Who is good at relationship advice?

I have been with my boyfriend for three years%26gt; we have had our ups and downs but always overcome them. I love him, he loves me, and we're planning on moving out together next year.





The only problem is, I have a VERY strong attraction to another guy. I met him a year ago and was instantly attracted to his personality and his looks.


I love my boyfriend so much, but this attraction for the other guy won't go away and I don't want to abandon my boyfriend after three years over something that could simply be a crush.





What should I do...Who is good at relationship advice?
You have to make a decision. You have to decide if you're ready to settle (and IF it's settling) for your boyfriend. And if you decide that you want to date more, and see other guys, then do it.


But realize that your boyfriend may not be there when/if you're done dating around and decide you want to be with him.


You have to decide if it really is just a crush, or if it could be something more. Decide if it's worth leaving your boyfriend over. If it's worth LOSING him over.





You need to do some long, hard thinking.


And you still may not make the best choice.


Just follow your heart. Whatever is meant to be will be.Who is good at relationship advice?
Well relationships are about what attracts you physically, mentally, and emotionally. obviously if you have been with this guy for 3 years you have all of the above. But if you have the attraction to the guy that you only have like for the past year the best advice is to make yourself get over him and realise what you have right now. If you have already decided to want to move out with the guy of a 3 year relationship jus be strong and stick through it. it already seems your comitted.


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i think that you should trust your in stinks. if you think that this other guy is worth risking your relationship of 3 years then break up with your boyfriend...but i honestly feel that if you are second thinking the decision to break up with your boyfriend then that means that you should stay with him..because you have this feeling deep down inside that is telling you that this may not work out with this other guy...and that you should stay with your boyfriend...i wish you the best
Before I answer make sur that you realize that it is you independant choice im just giving advice. Dont loose your boyfriend of 3 threes over this guy you fell for. it sounds like you love you bf very much. dont loose him. thats about all i can say with what youve given me. Good Luck!!





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If its been a year and your still attracted to the guy it might mean something. If you said it had been a week or a month it could just be a phase and then phase out. This is a tough one. I guess you really just need to think about it and follow your heart.
if someone's marriage material, you know within 6 months. If you grow into loving someone, it takes about three years. honestly, now may be the right time to end it with someone you don't ultimately click with. but its always your personal decision.
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Stay With Yur Current Bf,


Yuh Say Yuh Love Him


Yuh Guys Been Together For 3 Years,


No Need For Noone Else,


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You're attracted to him, many people might be attracted in a relationship to somebody else (physically only! i don't know about personality), but loving someone is way different. u have to think deeply and ask yourself if you are ready enough to move out with your boyfriend. ';am i going to be faithful?';. if you really love him, and trying to forget that guy who you are attracted to, then you need to clarify him that you are just friends (only if he flirts with you and stuff like that). if you are not, then you might not love your boyfriend enough because you can't overcome this situation...