he did. Focus on this, you must have strength to talk to him and clear what just had happened, apologize and admit your fault. Telling him that doesn't make you a wrong person, but a person who wants to make things right. Remember, we step forward for every right thing we do. Try to talk to him, clear things out and believe me, you'll be just fine. ((;
Well it's never ok for someone to hit you. And also it is never your fault. Seriously get out of that relationship it's only gonna leave you heartbroken and hurting in the inside and out. So please do this for the most woman who stay in bad relationships and get her. It's time and you need to do it. There is someone out there who will treat you so much better!
Im in desperate need of relationship advice...?
me (19) and my boyfriend (24) have been together since may, and this past weekend we broke up. we always managed to get over our fights and move on. im really hurt by our breakup because we went through alot and i just dont want to lose him... i havent talked to him since sunday night, i tried texting him on monday but he didnt answer. usually when we fight hell give me the silent treatment for a few days to i guess ';prove a point'; but im really scared that this is really it...
what should i do? i miss him so much.. should i text him? what should i say?
we werent even fighting when we broke up, it was so random and out of nowhere..
thanks...Im in desperate need of relationship advice...?
If I were you, I would type him a message/email saying you love him and are hurt and would like to get back together. if you did something wrong, say you were sorry. If he ignores you, it's over. I'm sorry. I went through the same thing and eventually got over it. Do activities that distract you from thinking about him. talk to your friends about it or find a counselor if it gets worse. if you break up it will also help you be mentally stronger in the future. Good luck!Im in desperate need of relationship advice...?
Hon, maybe he wants this,and if he does you are out of luck.
Maybe he is getting tired of the head games. Same pattern of problems and wants to think. Maybe even move on.
You can't stop him. he may have been hoping for just the slightest bit of disagreement between you to call it quits.
you can't control his feelings or decisions.
Someone is out there for you... learn from your mistakes and move on.
I would give him a time frame. Maybe a week or two to decide.
he shouldn't leave you hanging.........
Sorry it's probably not what you want to hear, sweetie.
what should i do? i miss him so much.. should i text him? what should i say?
we werent even fighting when we broke up, it was so random and out of nowhere..
thanks...Im in desperate need of relationship advice...?
If I were you, I would type him a message/email saying you love him and are hurt and would like to get back together. if you did something wrong, say you were sorry. If he ignores you, it's over. I'm sorry. I went through the same thing and eventually got over it. Do activities that distract you from thinking about him. talk to your friends about it or find a counselor if it gets worse. if you break up it will also help you be mentally stronger in the future. Good luck!Im in desperate need of relationship advice...?
Hon, maybe he wants this,and if he does you are out of luck.
Maybe he is getting tired of the head games. Same pattern of problems and wants to think. Maybe even move on.
You can't stop him. he may have been hoping for just the slightest bit of disagreement between you to call it quits.
you can't control his feelings or decisions.
Someone is out there for you... learn from your mistakes and move on.
I would give him a time frame. Maybe a week or two to decide.
he shouldn't leave you hanging.........
Sorry it's probably not what you want to hear, sweetie.
My husband has turrets syndrome it is so hard on our relationship any advice??
Only thing you can do, relate to other people in the same situtaion. This place not being the best place but typing up the syndrome in any search engine well give you some great places to start.
RELATIONSHIP HELP/ADVICE?
Ok, so im a high school teen and i need help. There is this girl that am considering to ask to homecoming. i sorta of like her but sort of don't know very much about her. the problem is my big mouth friend told everyone including the possible date so now she expects me
so here are my possible options:
ask the girl to homecoming, and try to induce a relationship
continue with my normal plan of usually being single and wait until the right person comes along
other, that you guys can make upRELATIONSHIP HELP/ADVICE?
Dude ask her out...if she says no then life will go on. If you don't ask then you will always wonder what could of happened. Whats the worst that could happen? She says no, oh well. Just be confident and talk to her. Good luck!RELATIONSHIP HELP/ADVICE?
i think you should just talk to her about it and tell her you want to get to know her a little bit first and then go from there
so here are my possible options:
ask the girl to homecoming, and try to induce a relationship
continue with my normal plan of usually being single and wait until the right person comes along
other, that you guys can make upRELATIONSHIP HELP/ADVICE?
Dude ask her out...if she says no then life will go on. If you don't ask then you will always wonder what could of happened. Whats the worst that could happen? She says no, oh well. Just be confident and talk to her. Good luck!RELATIONSHIP HELP/ADVICE?
i think you should just talk to her about it and tell her you want to get to know her a little bit first and then go from there
Me and my girlfriend are both Cancer. we cant seem to move forward in our relationship. any advice?
Your having a laugh , i think you mentioned cancer ( crabs ) because they only go sideways. If i'm wrong i have to agree with most peoples answers , astrology is old wives tales.Me and my girlfriend are both Cancer. we cant seem to move forward in our relationship. any advice?
I am not at all surprised if you think that you can,t move forward because you are both Cancer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
With thinking like that....................!!!Me and my girlfriend are both Cancer. we cant seem to move forward in our relationship. any advice?
i think horoscopes are bulls!t to be honest, and completely irrelevant to your situation. What do you mean by not being able to move forward in your relationship? you need to give details
First thing is to shuck the asstrology baloney. BTW, I am an excellent speller.
You both have cancer......oh , man I'm sorry to hear that. Its tough when one person in a couple is sick but when........what? They don't have cancer? They are both cancers astrologically?
Hell, if you believe that stuff, you're better off having cancer.
