We have been together for almost two years and have lived together for about the same amount of time. I am no longer physically attracted to him. I love him but I am definitely not IN love with him, I feel like we are more like best friends. I have told him how I feel and know he wants to go to counseling...we are young (26%26amp;28) and I feel as if we are just different and the counseling is not going to help. I just feel like I have lost myself in this relationship it all seemed so perfect. It is the one stable relationship I've had so why do I feel like I am suffocating!??Should I end my relationship? Advice Please!?
i been in a similar situation. i was with a guy for 3 years, although we never actually moved together we were already started talking about it. and for a while i felt like him and i were buddies not true love kind of crap, you know. so instead of telling him i held it in. we eventually broke because he felt my vibes and we grew anger in each other in a way. and of course the breakup was hurtful. and we stopped talking. and i realized that i didnt lose my love or my soul mate..i just lost a good friend. you did the right thing by telling him. and to force something to work out when you feel like it wont will make things worse. maybe you should take some time to yourself since you been together for a while and your still young so of course you probably dont wana settle down. taking time apart will probably help maintain your bond as friends instead of waiting for everything to fall apart. well good luck in your relationship and i hope that i helped in some way. =)Should I end my relationship? Advice Please!?
Sometimes your best friend is the one that you should stay with. He's the one that's really gonna care about you. You have to think about the options you have. Think about the men that are available in this world. Not many good ones are left, sometimes you have to hold on to what you have. I would say you should try the counseling and see how that goes. Maybe you just need some time for yourself. Alone, away from him. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Usually it takes more than one stable relationship to settle down...i know my first relationship got really boring...seeing him...the places we went...the sex...it was all in a rut...its like we got stuck...all we saw was each other....i needed to get out...i needed space and i needed it fast...i never missed him or needed to call him once i left...i just packed my stuff one night and that was it...never came back....
OK so here is the deal if you not feel attracted to him talk about it with him and see what you could do to fix that and if that does not work try to put yourself into each others shoes and if that still does not work you should end it.
if the shoes you are wearing is uncomfortable find a new pair that fits. If you are suffocating then you should find someone that you are more comfortable with.
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