Problems with my 8 yr relationship!! Need advice!!?

Ive been with my fiance for 8 yrs now. We have our own house and everything. For the past month, everything seems to be diminishing. I cant cope with it, i just dont know whats going on. First) we havent had sex in 3 1/2 weeks. I want it REAL bad and i keep asking her whats up. All she says is I DUNNO! She says shes in the mood but when were about to have sex, she gets turned off. We've never had this prob in the past!! Everytime we had sex, i always got her off. So all was good!! I dunno what to think anyore, it seems like shes lost interest in me, and it sucks real bad. She claims shes not happy (i dunno why she would feel this,cause all i do is try to make her happy). It seems like one day she'll be soooo happy with me and the next she complains! She messing with my head mentally!!!


And another thing that bothers me is, she has a guy friend who just broke up with her EX best friend, and now he texts her EVERYDAY!! Seems like hes trying to get with her or suttin.Problems with my 8 yr relationship!! Need advice!!?
maybe since you are so used to seeing her every day, you dont take the time out to tell her simple things like how much you love and miss her. girls need to hear things verbally sometimes... sure you can kiss her and hug her, but what comes out of your mouth is very important. thats the problem i have with my bf. we're extremely happy but he just doesnt say anything sweet anymore. i have dreams about random guys saying sweet things to me because i cant even imagine him saying these things to me. it feels like a great relationship, but then i wish so badly that he would talk to me like he used to. she might be hearing the other guy say these things and it makes her think, hey, my fiance never says these things. maybe its not that you dont FEEL those things, but that you no longer say them.





i suggest taking a day off... both of you call out from work. surprise her by taking her out somewhere nice... and outdoors. tell her you dont always get the chance to tell her, but that she means the world to you... or something like that. the little things count so much. i almost gave up on my 2 year relationship with my bf because if another guy would call me ';babe'; or ';Sweetie'; in a friendly way, i would get so jealous that my boyfriend wouldnt speak to me that way.





so anyway, try to surprise her with a romantic day and a nice evening in. get a nice room with a hot tub and spend the night there. try to reconnect. if all of these efforts fail, then you have every right to believe that something is up... but from experience, let me tell you... its possible to stop it before it starts. if shes looking elsewhere, its because she doesnt know how to tell you what she wants from you.





you need to step up and ask yourself... how much is she worth to you? how far would you go to make her happy? put every ounce of effort into it and give her the best day ever. this will put her in the mood where shes more likely to talk. once you get her talking... you're home free.Problems with my 8 yr relationship!! Need advice!!?
maybe you 2 should try a relationship counselor. see what happens from there. 8 yrs is a long time to just let things go. the issue is deeper than sex. hopefully she's smarter than to go and cheat on you.
f**k that cheatin *****


get yourself a friend thats a female and see how that ho acts then


ignore her