If you're both Cancer the crab, why don't you try moving sideways instead of forwards? Works for real crabs ;-)
WHY CANT YOU MOVE FORWARD. ARE YOU BOTH STUBBORN. IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS IT ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE. NOT IN STAR SIGNS. IF YOUR BOTH NOT PREPARE TO GIVE WAY. MAYBE YOU SHOULD MOVE ON.
its because she's shagging someone else
jus ask her like look u wanna be wit me or not if she say yea tell her u want 2 step up da game but if she say no tell her peace out deuces 2 ya
I don't think your astrological signs should have anything to do with it. If you are not meant to be then you're not meant to be
umm whoever answered first can STFU, that is so iggnorant, you b*tch, and noone wants to see ur half naked body you FAT whore.
anyways to the question, i think you can move forward in your relationship if you learn to live everyday to the best , and realise that you too have eachother to lean on. I believe that you to are in love, . Theres alot of pressures, but you too do have eachother and without one another and are together for a reason, mayeb you too are sorta alike, but you might attraact eachother , try acting random, try new thingss.
your starsigns have nothing to do with you not being able to move on!!! so maybe if you get over that and really try and make an effort to try new things together and try and make your relationship interesting you might get further
xx
Maybe concentrate less on your astrological sign, and more on your relationship itself. Both being Cancer has nothing to do with it- you've gotten stagnant. It happens. Try going on a few dates, try to recapture the spark that brought you two together to begin with. Suprise her at work with flowers, make her remember why she loves you.
Believing that your zodiac signs have anything to do whatsoever with your relationship is nonsense.
What???
what's the star sign got to do with anything?
:S
and talk to her..
kemo? Sorry, couldn't resist... try to figure out what the real problem is other than what an astrology book will tell you. (fyi astrology compatibility is based on not only your sun sign, but your moon venus and mars as well... look into it if you're really that stuck on the cancer sign thing).
See an oncologist
im not suprised..i feel sorry for her going out with you..your horrible!
edit..i had to change it cos u were horrid about the other one. ive only changed it once since then. i hope she dumps your sorry ***.
I am not at all surprised if you think that you can,t move forward because you are both Cancer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
With thinking like that....................!!!Me and my girlfriend are both Cancer. we cant seem to move forward in our relationship. any advice?
i think horoscopes are bulls!t to be honest, and completely irrelevant to your situation. What do you mean by not being able to move forward in your relationship? you need to give details
First thing is to shuck the asstrology baloney. BTW, I am an excellent speller.
You both have cancer......oh , man I'm sorry to hear that. Its tough when one person in a couple is sick but when........what? They don't have cancer? They are both cancers astrologically?
Hell, if you believe that stuff, you're better off having cancer.
If you're both Cancer the crab, why don't you try moving sideways instead of forwards? Works for real crabs ;-)
WHY CANT YOU MOVE FORWARD. ARE YOU BOTH STUBBORN. IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS IT ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE. NOT IN STAR SIGNS. IF YOUR BOTH NOT PREPARE TO GIVE WAY. MAYBE YOU SHOULD MOVE ON.
its because she's shagging someone else
jus ask her like look u wanna be wit me or not if she say yea tell her u want 2 step up da game but if she say no tell her peace out deuces 2 ya
I don't think your astrological signs should have anything to do with it. If you are not meant to be then you're not meant to be
umm whoever answered first can STFU, that is so iggnorant, you b*tch, and noone wants to see ur half naked body you FAT whore.
anyways to the question, i think you can move forward in your relationship if you learn to live everyday to the best , and realise that you too have eachother to lean on. I believe that you to are in love, . Theres alot of pressures, but you too do have eachother and without one another and are together for a reason, mayeb you too are sorta alike, but you might attraact eachother , try acting random, try new thingss.
your starsigns have nothing to do with you not being able to move on!!! so maybe if you get over that and really try and make an effort to try new things together and try and make your relationship interesting you might get further
xx
Maybe concentrate less on your astrological sign, and more on your relationship itself. Both being Cancer has nothing to do with it- you've gotten stagnant. It happens. Try going on a few dates, try to recapture the spark that brought you two together to begin with. Suprise her at work with flowers, make her remember why she loves you.
Believing that your zodiac signs have anything to do whatsoever with your relationship is nonsense.
What???
what's the star sign got to do with anything?
:S
and talk to her..
kemo? Sorry, couldn't resist... try to figure out what the real problem is other than what an astrology book will tell you. (fyi astrology compatibility is based on not only your sun sign, but your moon venus and mars as well... look into it if you're really that stuck on the cancer sign thing).
See an oncologist
im not suprised..i feel sorry for her going out with you..your horrible!
edit..i had to change it cos u were horrid about the other one. ive only changed it once since then. i hope she dumps your sorry ***.
I need some advice concerning a relationship.?
OK, we've been good friends for the past two years. this summer we went out multiple times on what was clearly, to me, dates. the thing is though, I found out that she has a boyfriend by talking to some of her friends. I'm rather confused on were the situation stands between us. I would like to make a move, but the whole thing seems screwy... what do you guys think?I need some advice concerning a relationship.?
.She may have you firmly in the friend zone.What to you seems ';dates'; to her are outings.Best though to ask her if she has a bf
.She may have you firmly in the friend zone.What to you seems ';dates'; to her are outings.Best though to ask her if she has a bf
Can someone give me some advice with relationship problems?
My boyfriend just went to Chicago a few days ago, when he met a girl that he fell in love. i know that he's dating with that girl, and when I ask him about anything that's happening, he gets mad and irratated. He doesn't know that i know about the girl he's dating. I really don't know what to do, and I'm trying to speak with him. It hurts me how he's trying to hang out with me, but actually loves another girl. Please help me solve this problem.Can someone give me some advice with relationship problems?
ditch him FAST !! !
he's cheating on u and the other girl as well !!Can someone give me some advice with relationship problems?
If you feel for him and he doesnt then thats sorry for you. Sorry becky but it just doesnt work like that. If only one is attracted then it will never work. Just move on.
he is not in love with the othe girl may be he is intrest it need along time to be in love not few days , just let him do what ever he wants he will be back to you if he loves truely loves you.
hye there..i think u should tell him that u already knew about the affair..it's better to let him go..there's many guys out there who's better than him..well..the decision is up to you..:D
just be grateful with what u already have..ie friends, family.. smile always..:))
if he is cheating just dump him. he is cheating with you and the other girt if he doest it now, he will do it again. it is hard if you love him and he does not love you or not as much as you do, but love from one side will never work. i am sure you will find another person much better than him. good luck
a few days ago?!?!?!?!?!
quick.acne
ditch him FAST !! !
he's cheating on u and the other girl as well !!Can someone give me some advice with relationship problems?
