Why is he doing this? I need some relationship advice please?

We have been together for 10 months now. At the begining of the relationship, he made it quite clear he wanted to stay together for a long time and he would always refer to us as 'we' when talking about the future, clearly showing signs of including me in his future.





Tonight we were on the phone and he was telling me about how he is going to change course at university (we go to the same one and do the same course) and he might go abroad for that year. He is also doing Spanish lessons right now so he can speak Spanish with me and is planning on getting some kind of recognised qualification and told me he will then move out of the UK to a warmer, Spanish speaking country after uni. He failed to mention me at all in this plan and to be honest, I felt a bit hurt. This is just his ideas and what he plans to do, but I dunno......it felt a little weird hearing him talk about his future and goals like that without any mention of him wanting me by his side or anything???!Why is he doing this? I need some relationship advice please?
a lot of people tend to go off with an idea when its in there head but actually going along with the plan is completely different. If he seems serious about this decision you need to sit down and talk with him because if it is the case he is definately going, is there much point of you continuing? or does he actually plan on asking you to go with him? the only way your going to find out whats going on inside his head is to talk to him.xWhy is he doing this? I need some relationship advice please?
talk to him
I can see how this is hurtful - and why it's so important NOT to rush things at the start of a relationship! If he hadn't then you wouldn't feel left out now.


He may have been sounding you out, wanting to know how you felt about such a move together, but all you can see right now is him wanting to leave you behind, so don't jump to any conclusions.





Be honest with him. Say you were surprised he didn't include you in his plans, and wondered whether he now feels that he needs some space and time away from you.





FAR better to know if he is getting restless now than later when you've made a deeper commitment to him.