For the relationship experts. Advice needed.?

My friend 'Rob' is in the National Guard and is engaged. He has a date, the wedding party, and a honeymoon locale already determined. As far as I knew he and his fiance had a great relationship. However, a few months ago he was shipped off to Iraq. Although we were all sad, we understood this was part of his job. He and his wife have kept in touch through letters. Well, a week ago I ran into him at a Taco Bell in a town an hour from where we live. I was shocked at first, then thrilled to see him. Well it turns out he never went to Iraq. Complete lie. He said the entire scenario was completely made up to get away from his fiance. He also says he no longer wants to get married. He began talking of some elaborate plan about pretending he died in battle to get out of his engagement. He wants me to help him unfold such a scheme. I don't know what in the hell to do. We are great friends. Sadly, his fiance is kind of air-headed and may buy it. But, I would feel like sh*t having to pretend he is dead when he isn't. What do I do?For the relationship experts. Advice needed.?
You have to tell your friend that he should be honest. And if he cannot be honest, than you should do it. You should go and tell her the truth. Imagine that poor woman spending the rest of her life mourning for her dead lover, when the guy would be alive and kicking. Would you like to be a part of this? She can get over a break-up, everybody can. But the death of a loved one is too much to bear for some people. What if she develops depression? What if she commits suicide? Would you be able to live with the fact that you send her to her grave?For the relationship experts. Advice needed.?
I think telling the fiance is a better strategy by far. For one, you save money, time and effort, and secondly, you can make the feeling mutual and leave on good terms (or as good as it will get, now), and thirdly, you won't put the poor girl through all that grief, losing someone is very, very painful, even though it doesn't seem like it now.





And kick your friend in the balls for me.
The man has the courage to enlist in the Guard, but is still enough of a coward to fear his fiancee? I would seriously worry about the guy's mental facilities. Let him cook up his own schemes, but you stay out of it.





Faking death in combat is quite likely a violation of the STOLEN VALOR ACT, passed by the Congress and signed into law by the President. If he wants out of his marriage commitment, then a couple years in the Federal Prison just might do it.
y dont u do actually what he wants u to pretend. like kill him then u will have natural emotion in showing grief that he is dead.....(cryng)...





Better ask this loser to get a life and go stright to his fiance and tell him tha he needs some more time to decide on marriage she will definitely understand it.
He needs to step up, stop bein a scam artist, and tell her ';I DONT WANT TO BE WITH YOU';


She'll take it a lot better then saying he died.


Thats a complete coward piece of Sh't thing to do.


Tell me to tell her, and to get his stuff and get out. Im sure she wont mind when she realized how dishonest %26amp; cold hearted he is.
I wouldnt pretend.because even though his chick might believe you...what if she calls around (friends...family) and they say he's not dead or wateva..then she'll get hurt even more. Ugh..he needs to be a ';man';..and tell her that he dont wna get married!


anyways..hope everything works out!
I think you need to stay away from this. He needs to grow a pair and tell his fiance that he has decided that he no longer wants to get married. But seriously, stay out of this one.
Well you look at him %26amp; say ';This has got to be the most stupiest **** you've ever pulled'; on everyone. You make me sick ;p





Is that all ??
HAHAHAHAHA !!! This was exactly a show i saw b4 , i guess your friend watched too much '; my name is earl'; . Just say he lost his memories and found a new gf while