If you feel for him and he doesnt then thats sorry for you. Sorry becky but it just doesnt work like that. If only one is attracted then it will never work. Just move on.
he is not in love with the othe girl may be he is intrest it need along time to be in love not few days , just let him do what ever he wants he will be back to you if he loves truely loves you.
hye there..i think u should tell him that u already knew about the affair..it's better to let him go..there's many guys out there who's better than him..well..the decision is up to you..:D
just be grateful with what u already have..ie friends, family.. smile always..:))
if he is cheating just dump him. he is cheating with you and the other girt if he doest it now, he will do it again. it is hard if you love him and he does not love you or not as much as you do, but love from one side will never work. i am sure you will find another person much better than him. good luck
a few days ago?!?!?!?!?!
quick.
Relationship problem need advice?
okay i love my girlfriend but i hate that she lost it to this guy a year ago and has 2 sexual partners already she is my first and it upsets me that i wasnt her first and that she has had sex with 2 other guys i need help! i wuz thinking of having 2 other partners to even it out she wishes i wuz her first and only one but u cant change it what should i do please help! o these guys were before me PLEASE HELP!Relationship problem need advice?
dont even it out. who cares she said she wishes you were heer firstRelationship problem need advice?
grow up and accept the fact as it is....reverse things and ask urself if its ok if u were with 2 before her and she goes and sleeps with two to even things up..not such a good thought huh...
dont even it out. who cares she said she wishes you were heer firstRelationship problem need advice?
grow up and accept the fact as it is....reverse things and ask urself if its ok if u were with 2 before her and she goes and sleeps with two to even things up..not such a good thought huh...
Any advice on keeping a relationship going?
the guy i like just asked me out a few days ago. im 16 and the longest relationship i had was about 2 weeks. (haha yes i know...its sad) but this guy and i have been really good friends for a long time and i really want our relationship to work... its also hard because its summer now and we both work and im gone for soccer tournaments and stuff. So if anyone has any good advice to keep this relationship going...i would be super happy. thanksAny advice on keeping a relationship going?
Tomorrow is me and my boyfriends 1 year, so i think i know how to keep a relationship... so heres some tips on making the relationship work-
dont lie to eachother
dont cheat on eachother
talk to eachother as much as possible
get to know eachother
become eachothers bestfriend (my boyfriend is my best friend %26amp; i can tell him anything)
dont have sex, bc then that is what yall will do all the time, and not really get to know eachother, youll just know eachothers bodys a bit more
go on crazyyy dates
me and my boyfriend didnt jump into the relationship.. we liked eachother for a couple of months untill we finally went out %26amp; im glad it was like that bc any sooner, i dont think it would have lastedAny advice on keeping a relationship going?
Relationships take alot of patience and understanding.Just try to think things out well before you say anything.You might scare him off if act like you want to much to soon,but at the same time you don't want to always hold back what you feel.The best thing to do is just talk and get to know the persons likes and dislike and thier comfort level of certain situations
Tomorrow is me and my boyfriends 1 year, so i think i know how to keep a relationship... so heres some tips on making the relationship work-
dont lie to eachother
dont cheat on eachother
talk to eachother as much as possible
get to know eachother
become eachothers bestfriend (my boyfriend is my best friend %26amp; i can tell him anything)
dont have sex, bc then that is what yall will do all the time, and not really get to know eachother, youll just know eachothers bodys a bit more
go on crazyyy dates
me and my boyfriend didnt jump into the relationship.. we liked eachother for a couple of months untill we finally went out %26amp; im glad it was like that bc any sooner, i dont think it would have lastedAny advice on keeping a relationship going?
Relationships take alot of patience and understanding.Just try to think things out well before you say anything.You might scare him off if act like you want to much to soon,but at the same time you don't want to always hold back what you feel.The best thing to do is just talk and get to know the persons likes and dislike and thier comfort level of certain situations
Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
my boyfriend of a year dumped me at the end of january, the first few days i was really upset but after that i felt happier again and was completely fine about things.
however, the past two weeks or so though i've been feeling really upset everyday about this guy breaking up with me and i miss him loads and still do love him. i feel so incredibly lonely and i loved this guy more than i've ever loved anyone.
we haven't spoken since a week after the breakup and i know it is for the best as he didn't appreciate me and love me for me, and was always trying to change me e.g. 'you'd be the perfect girlfriend if only ...' etc but the way i felt about him was so genuine and i really don't understand what i did wrong for him to breakup with me.
does anyone have any tips on how to not be so sad?Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
I'm sure you've heard it before, but I'll say it again. Time heals... Now...you loved this guy, but he didnt appreciate you, and said you'd be the perfect girl if.....HE IS NOT WORTH UR TIME. Dont you waste another tear on him....do not waste another tear on some one who (not to sound mean at all really!) won't shed a tear on you or with u... Girl...you can find someone who will always love you, show you they appreciate you, respect you always, and will cry with you and laugh with you, LOVE YOU%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;for you not some image he has in his head that he hopes to mold you into. Look to the future, not at the passed. They're are reason the people from ur past arent making it to ur future...key word PAST. I know it hurts right now,,,,but that's a risk we all take when falling in love. Think of this and ur PAST relationship as an excellent lesson and to help u in ur next relationship. Find things in u did and didnt like from that relationship and use them in ur next (not comparing the guys tho...just things you would like to see in ur next lover.) Old relationships are stepping stones paving the way for new ones. You'll find and excellent guy when the time is right. Right now, keep urself busy, focus on ur self and things u've wanted to do but maybe didnt have time for before cause u were in a relationship....see this as a perfect time to re-connect with ur self!
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A set of screwdrivers
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
One friend who
Always makes her Laugh
And one
Who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
Anyone else in her family...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
Eight matching plates
Wine glasses with stems
And a recipe for a meal that will
Make her guests feel honored
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over
Her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love
Without losing herself...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to quit a Job
Break up with a lover
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder... and
WHEN TO WALK AWAY
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change
The length of her calves,
The width of her hips, or
The nature of her parents...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood
May not have been
Perfect..but;
Its over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and Wouldn't
Do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone...
even if
She doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't
And why she shouldn't
Take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go..
Be it her bestfriends kitchen table...
or a charming inn in th woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish
In a day...
A month..
And a year...Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
hey i am verry limadid on what i say so here it goes. it is normal to fell really sad after some one you love breaks up with you trust me i was going out with a guy four 2%26amp; a hafe years till he brock up with me. but i got over it after 2 mounths.
if you want more info e-mail me at dragonprencess@yahoo.com
hope it works out if you dont
Whenever we go through a breakup, we are always, as women, blaming ourselves for what happened, when the truth is we just were not suited for each other. I, personaly would rather know that now then later. Its not your fault it didn't work out, the only thing that heals us from our past is to grieve and let time run its course and the old saying is time heals all. If you didn't know what love was or is then you would never ever be hurt, if you know what its like to love then you know what its like to loose and it makes you wiser the next time around. There is always happiness at the end of a sorrowful rainbow, and if we stay positive, then we will learn to live love and laugh especially when we are happy. Take care Hether
tell ur self this, hes not good enough 4 u and would have 2 b stupid 2 break up with u, look at the glass as 1/2 full, there will b another guy, fate new u werent meant 2 b, there r many other fish in the sea
Make it quick and clean. The longer you drag it out the more difficult it will be. Then just out wait the sadness, nothing you can do but move on.
go out not necesarily on a date but with friends or take a walk in the park do different things. think about the bad things he did. When we miss someone we tend to focus on the ';good'; times but we have to keep in mind the bad times and feeling hurt by that person
I'm going through the same kind of thing except my breakup is a little more fresh. All I can say is time take your own time to find yourself cause I know for me anyway I completly lost myself to him take some time to find yourself again and also spend as much time as you can with your friends. It sucks and it will be that way for a while but enjoy yourself you may learn something new about yourself after this experience
had the same probs really it really sucks
but u need to involve yur self in different activities n doo stuff read books join classes like yoga or marshal arts if u a student then lot many things to hang out with frnds n start datin again
Go out with your friends more often, and do things that you enjoy. No one is perfect and the guy shouldn't think that you should change to fit his standards. A guy who has the nerve to belittle you and not treat you like you should be treated, doesn't deserve your love. Hold yourself up with pride and be glad you got rid of that kind of negative stress.
Just think of all the thinks that you can do with a new bf and even more with the new bf
You should never have to change for a guy. There are way better fish in the sea who like you for who you are, not who you're pretending to be. Go find your Nemo and stop worrying about this jerk. I hope this helps.
nicole
Don't think about him at all, when you find yourself thinking of him at times, just try to think of something else. Otherwise you would remember the times you had and become depressed.
however, the past two weeks or so though i've been feeling really upset everyday about this guy breaking up with me and i miss him loads and still do love him. i feel so incredibly lonely and i loved this guy more than i've ever loved anyone.
we haven't spoken since a week after the breakup and i know it is for the best as he didn't appreciate me and love me for me, and was always trying to change me e.g. 'you'd be the perfect girlfriend if only ...' etc but the way i felt about him was so genuine and i really don't understand what i did wrong for him to breakup with me.
does anyone have any tips on how to not be so sad?Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
I'm sure you've heard it before, but I'll say it again. Time heals... Now...you loved this guy, but he didnt appreciate you, and said you'd be the perfect girl if.....HE IS NOT WORTH UR TIME. Dont you waste another tear on him....do not waste another tear on some one who (not to sound mean at all really!) won't shed a tear on you or with u... Girl...you can find someone who will always love you, show you they appreciate you, respect you always, and will cry with you and laugh with you, LOVE YOU%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;for you not some image he has in his head that he hopes to mold you into. Look to the future, not at the passed. They're are reason the people from ur past arent making it to ur future...key word PAST. I know it hurts right now,,,,but that's a risk we all take when falling in love. Think of this and ur PAST relationship as an excellent lesson and to help u in ur next relationship. Find things in u did and didnt like from that relationship and use them in ur next (not comparing the guys tho...just things you would like to see in ur next lover.) Old relationships are stepping stones paving the way for new ones. You'll find and excellent guy when the time is right. Right now, keep urself busy, focus on ur self and things u've wanted to do but maybe didnt have time for before cause u were in a relationship....see this as a perfect time to re-connect with ur self!
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A set of screwdrivers
a cordless drill, and
a black lace bra
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
One friend who
Always makes her Laugh
And one
Who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A good piece of furniture
not previously owned by
Anyone else in her family...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
Eight matching plates
Wine glasses with stems
And a recipe for a meal that will
Make her guests feel honored
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...
A feeling of control over
Her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to fall in love
Without losing herself...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to quit a Job
Break up with a lover
and confront a friend without ruining the friendship
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
When to try harder... and
WHEN TO WALK AWAY
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That she can't change
The length of her calves,
The width of her hips, or
The nature of her parents...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
That her childhood
May not have been
Perfect..but;
Its over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she would and Wouldn't
Do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
How to live alone...
even if
She doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Whom she can trust,
Whom she can't
And why she shouldn't
Take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
Where to go..
Be it her bestfriends kitchen table...
or a charming inn in th woods...
when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
What she can and can't accomplish
In a day...
A month..
And a year...Heya guys, does anyone have any relationship breakup advice?
hey i am verry limadid on what i say so here it goes. it is normal to fell really sad after some one you love breaks up with you trust me i was going out with a guy four 2%26amp; a hafe years till he brock up with me. but i got over it after 2 mounths.
if you want more info e-mail me at dragonprencess@yahoo.com
hope it works out if you dont
Whenever we go through a breakup, we are always, as women, blaming ourselves for what happened, when the truth is we just were not suited for each other. I, personaly would rather know that now then later. Its not your fault it didn't work out, the only thing that heals us from our past is to grieve and let time run its course and the old saying is time heals all. If you didn't know what love was or is then you would never ever be hurt, if you know what its like to love then you know what its like to loose and it makes you wiser the next time around. There is always happiness at the end of a sorrowful rainbow, and if we stay positive, then we will learn to live love and laugh especially when we are happy. Take care Hether
tell ur self this, hes not good enough 4 u and would have 2 b stupid 2 break up with u, look at the glass as 1/2 full, there will b another guy, fate new u werent meant 2 b, there r many other fish in the sea
Make it quick and clean. The longer you drag it out the more difficult it will be. Then just out wait the sadness, nothing you can do but move on.
go out not necesarily on a date but with friends or take a walk in the park do different things. think about the bad things he did. When we miss someone we tend to focus on the ';good'; times but we have to keep in mind the bad times and feeling hurt by that person
I'm going through the same kind of thing except my breakup is a little more fresh. All I can say is time take your own time to find yourself cause I know for me anyway I completly lost myself to him take some time to find yourself again and also spend as much time as you can with your friends. It sucks and it will be that way for a while but enjoy yourself you may learn something new about yourself after this experience
had the same probs really it really sucks
but u need to involve yur self in different activities n doo stuff read books join classes like yoga or marshal arts if u a student then lot many things to hang out with frnds n start datin again
Go out with your friends more often, and do things that you enjoy. No one is perfect and the guy shouldn't think that you should change to fit his standards. A guy who has the nerve to belittle you and not treat you like you should be treated, doesn't deserve your love. Hold yourself up with pride and be glad you got rid of that kind of negative stress.
Just think of all the thinks that you can do with a new bf and even more with the new bf
You should never have to change for a guy. There are way better fish in the sea who like you for who you are, not who you're pretending to be. Go find your Nemo and stop worrying about this jerk. I hope this helps.
nicole
Don't think about him at all, when you find yourself thinking of him at times, just try to think of something else. Otherwise you would remember the times you had and become depressed.
Long distance relationship? Any advice?
I recently met an exchange student from Denmark, and even though we intended to be just friends because he is going home soon, us spending time together has turned into a bit more than friends. We both feel pretty strongly for each other, but I am worried that since I wont be in Denmark until next summer, that we will loose that closeness, especially since we wont be able to do more than talk through chat and email. Are there any suggestions as to how we might be able to keep our relationship alive?Long distance relationship? Any advice?
When its the real thing its the real thing.... you know it in your heart. Don't let distance keep youn apart. I am from Los Angeles. I met a guy (get this) from a known heavy metal band from Denmark. I was worried about the distance, but true love prevailed. it was hard, but things worked out and we are now married. Go with your heart. Good luck! (and believe me, Danish guys are really great.... Intelligent, good-looking and most of all, very liberated. No stupid double-standard like ideals exist with Danish guys. They are the best. Very modern-thinking and liberated. Perfect for todays woman.)Long distance relationship? Any advice?
I was in two long distance relationships and believe me, unless you are planning to get married within the next year or so, don't put too much hope on it. I know it sounds very negative but that's how life goes Out of sight, out of mind. BUT this would be a real test for your relationship. If he really loves you, he'll be back for you before you go over.
Good luck..long distance relationships sucks!
if you both have that strong relationship, distance will not make any difference
LEAVE IT ALONE
dont do it !!!! you'll be sorry !!!! dont go out like a sucka!!!!
Hello there,
There is a slim chance that you can make it, but you have to be truly realistic about your feelings for each other. Are you really in love with each other or are you in love with the concept of being in love? Your relationship will not survive without one major and basic tool: the art of dialog. When you are not murmuring sweet nothings to each other, you must be ready and able to discuss inevitable issues like jealousy, doubt, separation anxiety and the gamut of misunderstandings that seem to sneak into the conversation. Long distance love takes guts, courage and patience. Without these qualities you are doomed, but you could really succeed - and I hope you do.
My son has had three long distance relationships...they tear people apart...cause too much upset...it doesnt mean they dont feel for each other but they are unable to concentrate on what they need to do whilst at unniversity...remain friends like he has done...and you never know if the relationship was meant to be..it can be picked up again when your studies have finished.
Good Luck.
When its the real thing its the real thing.... you know it in your heart. Don't let distance keep youn apart. I am from Los Angeles. I met a guy (get this) from a known heavy metal band from Denmark. I was worried about the distance, but true love prevailed. it was hard, but things worked out and we are now married. Go with your heart. Good luck! (and believe me, Danish guys are really great.... Intelligent, good-looking and most of all, very liberated. No stupid double-standard like ideals exist with Danish guys. They are the best. Very modern-thinking and liberated. Perfect for todays woman.)Long distance relationship? Any advice?
I was in two long distance relationships and believe me, unless you are planning to get married within the next year or so, don't put too much hope on it. I know it sounds very negative but that's how life goes Out of sight, out of mind. BUT this would be a real test for your relationship. If he really loves you, he'll be back for you before you go over.
Good luck..long distance relationships sucks!
if you both have that strong relationship, distance will not make any difference
LEAVE IT ALONE
dont do it !!!! you'll be sorry !!!! dont go out like a sucka!!!!
Hello there,
There is a slim chance that you can make it, but you have to be truly realistic about your feelings for each other. Are you really in love with each other or are you in love with the concept of being in love? Your relationship will not survive without one major and basic tool: the art of dialog. When you are not murmuring sweet nothings to each other, you must be ready and able to discuss inevitable issues like jealousy, doubt, separation anxiety and the gamut of misunderstandings that seem to sneak into the conversation. Long distance love takes guts, courage and patience. Without these qualities you are doomed, but you could really succeed - and I hope you do.
My son has had three long distance relationships...they tear people apart...cause too much upset...it doesnt mean they dont feel for each other but they are unable to concentrate on what they need to do whilst at unniversity...remain friends like he has done...and you never know if the relationship was meant to be..it can be picked up again when your studies have finished.
Good Luck.
Dating and relationship help/advice?
Okay so I been going on 3 dates with this amazing girl and we both like each other(got my first kiss from her on are 3 date) but shes not sure what we are.... she says we are dating now how long should I wait before asking her to be my girlfriend ?
any ideas or suggestion?Dating and relationship help/advice?
if you think she is also interested in being you girlfriend... which it sounds like she is, since she considers you dating each other... then wait until a time when you are alone and you really like her. Say something like, can I call you my girlfriend? Or, so.. are we officially an item now? Something not cheesy but to the point and nice.Dating and relationship help/advice?
Talk to her about it before you ask... she might be nervous about comitting to a relationship because she might have been hurt before... you just never know how she feels about it until you talk to her about entering a relationship. I would wait until she brings it up or hints at such things... but you should def be honest with her about how you feel, she'll appreciate your honesty and courage to talk to her about it.
If you want her to be your GF, three dates is more than enough to say ';more than friends.';
Second, she kissed you...which is a good sign.
Lastly, if you really want to express your desire, do not wait for the girl to make the move.....do it yourself.
If you wait too long, you will not get her, you will get a friend.
Bad advice to wait to become friends.
(I have yet to see any successful friendship become a relationship that lasted over a long period of time...if they exist, they are rare....)
Girls lose attraction if a guy fails to respond to their moves quickly, so unless you want to be in the same group as her best friend or her brother or sister, do not wait.
She is unsure because you have yet to move on to her...
that's so cute ;)
just start doing 'boyfriend-things' to her like whenever you see her have body contact like put your arm around her and call her a lot and any moment when you two are alone and you just feel it's right (trust me you will feel it) just tell her you would like for her to be your girlfriend. she will be sooo happy!
good luck,
princess xxx
Why are you in such a hurry? Have you decided that she has to give it up because you went out 3 times and only got a kiss? Maybe she's considering it, and thinking about a relationship is smarter than diving right in. Calm down. The best things in life take time.
Just wait for the right time. Maybe she'll come to you and say be my boyfriend? Whenever you think it's the right time take a shot.
wait for the right time
just wait and keep been friends amd u will get something in return for waiting
i know this is cliche but, just ask her when you feel the time is right
any ideas or suggestion?Dating and relationship help/advice?
if you think she is also interested in being you girlfriend... which it sounds like she is, since she considers you dating each other... then wait until a time when you are alone and you really like her. Say something like, can I call you my girlfriend? Or, so.. are we officially an item now? Something not cheesy but to the point and nice.Dating and relationship help/advice?
Talk to her about it before you ask... she might be nervous about comitting to a relationship because she might have been hurt before... you just never know how she feels about it until you talk to her about entering a relationship. I would wait until she brings it up or hints at such things... but you should def be honest with her about how you feel, she'll appreciate your honesty and courage to talk to her about it.
If you want her to be your GF, three dates is more than enough to say ';more than friends.';
Second, she kissed you...which is a good sign.
Lastly, if you really want to express your desire, do not wait for the girl to make the move.....do it yourself.
If you wait too long, you will not get her, you will get a friend.
Bad advice to wait to become friends.
(I have yet to see any successful friendship become a relationship that lasted over a long period of time...if they exist, they are rare....)
Girls lose attraction if a guy fails to respond to their moves quickly, so unless you want to be in the same group as her best friend or her brother or sister, do not wait.
She is unsure because you have yet to move on to her...
that's so cute ;)
just start doing 'boyfriend-things' to her like whenever you see her have body contact like put your arm around her and call her a lot and any moment when you two are alone and you just feel it's right (trust me you will feel it) just tell her you would like for her to be your girlfriend. she will be sooo happy!
good luck,
princess xxx
Why are you in such a hurry? Have you decided that she has to give it up because you went out 3 times and only got a kiss? Maybe she's considering it, and thinking about a relationship is smarter than diving right in. Calm down. The best things in life take time.
Just wait for the right time. Maybe she'll come to you and say be my boyfriend? Whenever you think it's the right time take a shot.
wait for the right time
just wait and keep been friends amd u will get something in return for waiting
i know this is cliche but, just ask her when you feel the time is right
How to 'Whip' a Boy (relationship advice)?
So this might sound wrong, but look at it from both ends. I am with a guy, but neither of us want the title of dating because we are both moving really soon for college and want to save ourselves from the heartbreak of breaking up. Anyways, hes mine for the summer and I want some tips on how to 'whip' him. I want him to at least do things special for me and make an effort! Plus, it would be nice to get some presents from him before he leaves so I have some things to remember him by. We are not having sex, but how do you whip a boy? I want him to be crazy about me....How to 'Whip' a Boy (relationship advice)?
How do you know he would like to be whipped?acne
How do you know he would like to be whipped?
What should i do? need relationship advice?
ok so i seem to be having some problems with my relationship (its just me i think) with my girl. we have been dating for over a year now and things are going very well. in the first 6-8 months we used to have sex quite a lot but she always ended up crying/worried about leaks in condom(like seriously worried) and sometimes she would be just fine afterwards.... and everytime we had sex she wanted it i never ever pressed her for sex. now we not having sex at all she is very touch recently an i am getting seriously frustrated. what the matter is she said she ';feels guilty and she is too little'; im 19 shes 18. any suggestions?What should i do? need relationship advice?
guys dont get the girls have more at stake when we have sex like pregnancy, hpv, rashes, so on... so maybe she really is scared. so maybe do extra four play, experiment with hand jobs, blow jobs, toys. you can still be satisfied without having sex.
guys dont get the girls have more at stake when we have sex like pregnancy, hpv, rashes, so on... so maybe she really is scared. so maybe do extra four play, experiment with hand jobs, blow jobs, toys. you can still be satisfied without having sex.
Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
I recently broke up with my boyfriend, because I feel I need to work on my attitude and my horrible temper. I get really mad at him and I have hit him a few times. He is the love of my life and I haven't had any guy better, yet. It hurts so bad and he is really upset about it. Crying just as much as me and I've never seen him cry before. We have been talking about marriage in the future. But I just don't think its right that I act the way I do. I want to be a better person and I need time to myself to work on that. Am I wrong for breaking up with him and should I get back with him asap? Or is it okay that I'm trying to work on my ways and make myself a better person? Please help me, my heart feels so heavy and hurt.Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
I think it's a great idea to get help for yourself before persuing this relationship ANY further...explain to him that you want to be with him but first you need to get help for your problems. Anger managment should help you :) Dont feel bad about taking a break..it will only help your relationship in the end!Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
Thank you :) helping you means alot to me! Dont let anyone tell you that you are making a mistake! You know yourself best :) I hope this comment finds you well on your journey of self happiness...Have a great week!! ~kristen~ Report Abuse
I dont suggest getting back together with him unless you've sought professional help in dealing with your anger, and after you have made YOURSELF a promise that you'll change. Remember, change for yourself first. the motivation for this must be self improvement, n a better self esteem for YOU. good luck!
That is a very mature thing you have done. Have you told your bf the reason you broke up with him? what did he say about it? Let him know how you feel and that you love him. I think it will work out for the two of you.
Best of luck
Get back with him before he moves on. Try and get an anger management class.
u gotta do it 2gether. i think u guys should work it out as one if u guys r planning 2b together.
I think it's a great idea to get help for yourself before persuing this relationship ANY further...explain to him that you want to be with him but first you need to get help for your problems. Anger managment should help you :) Dont feel bad about taking a break..it will only help your relationship in the end!Can someone please give me relationship advice!! Please serious people only. I'm already hurting enough.?
Thank you :) helping you means alot to me! Dont let anyone tell you that you are making a mistake! You know yourself best :) I hope this comment finds you well on your journey of self happiness...Have a great week!! ~kristen~ Report Abuse
I dont suggest getting back together with him unless you've sought professional help in dealing with your anger, and after you have made YOURSELF a promise that you'll change. Remember, change for yourself first. the motivation for this must be self improvement, n a better self esteem for YOU. good luck!
That is a very mature thing you have done. Have you told your bf the reason you broke up with him? what did he say about it? Let him know how you feel and that you love him. I think it will work out for the two of you.
Best of luck
Get back with him before he moves on. Try and get an anger management class.
u gotta do it 2gether. i think u guys should work it out as one if u guys r planning 2b together.
Can i please have some relationship advice?
ok so theres this guy who i went out with for two months, and then we both decieded to end it. he tells me every now and then that im his favourite chick, and he always compliments me but he doesnt want to go out because he thinks hes corrupting me and he always gets shy around me because he doesnt want poeple to think less of me. so hes been ';pimping hard out'; as he likes to call it, trying to get 3 other chicks, one of which is his x.
do you really think im his favourite chick?
or is he making it up to make me feel better or something?Can i please have some relationship advice?
u have to see if the relationship just for enjoyment ...carry on until u get better .........but ultimately one lands up ..in thick soup....to male not of much difference...they are sunflowers.......it depends upon u how u wants him to be ....if just ...then ok...if permanent ...there is no hopeCan i please have some relationship advice?
he's not lying, he probably just couldn't commit to a relationship at this moment
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Hmmm thats odd.
I have no clue.
Maybe you needa push his buttons.
Demand something, see if you can make him squirm.
Test him maybe.
He could be tellin the truth or lying threw his teeth
I think you would be wasting you time on this one. There are plent of uncomplicated guys around.
He's not interested in that way with you, he's trying to let you down nicely but he'd be better off just telling you.
do you really think im his favourite chick?
or is he making it up to make me feel better or something?Can i please have some relationship advice?
u have to see if the relationship just for enjoyment ...carry on until u get better .........but ultimately one lands up ..in thick soup....to male not of much difference...they are sunflowers.......it depends upon u how u wants him to be ....if just ...then ok...if permanent ...there is no hopeCan i please have some relationship advice?
he's not lying, he probably just couldn't commit to a relationship at this moment
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Hmmm thats odd.
I have no clue.
Maybe you needa push his buttons.
Demand something, see if you can make him squirm.
Test him maybe.
He could be tellin the truth or lying threw his teeth
I think you would be wasting you time on this one. There are plent of uncomplicated guys around.
He's not interested in that way with you, he's trying to let you down nicely but he'd be better off just telling you.
ANYBODY OUT THERE I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE... PLEASE REPLY!!!?
In short... I have had a girlfriend for 11 months and I love her. But she has become very burdensome, with her depression and manipulation and stuff. I know she is absolutely in love with me too. But hapiness is only about 40% of the time. I know I should be there for her, and I want to be, but it looks more like I'm her counselor than her boyfriend.
To make matters worse, I've recently developed a crush on another girl. She seems carefree, happy, and she has a lot of similar interests as me. PLUS she seems t like me too. And I don't know what to do. I want to stay with my girlfriend... but I also can't get this other girl out of my mind. HELP!!!ANYBODY OUT THERE I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE... PLEASE REPLY!!!?
Ok...this is a good one. And I applaud you for your honesty.
Oftentimes, Love isn't enough. And just because you love a person does not make you right for that person. If you cant be In Love and happy AT THE SAME TIME...you may want to reconsider your relationship. As long as this ';problem'; didnt arise AFTER you developed your little crush. Speaking of, the grass will always be greener on the otherside until you have to cut it. The ';new'; person will always seem better because you are meeting their representative. Everyone puts their best foot forward to make the catch. Plus, women tend to find a man about 10 times more desirable if they are already taken (whether they admit it or not).
Can you really work on your relationship with the woman that you TRULY LOVE if you are dividing your thoughts and affection with a woman that you merely LIKE? Being in a relationship means you have to take the ups with the downs...if your girl is just having a rough temporary time, why shouldnt you be her counselor? You should be her best friend as well as her boyfriend.
Sit her down..tell her not to say a word...then proceed to inform her on how her present attitude and manipulation tactics are pushing you away and turning you off. Tell her you want to help and support her, but you dont want to be dragged down in the process.
Taking the easy way out by finding release with another woman while still in a relationship will place you under that negative sterotypical umbrella that alot of women like to put over men. Being a Dog.
Release her or Rekindle the flame...but leave the extra (the other chick) out of the picture until you decide on which option you will be taking.
Dont forget to self-evaluate...Im sure you wouldnt be able to go on record as being perfect in this relationship...make sure you consider what faults YOU may be bringing to the table as well.
I hope all works out for you
Hope I helped
DaniC
www.therealdeal-danic.blogspot.comANYBODY OUT THERE I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE... PLEASE REPLY!!!?
dont legg it... i mean dnt run from someting u have already started.. coz sumday it will happen 2 u... if u really wanna help ur gf.. den dont leave her.. considering she's alreay depressed.. what u tink thats gona make her better. no she'l problay commit suicide.. she's already falling.. like they say.. ';dnt kick a man if his already falling';... be patient.. wait till she's all happy with herself again.. n then if ur feelings still remain.. then work it out.. and if u cant then tell her that u feel someting for someone else.. that way u wont look like a coward.. and she will understand.. and maybe she'l see sense in it then to.. but not now.. not when she needs u most... all the best peace
Tell your current girlfriend how you feel. Say it nicely and remember to be alone. Tell her you just want to be friends. Don't go after the other girl right away. Wait a couple of weeks. It will all work out at the end...hopefully. I really hope this all works out for you.
Time to grow up .. Lose the emo bagagge and give a new gal a try. When gals do that .. they juz say '; he is jus a fren or its just coffee';
U go its jus a movie/hangout'; . See what life has to offer ... n lose the Wuss girl who is draggin u down
If you're not happy at least 95% of the time, move on.
are you just her boyfriend? or does she see you as a best friend, someone she can count on to talk to about everything?
maybe she doesn't know you can't handle her problems and help her through her depression like she thought you could.
but if you really love her, why can't you help her through her problems? you were happy at one point weren't you? let her get through this before you make any major decision that may cause her more pain. in fact, you should try to help her. she probably needs you right now in her life.
does she know about the other girl? if not ignore this, if so, how do you think that makes her feel? do you think that could be some of the cause of her current depression? cool it with the other girl for a while, until you and your girl are happy again.
then, if you really think you need a break from this girl, go ahead. but be careful with your choice, and be careful about what you do about the other girl. once you lose your girlfriend, know that it might be for good. losing a guy that u really love is one thing, but losing him to another girl is scarring. she might be reluctant to take you back.
good luck, be careful, and remember other peoples feelings. :)
To make matters worse, I've recently developed a crush on another girl. She seems carefree, happy, and she has a lot of similar interests as me. PLUS she seems t like me too. And I don't know what to do. I want to stay with my girlfriend... but I also can't get this other girl out of my mind. HELP!!!ANYBODY OUT THERE I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE... PLEASE REPLY!!!?
Ok...this is a good one. And I applaud you for your honesty.
Oftentimes, Love isn't enough. And just because you love a person does not make you right for that person. If you cant be In Love and happy AT THE SAME TIME...you may want to reconsider your relationship. As long as this ';problem'; didnt arise AFTER you developed your little crush. Speaking of, the grass will always be greener on the otherside until you have to cut it. The ';new'; person will always seem better because you are meeting their representative. Everyone puts their best foot forward to make the catch. Plus, women tend to find a man about 10 times more desirable if they are already taken (whether they admit it or not).
Can you really work on your relationship with the woman that you TRULY LOVE if you are dividing your thoughts and affection with a woman that you merely LIKE? Being in a relationship means you have to take the ups with the downs...if your girl is just having a rough temporary time, why shouldnt you be her counselor? You should be her best friend as well as her boyfriend.
Sit her down..tell her not to say a word...then proceed to inform her on how her present attitude and manipulation tactics are pushing you away and turning you off. Tell her you want to help and support her, but you dont want to be dragged down in the process.
Taking the easy way out by finding release with another woman while still in a relationship will place you under that negative sterotypical umbrella that alot of women like to put over men. Being a Dog.
Release her or Rekindle the flame...but leave the extra (the other chick) out of the picture until you decide on which option you will be taking.
Dont forget to self-evaluate...Im sure you wouldnt be able to go on record as being perfect in this relationship...make sure you consider what faults YOU may be bringing to the table as well.
I hope all works out for you
Hope I helped
DaniC
www.therealdeal-danic.blogspot.comANYBODY OUT THERE I NEED RELATIONSHIP ADVICE... PLEASE REPLY!!!?
dont legg it... i mean dnt run from someting u have already started.. coz sumday it will happen 2 u... if u really wanna help ur gf.. den dont leave her.. considering she's alreay depressed.. what u tink thats gona make her better. no she'l problay commit suicide.. she's already falling.. like they say.. ';dnt kick a man if his already falling';... be patient.. wait till she's all happy with herself again.. n then if ur feelings still remain.. then work it out.. and if u cant then tell her that u feel someting for someone else.. that way u wont look like a coward.. and she will understand.. and maybe she'l see sense in it then to.. but not now.. not when she needs u most... all the best peace
Tell your current girlfriend how you feel. Say it nicely and remember to be alone. Tell her you just want to be friends. Don't go after the other girl right away. Wait a couple of weeks. It will all work out at the end...hopefully. I really hope this all works out for you.
Time to grow up .. Lose the emo bagagge and give a new gal a try. When gals do that .. they juz say '; he is jus a fren or its just coffee';
U go its jus a movie/hangout'; . See what life has to offer ... n lose the Wuss girl who is draggin u down
If you're not happy at least 95% of the time, move on.
are you just her boyfriend? or does she see you as a best friend, someone she can count on to talk to about everything?
maybe she doesn't know you can't handle her problems and help her through her depression like she thought you could.
but if you really love her, why can't you help her through her problems? you were happy at one point weren't you? let her get through this before you make any major decision that may cause her more pain. in fact, you should try to help her. she probably needs you right now in her life.
does she know about the other girl? if not ignore this, if so, how do you think that makes her feel? do you think that could be some of the cause of her current depression? cool it with the other girl for a while, until you and your girl are happy again.
then, if you really think you need a break from this girl, go ahead. but be careful with your choice, and be careful about what you do about the other girl. once you lose your girlfriend, know that it might be for good. losing a guy that u really love is one thing, but losing him to another girl is scarring. she might be reluctant to take you back.
good luck, be careful, and remember other peoples feelings. :)
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